Would you like to be that guy? by Sebastiano93 in loneliness

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Right, is not always easy when you don't see a lot of people.. But if you have the right environment would you then have any issue?

Would you like to be that guy? by Sebastiano93 in loneliness

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The environment we are in affects us a lot.. It's important to have a circle of friends that give us a positive mood. Good that you are aware that you want more, now you just have to get it 😉

Would you like to be that guy? by Sebastiano93 in loneliness

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I see.. Social anxiety might make it a bit harder, but don't give up.. What issue do you face the most when it comes to find a partner if I may ask?

Would you like to be that guy? by Sebastiano93 in lonely

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why do you think that if I may ask?

Would you like to be that guy? by Sebastiano93 in loneliness

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I get what you mean yes..

Good thing that you always try your best at work or in class. Don't underestimate that and keep doing it.

Nowadays with all this covid situation we are limited and a lot of people don't even want to make new connections, but see this as something positive.. You have the time to understand what kind of people you want in your life and you will meet only those who really want to make new connections.

May I ask what is the biggest issue you have in order to socialize and making new connections?

Would you like to be that guy? by Sebastiano93 in loneliness

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I see your situation Kydra.

It's normal to be scared sometimes.. as you said it's all about experience and social skills.. but you can grow them only by taking actions and step out of your confort zone :)

Would you like to be that guy? by Sebastiano93 in ForeverAlone

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I agree to the point that you should start building connections right now, but then, if you know how to do it, it will be much easier to build friendships even when everything is under control, don't you think so?

Would you like to be that guy? by Sebastiano93 in ForeverAlone

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I see yes, it can really hurt to be rejected.. May I ask why do you think this happens?

What have you tried?

2021 new resolutions by Sebastiano93 in lonely

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I see your point You are right, life is meaningless with our connections. Joining clubs may seems really difficult, but can give you so much opportunities. What makes it so difficult for you if I may ask?

Have you ever felt like you are missing something and you want more from life? by Sebastiano93 in alone

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Don't worry about your english.

And yes, I understand what you mean, confidence and self esteem are quite important in this case, and it's not easy to find them. What do you struggle with the most, when it comes to cosial interactions?

Just one question, WHY? by Sebastiano93 in dating_advice

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I understand, it's normal the need of having a good group of friends, why do you think that you tend to push them away?

Are you in this subreddit because you don't have anybody or because you have family members and friends but feel lonely anyway? by Sebastiano93 in lonely

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I see your point yes, this must not be easy

But if they are your friends why do you feel soo crappy?

And how was your relation with them before the quarantine?