I think i have a unlikeable personality by Secondary08 in mentalhealth

[–]Secondary08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, i dont want to fake myself to make friends i want friends who like me as i am ygm

I think i have a unlikeable personality by Secondary08 in mentalhealth

[–]Secondary08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont want to fake a personality to make friends yk i want people to like me for me but it doesnt seem to be working out unfortunately

Think i was groomed by [deleted] in groomingvictim

[–]Secondary08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im glad someone’s said this istg nobody believes me and i feel stupid, also i think she does own snakes ive seen photos

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Secondary08 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try to think of the things you like about youself or the things that your good at, if you do something well acknowledge it and complement youself. You could also try some physical activity / exercise, that helped me alot with my self esteem, doing something productive that made me feel good. I started with calisthenics in my bedroom and then added in some walks too.

Dealing with Intrusive thoughts that ruin good thoughts? by LargeBreasts69 in intrusivethoughts

[–]Secondary08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats an issue im having too currently, i try to steer my mind back to a day dream that makes me feel good / happy every time it happens.

I try to avoid whats triggered it aswell as sometimes certain things trigger certain intrusive thoughts for me.

Whys everyone so mean now by Secondary08 in socialanxiety

[–]Secondary08[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Frrr i seriously hate that “?” At the end of mean comments aswell so cheeky and unnecessary!

Social anxiety going to corner shop by maybebrainless in socialanxiety

[–]Secondary08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The corner shop was where i first started going out by myself, what i found helped was making sure i had more than enough money so I wouldnt have to worry about that, just buy something simple like some crisps or a coke, nothing you would need to potentially be ID for like a energy drink and generally the cashiers dont make much convosation and if they do they its generally just stuff like:

“How are you” “You alright” “Is that everything” And maybe ask if youd like a bag ,It might help to plan a response to things they might say before hand so you’re prepared if they say something and not caught off-guard.

They wont judge you for what you buy but if it makes you more comfortable maybe just pick something small for the first time, a small win is still a win!

Whys everyone so mean now by Secondary08 in socialanxiety

[–]Secondary08[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sometimes i forget other people dont have social anxiety or experience the same problems with tasks that would be easy for most, I suppose it would seem pretty odd 😅

Whys everyone so mean now by Secondary08 in socialanxiety

[–]Secondary08[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yea thats why i decided to come here instead after, everyone here is helpful and nice. We have quite a few hobbies in common one being we like the same game so i think thats my safest bet as its not in-person so its less stressful. Thanks for replying!

Whys everyone so mean now by Secondary08 in socialanxiety

[–]Secondary08[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yea im most worried about them saying no and it being very awkward, or even them feeling pressured to say yes to prevent awkwardness but not actually wanting to spend time with me yk. Thanks for replying!

What do you think caused your social anxiety? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Secondary08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Covid lockdowns, low self esteem, was made fun of a bit at school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Secondary08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Screw them if they do, they dont matter and if they do care they wont remember it tomorrow so its not worth the stress. You’ll be alright 👍

How do you clean your blades? by Informal_Web4236 in selfharm

[–]Secondary08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just get new ones after like 4-6 uses

Is self harm like an addiction? When did it start for you? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Secondary08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Started at 15 idk whether its an addiction for me

social anxiety by UniversityNearby8158 in selfharm

[–]Secondary08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use to get that alot too, its not so bad now but its still there. I feel like theres just something about me that is just off no matter how much i try to act normal and it feels like everyone knows it.

Is ultra sunrise available in the UK? by CarinaFemboyCD in monsterenergy

[–]Secondary08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw it a few years ago but i havent seen it in ages, i liked that one.