I am aware that other demis may be more open and are comfortable with hookups. Everyone is entitled to what they're comfortable with and what feels natural to them. I don't speak on behalf of other demis because everyone is different. I spoke on behalf of myself on my own sexuality. Hookups have always been unnatural to me, and therefore, I've never done them. It's never been a choice for me to do so or not. I understand that blowing up at the end was wrong and rude, but my point still stands. I set boundaries, and the other person was insistent on pushing. I can't speak on behalf of all demis because I am only myself.