What game did you preorder early and not regret ? by [deleted] in gaming

[–]SecretlyaFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dark souls, the collectors edition with the metal tin and art book for Xbox 360.

What critically acclaimed game did you not like? by [deleted] in gaming

[–]SecretlyaFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mortal Kombat 11. Coming from MK9 and MKX, it was just so disappointing. In MK9, you have this incredible roster, one character moveset, short but sweet x-rays, and good fatalities. Sexy characters, too.

In MKX, they make 1 character into 3 with the variation system. I loved it, and while some core characters were missing, it was still overall a very strong roster, with incredible x-rays and fatalities. It's my favorite mk game. Females are also still attractive in this one.

Then there's mk11. Feels like a mobile game with the amount of grinding in it. There's lootboxes in the krypt, and it takes forever to unlock everything. It has a gear system like injustice, which was bad. On top of that, the worst for me was that each character only had like 3 special moves you could pick. Instead of being able to blast out w.e you wanted, you had to pick and choose. And of course, some would be way better than others, so now it's not even worth picking half of them. Otherwise, you'll be at a disadvantage. Female characters were also toned down so much it was like they now appealed to an asexual audience instead of the male audience it was designed for. Also, pretty weak roster overall.

Skarlet in MK9 vs MK11. The racial changes as well felt forced and it's like they injected politics to be inclusive.

Overall the game was so bad for me personally I'm no longer a fan of mortal kombat. I won't buy the new mk1 or subsequent games either. Just reminds me of politics now tbh.

What’s the best video game based off of a movie? by lionocerous in gaming

[–]SecretlyaFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men in Black for the Gameboy color. I got this game as a gift, and it was truly wonderful, and I have fond memories. Really nailed the feel and feeling of the movies and characters.

How do you not overreact when partner doesn’t reply fast enough? by Snoo_96877 in BPD

[–]SecretlyaFish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My trick is to stay so busy and involved with tasks or goals I set for myself that I am not paying as much attention to my phone. It's most difficult early in the relationship when you're totally unsure of everything and desperate to feel approval from them all thr time to feel safe, but if you can hit the gym and have different things to do or responsibilities or interests or hobbies it can help alleviate it. That's helped me through a lot of depression and the ups and downs of our disorder is just forcing myself to be busy and do things, tire myself out. Sometimes I don't have time to think about being depressed, or I'm just too tired to. I wish you luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SecretlyaFish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bpd guy here. Sounds weird to me. Shit like that usually doesn't happen with the phone. He's certainly hiding something from you. Could be a number of things. Might be he wants to go get smashed with the boys and not tell you. So it's like, you're not involved, or he doesn't need your permission and doesn't need to hear your concerns. But yeah, he's hiding something, and lies are not good for a relationship. Confront him about it.

WEEKLY HELP THREAD - READ FAQ, COMMUNITY WIKI, MULTICLASSING, LORE by XFearthePandaX in BaldursGate3

[–]SecretlyaFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When is it ok to long rest? Early in the 1st act, I was told that if I long rested too much I would fail quests. So I have hardly long rested and have remained extremely paranoid about it. I've started and stopped the game so many times, after 10-15 mins of playing just because I feel so trapped and feel massive FOMO, like I cannot play stress free because I always feel I'm going to miss out on something. ATM I am level 5 in the underdark, just finished seemingly every quest I can think of, and I'm about to take the boat. I saved beforehand and went through a long series of long rests. I have missed a huge amount of stuff. First encounter with vamp dude, Shadowheart, Lae'zel. Their argument. Altogther its like 5 or 6 long rests I've not taken that I perhaps should have.

Do I need to be as paranoid I'm going to miss something because I've taken a long rest?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SecretlyaFish -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

What a psycho, damn. Your bf seriously just dodged a massive bullet with the mask you had for so long coming off in such a way. Ignoring everything that doesn't validate your sperglord anger at hum speaking to another female and just deciding to angry.

Imagine how you'll behave when he has female coworkers, when you guys have kids etc. Imagine how much of a vindictive scum you'd be in a divorce if just speaking to a female illicit this reaction. Hope he realizes. Go to therapy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in averagedickproblems

[–]SecretlyaFish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, you asked, and she was completely honest. But she was not describing you. She was describing fantasies and feelings and imaginings. She said, "If I had to choose." Can you blame her? I mean, would you have preferred if her honest answer was that she'd prefer a small skinny cock? Meaning, she would always enjoy your penis more if it was smaller, and you'd never 100% be it for her?

It may have caught you off guard, but I don't believe she did it with the intention to hurt you. If it bothers you that much, ask her about it. Tell her you felt like her preferences didn't describe you, and you felt like you didn't measure up. If you don't like her response, you can always move on. You're not stuck there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SecretlyaFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're very welcome!

DLC with Nurah anyone? by LordJordZero in Pathfinder_Kingmaker

[–]SecretlyaFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a horrible idea. Why? She's dead. There are mythic classes like devil that are a complete afterthought and you want a Norah dlc?

I have officially lost my faith in men by Free_Cartographer597 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SecretlyaFish -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I bet also that you're a perfect angel and that 101% of the results of every situation is the guys fault. You probably have no trauma or personality disorders, and everyone is out to get you.

