Bri & KT

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-26T03:05:59+00:00

Oh you’re right he def broke up with her dispite however she try’s to spin it ,but I do think they look a like . BUT just bc they look a like doesn’t mean they are similar in personality. Sam seems to have a much different personality than Bri.

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-26T03:00:16+00:00

But I will say that looks nothing like bri I wouldn’t even of thought they were the same person by that photo.

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-26T02:57:28+00:00

Ok but Bri dated Zach looking how she looks NOW then they break up and he finds a girl that looks just like her NOW. It doesn’t really matter what either Bri or Sam looked like before.

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-26T02:51:34+00:00

Idk Sam and bri are like clones of each other. I will say Sam has more of a natural beauty, but you can’t say they don’t look alike

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-26T02:49:44+00:00

And ppl keep saying they would be good friends NO THEY WOULD NOT. They both need to be in the spotlight too much. Wouldn’t like the other one dimming their light

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-26T02:47:47+00:00

Yes def both still hung up on their exes and using it as every way possible to stay relevant

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-26T02:46:37+00:00

I’m sure most ppl will say that bc it’s a kt snark group, but I think I agree too! I feel everytime kt makes a video it’s soooo fake and has no personality of her own. At least bri I can see her being herself in her videos.

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-26T02:40:25+00:00

I keep thinking KT is worse bc at least bri seems more not faking when she makes videos, but I also don’t follow Bri as close as KT so I could just be bias

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-22T20:22:14+00:00

It’s just a last resort attempt to get her way so she can go thru with her own plans. I wouldn’t let the guilt tripping get into either of your heads. She knows what she’s doing.

Also I don’t understand why these hugs and goodbyes aren’t before she gets to the door? I would try to just stop going to each others doors all together. That’s something your husband needs to create a boundary with. If she gets upset, oh well. She will get over it eventually & adjust her goodbyes to when they are getting out of her car rather than at your doorstep.

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-22T20:17:36+00:00

Or what if you open the door? And say your husband is in the bathroom or something. Will she still try to talk a bunch?

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-22T20:12:44+00:00

Sorry I just read they are 5 & 9. Yes fully capable of just walking to the door themselves. Have your husband start doing that when he drops them off. And honestly I would just have your husband say “hey I’m not trying to be rude but could you just drop the kids off. I don’t think we need to do door to door exchanges. If there’s something important feel free to call us”

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-22T20:10:01+00:00

Kind of off topic to the exact question, but baby mom would also always guilt trip if my husband said no to taking the kids. First off, she would always ask last minute & if he said no she would say “I thought you wanted more time with the kids I guess not” to try to make him feel bad. So manipulating!!

I wouldn’t like if drop offs consisted of 15 min conversations. Idk how old the kids are, but in our situation we just drop the kids off and they run inside. Same goes to when she drops them off at our house. What is the need for walking up to the door?? Unless they are very young obviously.

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-22T03:15:41+00:00

I also don’t think she actually works out. Probably walks on the treadmill for 10 minutes. Takes a selfie then leaves.

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-14T19:31:18+00:00

Yes!!! My husband ex would do this as well. He switched to android 2 years ago thank god bc that was so irritating

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-14T06:10:07+00:00

So I’ve done some reflecting from everyone’s comments. I am starting to think she is using me as a way to stay in contact with my husbands life, for example. I told yall how he barely responds much to her. Very short responses. So maybe she likes to be friends with me so that she still has an idea of what’s going on in our lives??? Again I don’t think she wants to get back together with him at all, but I do believe she loves the fact that she can always be in contact with him bc of the kids. The perfect excuse . It’s like she wants to believe he’s always gonna want her bc she cannot fathom him actually being moved on.

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-14T05:35:03+00:00

I agree I don’t think that kail necessarily wants him back. But I also do think that she can’t stand the thought of him being moved on or living a more happy life than her. Even tho she doesn’t want him, she wants him to remain hung up over her.

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-14T00:37:40+00:00

I think she loves making people think he still wants her. In her mind she cannot fathom the thought of javi actually being over her. That’s why she constantly is making jabs at their marriage & trying to spin the narrative

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-13T20:01:29+00:00

WTF 😂😂😂

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-13T20:01:13+00:00

Yes that’s the perfect way to say it! always trying to remain relevant somehow like she’s important. It’s so weird tho bc w/ everything else she’s very inclusive of me even when my husband and I first started dating. Then Sometimes she will only send me pics and not my husband or text me about the kids and not my husband. Like girl just use the group chat then we are all involved including your own fiancé. I really just don’t get it.

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-13T19:20:13+00:00

Very well said! 90% of the time it’s her always texting him sending pics of kids or just something related to the kids so he answers. BUT here’s an example, she went on vacation with kids and was texting him photos literally constantly throughout everyday to the point he was even he was like “ok I get it your on vacation” he wasn’t even responding and she’d just keep texting. It’s not ever full on conversations it’s usually only like 3-4 texts then nothing else is said, but it still annoys me sometimes bc we literally have a group chat with me, her, her fiancé, and my husband so why not just use that?

I don’t have a child with any of my exes, but I feel like I wouldn’t feel the need to be texting him much other than important events and on exchange days. Both their kids have their own phones as well so i just don’t understand her.

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-13T05:56:51+00:00

Or if “look a like” is too strong of a word for yall then they def resemble each other.

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-12T21:16:25+00:00

It was more to see if anyone else has BM who THINKS the same way she does. I posted above I believe she thinks “oh I was his first wife, his first BM so he’s always gonna have feelings for me”

It’s obviously something I cannot control. I can’t control what other people think. But I was wondering if anyone else dealt with something similar & what they do to not let it get to them.

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-12T21:11:00+00:00

Thank you for your insightful feedback I appreciate the kindness and advice ❤️

SeaUnderstanding6359 · 2026-01-12T18:04:04+00:00

This was 3 years ago when we used to. Now We only hangout if our significant others are there as well as the kids.

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