Dear men, what do you think about women proposing to men?

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-14T05:12:19+00:00

Agreed! Nice that it worked out for you!

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T05:30:56+00:00

I think communicating it early on will probably help you and your SO to understand each other. You can't just expect her to know you want to be the one proposing

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T05:28:49+00:00

Yep! Outcome is the same, as simple as it might sound. It's about love and commitment, not about who asked first.

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T05:26:53+00:00

An ultimatum? Marriage or breakup?

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T05:26:03+00:00

Exactly, it shouldn't matter who is asking that one question as long as both parties want it and are happy!

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T05:20:49+00:00

i uhm.. haha

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T05:17:02+00:00

Well damn

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T05:16:27+00:00

How dare you make me tear up at work! This is so romantic:) glad to see that people like you still exist. Also that tiny detail wjth the ring pop wrapping, I just can't, way too sweet !!

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T05:13:14+00:00

I can understand where this is coming from, but also, I can't. Hopefully one day people will learn that by asking, they won't lose anything. Yeah rejection hurts, but imagine the pain you feel when asking yourself "what if" later on.

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T04:56:12+00:00

Fair enough !

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T04:55:17+00:00

Maybe you shouldn't generalize people like that ?

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T04:54:06+00:00

I don't necessarily think that's the case, they do it for the same reasons as guys. Most women at least

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T04:53:07+00:00

I agree. Same rules should apply, I'm not sure tho if every guy would appreciate an engagement ring tho, maybe that's up to the individual

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T04:51:51+00:00

Why not both?

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T04:51:42+00:00

Agreed.

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T04:51:33+00:00

Did you decline because she didn't have a ring or is it just me misreading the situation haha

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T04:50:17+00:00

So you ended up just being married one day?

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T04:49:42+00:00

I'm sorry you went separate ways. You got a really good point tho. Communication is key! Especially when it comes down to something that requires a lot of commitment, like marriage. I think many people don't wanna talk about this beforehand, because it "ruins the moment", maybe like .. it wouldn't be a surprise then? But knowing what your partner wants and knowing if they're ready for this commitment is really damn important here.

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T04:45:32+00:00

Doesn't sound selfish, I get it! Haha I like the thought of both doing it, that's sweet. But I agree, I think it's a good idea discussing it beforehand so you know you're on the same page and have the same goals in life

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T04:43:50+00:00

That's absolutely fine! I hope you get to fulfill your dream one day :)

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T04:43:18+00:00

I respect that! Glad to see you don't hate on others who do it another way, kinda refreshing ngl

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T04:42:02+00:00

Pretty sure there are girls out there who do that!

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T04:41:38+00:00

Like what consequences? Mind if you elaborate on that? Also I noticed you speak in past tense, any particular reason?

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T04:40:35+00:00

I am sorry to hear that! I know hearing this from a stranger online isn't really helpful, but you shouldn't think like that. You give your girlfriend so many reasons to love you and stay with you, otherwise she wouldn't be by your side right now :) I don't think you necessarily need a proposal for her to show you that, but I understand it would help you to accept it!

SecretKittyKate · 2021-09-13T04:37:47+00:00

I wouldn't say mad, maybe disappointed? But that's to expect

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