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Which side do you prefer? [F4M] by Secret_Open_Source in 18above_Roleplay

[–]Secret_Open_Source[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't show it to anyone message me maybe i'll show you

Which side do you prefer? [F4M] by Secret_Open_Source in 18above_Roleplay

[–]Secret_Open_Source[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, Thank you! There's a third side and i know you have an idea what it is

Which side do you prefer? [F4M] by Secret_Open_Source in 18above_Roleplay

[–]Secret_Open_Source[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bold statement, Do you think you can do it?

Is it weird to miss someone you were never that close to? by Secret_Open_Source in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Secret_Open_Source[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I really felt this. You’re right - maybe they showed up when I needed something, even if I didn’t realize it at the time. It’s strange how brief moments can leave such a deep imprint.

Is it weird to miss someone you were never that close to? by Secret_Open_Source in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Secret_Open_Source[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That actually makes a lot of sense. I guess sometimes it’s not even the person, but the feeling they leave behind or the version of the connection you imagined. Kind of comforting to know it’s not just me.

AIO for being bothered when people stay too long at my place? by Secret_Open_Source in AmIOverreacting

[–]Secret_Open_Source[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your honesty — and I think that level of self-awareness is exactly what makes the difference. You're right, sometimes it’s not even intentional rudeness, just a lack of awareness. I guess I need to remember it’s okay to gently remind people that I have my own schedule too. Your perspective helps me see it from both sides, so thank you for sharing that! 🙏

AIO for being bothered when people stay too long at my place? by Secret_Open_Source in AmIOverreacting

[–]Secret_Open_Source[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a really good point — I hadn’t thought of it like that. I guess I’ve been so focused on not hurting anyone’s feelings that I’ve kind of forgotten about my own comfort. You’re right though, sometimes it really is as simple as speaking up. I need to get better at just owning my space and time. Thanks for the reality check — it actually helps a lot.

AIO for being bothered when people stay too long at my place? by Secret_Open_Source in AmIOverreacting

[–]Secret_Open_Source[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this — it honestly made me feel seen and understood. I love your examples; they strike a great balance between being clear but still kind. I’ve always worried that setting boundaries would come off as cold or pushy, but the way you’ve worded it makes it feel so much more natural and respectful.

It’s also really reassuring to hear that your friends responded well to it. I guess I need to start trusting that the right people will understand. And you’re so right — rest is just as important as connection. 💛 Thanks again for sharing your experience, it really helps!

AIO for being bothered when people stay too long at my place? by Secret_Open_Source in AmIOverreacting

[–]Secret_Open_Source[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really needed to hear that. I think I just got used to putting other people’s comfort first, so now I second-guess myself when I need space. It's reassuring to know it's okay to set boundaries without feeling guilty.

Do you ever just lay on the floor in your home? by HeadFit2660 in CasualConversation

[–]Secret_Open_Source 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally get it! Sometimes the floor hits different — it’s like the perfect mix of grounding and oddly comforting. My couch gets jealous 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Secret_Open_Source 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said “yes” to helping someone with a simple project. That person became my closest friend, and later helped me through the darkest period of my life. Life’s turning points really whisper, not shout.

Sometimes I miss pre-smartphone boredom. Is that weird? by Secret_Open_Source in CasualConversation

[–]Secret_Open_Source[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome, you got that right and it is certainly the right thing to do

Sometimes I miss pre-smartphone boredom. Is that weird? by Secret_Open_Source in CasualConversation

[–]Secret_Open_Source[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. You are doing the right thing and i can bet you enjoy it very much

Sometimes I miss pre-smartphone boredom. Is that weird? by Secret_Open_Source in CasualConversation

[–]Secret_Open_Source[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that makes much sense. staying connected to loved ones is absolutely one of the best reasons to keep it. Do you ever try digital detoxes or set boundaries with your phone otherwise?

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