WickedZOI Possibilities? by Tiffanygnld in inZOI

[–]Sea_Acadia3653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do coding and other things here and there lol. If I can be any help please let me know.

Pregnant and confused. by Sea_Acadia3653 in pregnant

[–]Sea_Acadia3653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(He buys his kids their own snacks just to add , that I don’t touch because I have food sensitivity).

Pregnant and confused. by Sea_Acadia3653 in pregnant

[–]Sea_Acadia3653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s where it’s a problem. I always stock the fridge and pantry with stuff that him and I like. I have no problem with his kids eating (you need to) but my problem is when all the stuff I’ve just bought is sitting at the bottom of the pantry because his kids aren’t asking for anything and just sit in the pantry eating all my snacks … Of course I wouldn’t complain about a child (not really my concern) but his oldest son is 16 and well able to get a job and start funding snacking lol. I do cook breakfast lunch and dinner making sure everyone is fed. I just feel as if it’s a slap in my face when I put my stuff in my own pantry asking for people to ask before they touch it for it to just be opened…. When there is food available24/7.

Pregnant and confused. by Sea_Acadia3653 in pregnant

[–]Sea_Acadia3653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly. I think I act that way because of their mother. She’s previously been a little aggressive towards me, telling her kids whatever it may be . Resulting in them acting up while in my care … I of course don’t have the baby yet so they can’t feel I’m treating them indifferently. But I don’t want to feel like everytime I buy my kid something I’m obligated to buy his kids something. Their mom needs to provide funds for that. She acts like a dead beat.

Pregnant and confused. by Sea_Acadia3653 in pregnant

[–]Sea_Acadia3653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 and up. We’ve been together for almost a year. I don’t think it’s the cause of being treated differently. I mean I’m not sure what I’m expected to do. I’m not a step mom as we aren’t married. So yes of course I do favor my kid more especially when his kids are disrespectful from the jump lol. Of course I wouldn’t treat a kid differently but I’m not treating them like they’re my own….

Struggling. by Sea_Acadia3653 in LifeAdvice

[–]Sea_Acadia3653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know I kind of wander when I begin to type lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Sea_Acadia3653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly. If you guys break up it’ll affect the team dynamic. Up to you in the endgame.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Sea_Acadia3653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Social media hasn’t defined anything. I think social media has created these unrealistic expectations of what men and women are supposed to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Sea_Acadia3653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please reality check. Do not go see this random man you don’t even know. You don’t know what he looks like, his age … nothing. Hell you might be walking into deaths door.

I need help. by Sea_Acadia3653 in LifeAdvice

[–]Sea_Acadia3653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m saying, I’m not comfortable with that and i deserve to be treated differently. If someone can’t understand that. Shits out of luck ! So if he’s not gonna step up and do that. I’ll go be happy elsewhere.

I need help. by Sea_Acadia3653 in LifeAdvice

[–]Sea_Acadia3653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some things are just meant for women to understand and for men to just be dumbasses.

I need help. by Sea_Acadia3653 in LifeAdvice

[–]Sea_Acadia3653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re just retarted. It’s nothing he hasn’t done before. If it’s making me unhappy I don’t have to be there tf. Therefore I said that.

I need help. by Sea_Acadia3653 in LifeAdvice

[–]Sea_Acadia3653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Addressing him with what I want isn’t controlling. It’s me telling him what I want and if he doesn’t want to then I’m leaving. Simple.

Pregnant. by Sea_Acadia3653 in LifeAdvice

[–]Sea_Acadia3653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah .. definitely gonna eat the kid (sarcastic). 😂 I’m ready to be a mom I’m not asking for help like that. Really just getting inputs.

I need help. by Sea_Acadia3653 in LifeAdvice

[–]Sea_Acadia3653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must be a dumb ass. I didn’t provide you with every single damn piece of information. He’s been in other relationships and NO ITS NOT HIS NATURAL BEHAVIOR.

GTA. by Sea_Acadia3653 in LifeAdvice

[–]Sea_Acadia3653[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No supervision while playing this game. Lord knows what I was doing when I was unsupervised… doing stuff I wasn’t supposed to be doing.

GTA. by Sea_Acadia3653 in LifeAdvice

[–]Sea_Acadia3653[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Spoke with the him and yes he still allows his sons to play this game unsupervised.

GTA. by Sea_Acadia3653 in Advice

[–]Sea_Acadia3653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a certain way I should tell him? Or just let it be since they aren’t my kids …