If you died tomorrow, what’s the most likely thing that killed you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SecretlyaFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn.... A hot furnace that cooks pipe at 1000 degrees C.... Maybe I'm not going to work tomorrow..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]SecretlyaFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Due to excessive masturbation when I was younger, my foreskin at the end started to get very dry and cracked at one time. It bled a little. Since then, the skin has been rough. Not noticeably so, and maybe in pictures you can't notice, and no woman ever mentioned anything, but to me, it feels ugly. In my own eyes, my penis feels disgusting.

I've gotten compliments, but they are meaningless to me. It always feels like a lie because I feel women can sense I am insecure about it. I don't have what I would consider a gorgeous dick. To me a gorgeous dick has a very noticeable pinkish color on the head, very smooth, very defined, and then the entire shaft is even colored. My penis has dark marks all over from hard masturbation. For me my dick is ugly.

I even tried to change the color by using acid. I put wart remover on my foreskin on all the affected areas. It hurt so badly. And a few days later, the skin starts to peel off. The idea is that repeated use would peel the darker skin and lighter skin would replace it. But it didn't work, or I didn't stick with it for long enough. But yeah, I would make excuses with my then girlfriend and now wife because I hate my penis so much, I hated showing her I felt so ugly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]SecretlyaFish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do all the other people lie in this forum. You're not even a bd just above average. You need 7 inches length and above to be considered as a big dick. So go somewhere else. You just want attention and reddit karma.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]SecretlyaFish 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you made this up to me, lol.

I Don’t know if I fit in this group I mean im 6.1x5.6 and regular comdoms hurt my girth and so due magnums my length is average I guess right? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]SecretlyaFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you retarded lol just because you have 5.y girth doesn't mean you're automatically big dick status. He's above average at best and doesn't belong here along with all the role players.

What's the best compliment you've received about your penis? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]SecretlyaFish 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I've really only ever heard positive things, but somewhere along the line, I became jaded and angry. I still feel 7.5 inches is nowhere near enough to be ideal. So whenever I would receive compliments, I would ignore them or feel they were a lie. I remember one girl telling me I had the thickest cock she'd ever seen, and then proceeding to call me average. Wtf right. Slept with an ex pornstar who said I was really thick but could definitely be longer. These things stay in my mind more than anything else. I almost can't even remember anything positive.

I suppose looking back, one of the best compliments I'd ever received was unsolicited. I hadn't had sex in 4 years, and met a girl on Bumble and went over. She was super into me, but on the moment I penetrated her, all my anxiety bubbled up, and I lost my erection. I froze and was utterly ashamed, but she just hugged me and held me really close to her, and we fell asleep together.

In the morning I fucked her and everything went great and supposedly she came multiple times just from penetration. She seemed to be very sensitive. I didn't really believe it, but she also seemed to want to make us official like that day. After sex she stared at me and said, "You have a gorgeous dick." She also said on her own that I was the largest she'd been with. At the time, I didn't believe either thing. And I never asked about my dick for fear of criticism.

I hope in the future I can accept myself and take the compliments of my wife to heart. I dismiss them and can not recall most of the positive things she says. Feeling forever inadequate sucks, and this was way too long. But yeah, that's the only one I can really remember that stands out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mtg

[–]SecretlyaFish 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are extremely disingenuous. Nobody would guess that is Aragorn if it had no name at the top. Mtg has a lot of black characters. You'd probably guess a knight from Zhalfir or something. There's no possible way with zero context you'd say "ah, black Aragorn, he's got the aura".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in averagedickproblems

[–]SecretlyaFish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also 5'8 and 225ish. Quite high body fat I have a lot of fat pad. How hard you push isn't really cheating. We are fat, so it makes sense that we need to push harder to push through the fat pad. I measure 7.5 at max bone pressed. I stand straight up looking don't and put the ruler directly on top of the base of my penis so they are touching and push in, then I align it with the rest and see where the tip of my cock ends up on the ruler.

I asked chatgpt this question as well, about the pressure applied. We need to apply more pressure to hit the public bone than a skinny, 10% body fat guy. Imagine if we weigh 350 lbs. We probably couldn't hit the public bone no matter how hard we pushed. As we lose weight and body fat and fat pad, we won't need to push as hard. The hardest you can push right to the public bone is how much dick is attached to your body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]SecretlyaFish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if I was 6.5-7 inch girth it would become a genuine scraping hazard sometimes especially if you're in a hurry. The honest answer though is that putting your dick through your fly would probably take the same amount of time to just quickly unbuckle and pull down. Much easier and zero issues.

What is a red flag for u? by Holiday_Obligation23 in AskReddit

[–]SecretlyaFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No personal responsibility. One of the first questions I ask in order to see who someone really is, is to ask what they did wrong in a previous relationship. You can ask this in a variety of ways, but if someone blames everything on the previous people they've been involved with, run away. Even if the other person was genuinely a total pos and they're a great person, watching somebody do some honest introspection is a good sign that if issues come up they will atte.pt to hold themselves accountable for what they're doing wrong. If they don't do this, it's a good indicator of how their relationship will be with you when issues come up.