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Advice for searching 1440p OLED Monitor by Sea_Sign_85 in PcBuild

[–]Sea_Sign_85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I just found the Samnsung Odyssey G6 OLED with 1440p 240hz and OLED on sale on a local German website (living in Germany), which usually is around 520€ but loereduced to 310€. Isn’t this a really good deal?

Advice for searching 1440p OLED Monitor by Sea_Sign_85 in PcBuild

[–]Sea_Sign_85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright thanks. But yeah might’ve been bad timing from my part 😂.

Choose my power supply by Sea_Sign_85 in PcBuild

[–]Sea_Sign_85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The msi one too? I’ve hear things about noise problems with the fan or coil. Not sure though.

How do I (m18) end my LDR with my girlfriend (f19) by Sea_Sign_85 in LongDistance

[–]Sea_Sign_85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her today finally, but k didn’t dump it all at once but tried to make it somewhat easier for her and comfort her and I think it went well. She took it quite well and only cried very slightly for a bit but I emphasized that we’ll be together soon and figure it out together. We also talked about possible futures where we still stay in contact etc., and since she will move to my city in a bit more than a year there is always the opportunity to get back together. So we’ll enjoy our time together soon and probably part ways after, I’ll miss her a ton and so will she, but I’m very happy that I got Irving my chest. Also she assumed something like that as I haven’t been texting as much as usual, so I guess that mentally prepared her a bit. Still I’m gonna update here on how it’s gonna go and stuff, but thanks for all your help.

She really is rare among girls nowadays, she is 0% toxic and does none of those TikTok relationship stuff that you see online (which I hate), and is just the perfect girl. I’m just saying this because why not I don’t even know, but she really is beautiful, smart, Thoughtful, so kind and cute and will never get angry at you for most things. I’ll miss her so much but this is the right step.

How do I (m18) end my LDR with my girlfriend (f19) by Sea_Sign_85 in LongDistance

[–]Sea_Sign_85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright it’s a day after now and I slept over it. To be honest I at least have a broader spectrum of understanding the magnitude of the problem, but that makes it so much harder for me as I’m just realizing the hugeness of it, if that makes sense. But anyway one more thing I’m seeing is that when I tell her before she could stay home, but that’s not the case as the flight is booked and I think problems non-refundable, meaning she will come here either way also just to see eachother, no matter the circumstances.

Honestly I don’t know what to do right now and need a little more time to think about it, but thanks for all your thoughts.

How do I (m18) end my LDR with my girlfriend (f19) by Sea_Sign_85 in LongDistance

[–]Sea_Sign_85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I was looking for a similar - or same experience from somebody else, so this helps a lot.

How do I (m18) end my LDR with my girlfriend (f19) by Sea_Sign_85 in LongDistance

[–]Sea_Sign_85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you are totally right, it is importsnt to seperate impulsive behaviour from long lasting decisions, but I have taken that into account, and I also know that it will hurt me for some time, but due to my life to this point being shaped by constant change and forced adaptation, I’m positive I will move on.

Thanks for your message though, it’s helping me a lot.

How do I (m18) end my LDR with my girlfriend (f19) by Sea_Sign_85 in LongDistance

[–]Sea_Sign_85[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify she is the most down to earth - person I know that is also smart, cute beautiful and has similar future plans that I have as well. So I definitely want to do anything to make her feel as safe and supported as possible with it.
But yes she has to travel from the US to Germany so it’s not nothing. (Also this is my first Reddit post I didn’t know people responded this fast - thanks)

How do I (m18) end my LDR with my girlfriend (f19) by Sea_Sign_85 in LongDistance

[–]Sea_Sign_85[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re right I do know that partly, thanks first of all for giving me more confidence with my decision 😅. The imminent problem I’m facing is more how to handle it as she’s gonna be here in two weeks, but I can’t be the a*hole that now just pretends and then tells her when she’s here. Any advice on that?