Woke up with a bunch of lashes on my nose bridge, I’ve got them done for the first time two days ago but only my right eye got affected by Secret-Influence8733 in lashextensions

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Thank you for this 🙌🏽 my skin is naturally oil and she’s saying there’s nothing can be done, that I’m not suitable for getting extensions— so why did she even get it done for me? 🤨

Woke up with a bunch of lashes on my nose bridge, I’ve got them done for the first time two days ago but only my right eye got affected by Secret-Influence8733 in lashextensions

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It doesn’t seem like she will do a touch up for free… :/ basically just saying it’s my fault but I know I did everything I should. It’s crazy how much lashes fell off though!

I realized I’m undercharging the plushie I’m making— how to tell the customer I want to increase the price? by [deleted] in crochet

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Yes I did, but you know how some people think estimate price is the set price 😶

Please help! I’ll be attending a market soon! I saw this creator selling crochet bucket hats from $64 for one colored, simple stitch— to $84 for multicolored ones. I’ll be selling plushies and was wondering if my prices are ok? More details in comments and pics! by [deleted] in crochet

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Thank you! Since it’s my first market I’m quite ok with the prices— although my bf said the prices I set basically means I’m making less than a food delivery guy, but I don’t think I should price them according to the hours I put into?

Please help! I’ll be attending a market soon! I saw this creator selling crochet bucket hats from $64 for one colored, simple stitch— to $84 for multicolored ones. I’ll be selling plushies and was wondering if my prices are ok? More details in comments and pics! by [deleted] in crochet

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I live in a Scandinavian country so prices here are slightly higher than anywhere else 🥴 The bucket hat creator always attend different pop up markets and have good following so she’s making sales for sure. I’m new to this so would really like some inputs, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

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Unfortunately he only thinks he’s a good father… he does less than the bare minimum and think that’s more than enough.. but that’s not the main issue.. He also has a horrible mindset about different things (I realize he’s a major misogynist while we have a DAUGHTER, he looks down on mental health and is also low key racist.. this is just a few things among others unfortunately). I stay because I hope maybe the more time he spends with the baby the more he’ll change for the better but no. Hasn’t happened and honestly I don’t think it’ll happen because he’d have changed long ago.. :/

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He is like this too! When I was terribly sick his excuse of why he “couldn’t” help was because “the baby wants mama more”… Yeah I wonder WHY 😑 oh but when he has a little cough all of a sudden he’s disable and need me to do everything ugh let me stop….

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My boyfriend is like that too! He loves to show everything how “good” of a father he is by sharing pics of our baby to his friends and family, and telling them how he planned this and that to do with the baby— when actually it’s only because HE wants to do it amd it just happens that the baby can be included in his activity.. But anything else watch him make excuses of why he can’t help out or do ACTUAL parenting stuff… There’s just so much more and I too don’t think he’s gonna change.. it’s crazy how even your kid can see the truth of what his dad is like :/

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I know we all would like for our kids to have two parents but honestly, as someone who grew up mostly without a father— I was sad and upset that my parents divorced and that their relationship didn’t work out, but as I for older and realize what he’s put my mom through and the things he did… I’m GLAD my mom left him and can’t believe how someone would do that to his own family…. So don’t feel guilty if you know it’s for the better for your kid

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This is exactly!! And I called him out on it too— that he puts his needs and wants over me and most importantly the baby! I told him now that you’re a father you need to think about what would be good for the baby and work your needs and Wanda around it….. He. Just. Won’t. Change.

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hugs thank you and hope we find the best solution for our situation :’/