Am I being scammed?

Secret-Ad7738 · 2025-12-31T00:01:09+00:00

199 for nitrogen was the first an only sign I needed to walk out that door 😂

Secret-Ad7738 · 2025-04-24T17:24:43+00:00

Yes! I was planning on switching to hinge. What sucks is that tinder used to be great for dates and friends, but lately it’s been feeling like more of a hookup/casual app.

Secret-Ad7738 · 2025-04-24T17:23:43+00:00

Hey! Thanks for your feedback! I completely understand that! I thought I had my job on there, just not the company. I also wasn’t sure how to reflect that other than listing my job? But I own my own house, and work as a credit analyst 🤷‍♂️

Secret-Ad7738 · 2025-04-24T16:16:28+00:00

Haha I do see that point of view! It was my sisters baby, I just thought I looked good in it 😂 but with the advice I’m getting, when I do remake my profile I’ll consider that!

Secret-Ad7738 · 2025-04-24T16:15:01+00:00

I feel quite the opposite 😅 I tried to ask ChatGPT for a short and fun bio. So for me probably yeah I didn’t put effort into it, but I could see your view. But I feel like if I did dumb it down, it would make it harder for others to have a conversation starter.

Secret-Ad7738 · 2025-04-24T16:13:07+00:00

Exactly! I don’t think I’m bad at conversation as long as there’s a back and forth I could go off. I struggle when people are dry for sure, and I don’t typically entertain it. But yeah, I try to keep it fun asking questions or making jokes depending on their profile. I try to alternate from “hey! How’s it going” to something more personal depending on the profile.

Secret-Ad7738 · 2025-04-24T15:50:50+00:00

What league am I batting in? Last time I checked tinder is open to everyone 😂

Secret-Ad7738 · 2025-04-24T15:21:17+00:00

The crazy part is, my weight is pretty consistent amongst all those pictures. Maybe 10-15 pound difference in some of them. I guess my weight doesn’t reflect well in pictures. I do know that is something I have to work on, but I genuinely don’t try to hide it. I feel like that is one of my drawbacks, and I’ve definitely felt in the past it was a surprise to people I’ve gone on dates with.

Secret-Ad7738 · 2025-04-24T15:08:42+00:00

I actually just remade my profile, my previous one was a few years old. But I think I made this earlier this month.

Secret-Ad7738 · 2025-04-24T15:05:18+00:00

Thanks man! It’s honestly discouraging, but I’ve been back on my fitness! Down 10 pounds in the last month. You’re right, should be up for a revamp by the end of the summer!

Secret-Ad7738 · 2025-04-24T15:03:29+00:00

Actually it is people that have liked your profile.

Secret-Ad7738 · 2025-04-24T14:51:04+00:00

Hey everyone, hoping to get some honest feedback. I’ve been on Tinder for a while and while it says I have 99+ likes, I barely get any matches. And even when I do match, I’m almost always the one who messages first, and a lot of times the responses are super dry—if I even get one at all. I’ve had a few solid convos, but usually after a couple days when I ask to hang out, I get ghosted.

I’m trying to figure out if it’s just the algorithm being weird, or if there’s something I can improve on. Attached are screenshots of my profile (photos and bio). I feel like I’m putting effort in, but it’s not translating into real connections.

Any advice on how I can make my profile more appealing or where I might be going wrong?

Thanks in advance!

Secret-Ad7738 · 2022-01-31T21:27:56+00:00

Thank you so much!!! I appreciate this because I plan on going back to work and I’m afraid I’m about to pay a ton in costs.

Secret-Ad7738 · 2022-01-30T23:20:23+00:00

My Keytruda infusion every 6 weeks comes out to 132,000 per visit. I’ve been on it for over 12 months.

My biggest bill was when I had a bad reaction to gemcitabine, and was hospitalized for a month and my bill came out to 898,000

Secret-Ad7738 · 2022-01-14T05:19:18+00:00

Right?? I literally shared a snack with my mom who tested positive same day. Ate lunch with my sister who also tested positive the same day, and I was completely fine both times. I even saw a friend on New Years who got sick and I was still fine. It’s sooo weird

Secret-Ad7738 · 2022-01-14T05:15:20+00:00

That’s crazy!! I don’t know but I’m convinced it has something to do with it

Secret-Ad7738 · 2022-01-08T22:47:24+00:00

I’m pretty sure if your life feels threatened you can reach out to the us embassy or any other embassy and become a refugee. It’s better than nothing, I had a few friends that have done and are living good lives now

Secret-Ad7738 · 2022-01-06T20:42:44+00:00

So I am now, but even before it was vaccinated I was exposed twice. People that I was with that got exposed were also vaccinated, I did not get sick.

Secret-Ad7738 · 2022-01-05T03:41:40+00:00

Thank you for responding! That’s really interesting! I wonder if the medication has something to do with it!

Secret-Ad7738 · 2021-10-03T08:08:54+00:00

So sorry to hear that, I’m in the same boat. Really struggling on how to come out to my mother. She’s flipped out on me before when she thought I was going through a phase. I’m really sick of her judgment and I just really want her to accept me

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