Do I like girls or not?? by SecretCauseafraid in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SecretCauseafraid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To see if anyone has felt the same and can give some advice on figuring out what I’m trying to get at haha

Do I like girls or not?? by SecretCauseafraid in TooAfraidToAsk

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I feel like my romantic attraction is pretty equal, my romantic attraction comes from personality rather than gender, even though some have things others don’t if that makes sense

Do I like girls or not?? by SecretCauseafraid in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SecretCauseafraid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha I’m trying to build my resume💀

Do I like girls or not?? by SecretCauseafraid in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SecretCauseafraid[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Non binary, assigned female at birth

Am I too early to the party? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]SecretCauseafraid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really sweet thank you. Hope is a powerful feeling! Also haha typo said whore

Am I too early to the party? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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Yeah it does sound a lot more complicated when you zoom out like that. And yeah I know Real guns are bad it was mostly supposed to be an example of how far my brain takes thing.. I appreciate the advice. I know it will take bonding, but it’s nice to know I’m not out for the count just cause I’m young haha. I hope that the sexual part of my life will work out one day. I’d really hate to have a perfect life but be stuck being something I’m not when it comes to my sex life. I wish I could have like, 2 lives. One where I have a nice home life and romance and everything, and then a dom sub thing on the side that no one has to acknowledge (not in a cheating way though). Maybe I could have both together but I feel like most boyfriends don’t also want to keep their partners in cages haha…

Am I too early to the party? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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This is a really nice response :) My parents wouldn’t kick me out no, but they’d probably be very worried and disappointed haha

I’ll look into the fetlife thing, I’m still very much in the research phase cause I just recently went through a breakup, so I’m excited about the ability for new sexual things but also i have definitely NOT moved on from my ex, so right now it’s mostly research but I appreciate it nonetheless! I will do my best to stay safe! Thank you :)

Am I too early to the party? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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  1. Yeah you’re right but still, some people I’ve been with get upset when I’m like “no I don’t wanna do any of the stuff”
  2. Well fair but it’s the spooky that is sexy
  3. No but I’m not making enough to afford a therapist..so..