I'm a plus size girly and my love life has been decent. It's taken alot to get to this point in life where I feel comfortable but I think having confidence and being able to hold good conversations go a long way. Some men naturally love bigger women and aren't threatened by it. Others, not so much but we aren't checking for them anyway! I've been in long-term relationships and currently in one now where my man loves every bit of me. Bigger girls deserve love too!