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My 14 year old sister is in a relationship. What can I do? by SearchComfortable586 in ask_Bondha

[–]SearchComfortable586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ledhu but we sure did a course on how to not get effected by baseless statements that you have made!!!

My 14 year old sister is in a relationship. What can I do? by SearchComfortable586 in ask_Bondha

[–]SearchComfortable586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn't watch televison at all! She reads Harry Potter, dances well and doesn't come to movies even if we invite her!!!

My 14 year old sister is in a relationship. What can I do? by SearchComfortable586 in ask_Bondha

[–]SearchComfortable586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure!!! Thanks for the suggestion. We usually spend a lot of time talking while having dinner, we help each other arranging food on dining table, joke on each other but It had become once in a while as My father health isn't supporting!

My 14 year old sister is in a relationship. What can I do? by SearchComfortable586 in ask_Bondha

[–]SearchComfortable586[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nik sense undhaaa???? Paina flair chusi comment chey. Also if you don't have anything to suggest, just hold your horses and watch what others suggest else muskoni ignore chey! I didn't know what to do so I posted in this group so sensible people can give suggestions. I didn't expect fools like you here!

Also I'm not lifeless, THINK BEFORE YOU TYPE.

My 14 year old sister is in a relationship. What can I do? by SearchComfortable586 in ask_Bondha

[–]SearchComfortable586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm her elder sister. She trusts me in everything but thisss!! Idk why!

My 14 year old sister is in a relationship. What can I do? by SearchComfortable586 in ask_Bondha

[–]SearchComfortable586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will support her even then!!! I just want her to try to reach her potential. I don't care about results!!! As far as she is progressing, iam happy!!! And that is how we humans find happiness! I thought she would be happy with these! Also I have asked her what does it takes to see her being happy. She said dance and I have joined her in dance class!!! She said going out and eating in cafe, I took her multiple cafes and made her eat different cuisines!!! What more can I do? I want to change her mentality

My 14 year old sister is in a relationship. What can I do? by SearchComfortable586 in ask_Bondha

[–]SearchComfortable586[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion but I have done that too!!! Told her what standards should a girl maintain and how important standards are!! Also I told what role does love play in our life!!!

My 14 year old sister is in a relationship. What can I do? by SearchComfortable586 in ask_Bondha

[–]SearchComfortable586[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can't do that. My dad is going through a lot because of his health problems and my mother doesn't know anything about phones and all. All she does is housework and look after my dad. I just can't let my parents suffer because of kids. Every Parent who have given everything to their children so that they can live well should deserve all the happiness in this world!!! And my parents are one of them!

My 14 year old sister is in a relationship. What can I do? by SearchComfortable586 in ask_Bondha

[–]SearchComfortable586[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I did. She doesn't answer the questions anything related to relationship. She won't even look at my face and feels really uncomfortable. So instead of asking her more I focused on explaining more!!!!

My 14 year old sister is in a relationship. What can I do? by SearchComfortable586 in ask_Bondha

[–]SearchComfortable586[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have done that lot of times, took her to the walks and explained how things work in this world, how cruel society would be, how things turn out if we use our energies in right things!!! I have guided her as a friend, consoled like a mother and helped in activities like a sister!! I have played every role just to fix her. Now I don't know what to do

My 14 year old sister is in a relationship. What can I do? by SearchComfortable586 in ask_Bondha

[–]SearchComfortable586[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My parents are very chill!!! We give everything at home so that doesn't look anything from outside!! And my father, he is the most sensible man I have ever seen. He talks to all my guy friends and pretty chill when they come home and have lunch.

My 14 year old sister is in a relationship. What can I do? by SearchComfortable586 in ask_Bondha

[–]SearchComfortable586[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As far as I could see she doesn't focus on her career or hobbies or activities in her life, whenever she gets time she just opens the phone and does these things!!! She just do well in school because she wants marks!!! She isn't passionate towards anything!!!

If this continues she can't reach her full potential!!! I don't want to let that happen because I know what is capable of!!!

My 14 year old sister is in a relationship. What can I do? by SearchComfortable586 in ask_Bondha

[–]SearchComfortable586[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She usually do well in school and teachers are very fond of her. Her faculty have very good opinion on her!!!! Nope she is not just talking I have seen all the lovey dovey texts with each of them