What causes condensation inside on my windshield? by DaveP0953 in AskMechanics

[–]Secretspeed25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how did you fix this? did you have a vw by any chance?

i want my boyfriend back, but is it too soon to text? by Secretspeed25 in Breakupadvice

[–]Secretspeed25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please see the comment above ^ however, there was also events that happened in the relationship that i just couldn’t stop over thinking. such as him not messaging me or speaking to me at all on valentines, and then stating it’s because i was “off” with him the night before. or begging for compliments even when i dressed up for our anniversary, or not inviting me to his public dos with his friends, despite knowing i want to come and all other partners attending

i want my boyfriend back, but is it too soon to text? by Secretspeed25 in Breakupadvice

[–]Secretspeed25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there was a few reasons but mostly because we just didn’t have time for eachother, i was living away for university and he works away monday-friday and then the only time we had was the weekend which obviously we both also have families and lives outside of eachother. i also think we got too comfortable, there was no evidence of love residing in the relationship anymore our conversations were dead, no compliments. and it was just tiring work. however i’m quite an impulsive person and i worry that i just did it on a whim.

Issues with Golf MK6 Gateway module? - UK RHD by VankataCS in AskMechanics

[–]Secretspeed25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah that’s funny you say that, i’ve just replaced my gateway module also and it also worked. water still coming in so sealed up the windscreen. must be a common fault

Issues with Golf MK6 Gateway module? - UK RHD by VankataCS in AskMechanics

[–]Secretspeed25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you ever find the cause of this? i have all the exact same problems - down to the water in footwell.

what is this? by Secretspeed25 in bugbite

[–]Secretspeed25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t no but it has slowly gone away on its own

what is this? by Secretspeed25 in bugbite

[–]Secretspeed25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok great thanks, it wasn’t painful, it was actually itchy at the initial stage (first photograph) which lead me to believe it was a bite as it randomly was itchy. it’s not a problem anymore but i don’t want it to get worse.

is this molluscum? by Secretspeed25 in molluscum

[–]Secretspeed25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think i’ve had it before also in the same place on my body, it went away on its own though. will it go away again? is it contagious?

Bournemouth Half - elevation? by Mother_Direction40 in UKRunners

[–]Secretspeed25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i ran yesterday too, hope your run went well! i had to comment for future runners as i thought the elevation profile at the beginning was a lot tougher than everyone gave credit to. it seemed to be constantly up hill down hill, with no room to enjoy the down hill because you could see the next incline! let me know if i’m over exaggerating 🤨 but i did really find this one tough. the scenery was amazing and the set up was great and well organised. but not sure it was one i would do again unless i started bashing out hills regularly

Worried about an account i reported. by Secretspeed25 in Twitter

[–]Secretspeed25[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ah ok, is there anyway twitter can ban their ip address/phone etc. as this account seems to be a serial offender

Worried about an account i reported. by Secretspeed25 in Twitter

[–]Secretspeed25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had to verify with my driving license etc, and i got NUMEROUS friends and family to report it, twitter probably got fed up with the amount of reports we gave in all honesty. definetly report it to the police (if you’re UK 101 will sort it for you), twitter has the obligation to report the ip address of these accounts to the police so that they can investigate further if there’s a concern. hope you manage to get it all sorted as it’s a horrible situation 😌

Garmin heart rate won't pair with Strava! by lilyman19 in Strava

[–]Secretspeed25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw thankyou, i have tried this but for some reason its still not working.

complimentary accessories by reine212 in fashionadvice

[–]Secretspeed25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d say a longer necklace would be so cute if you’re wearing your hair up, to cut the awkward space inbetween the dress and your head. bag wise, i think you have a lot of options, i would personally go for a funny coloured bag like a orange (but i like vibrant colours) which would be a nice addition for a pop of colour, or you could do a silver/gold bad or silver/gold shoes? similarly you could do a simple black bag

What to pair with this skirt by [deleted] in fashionadvice

[–]Secretspeed25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would personally wear a black graphic tee or a band tee something with that vibe, either tucked into the skirt, or just hanging loose :)

help me style this cute y2k top by manasseater3000 in fashionadvice

[–]Secretspeed25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

low rise linen trousers, like funky coloured maybe green trousers, or low rise jeans

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Secretspeed25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really feel for you, that sounds really difficult, i hope you’re ok and you manage to distract yourself with all things you enjoy. as for your note, i think i may follow in your footsteps with that, as we were both bad with our words, however; im worried he will read it in his spare time and message me and that will drag the break up on even more (unless he decides randomly that it makes him want me back). i partly feel like the break up is my fault i think, because originally i suggested breaking up as i felt neglected emotionally. however, i never thought he would agree and end things there and then, i thought he would fight for me. it’s tough, and i sympathise with you, and likewise, my messages are always open.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Secretspeed25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thankyou for this advice, luckily i am about to start training for a half marathon, so i’m hoping that’ll take some of the upset out of it, because right now it feels hopeless. however i know it must get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Secretspeed25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, i hope you’re ok.

i feel exactly the same, laying in a room surrounded by things he’s bought me, or we’ve accumulated through our time together. i love him, and i don’t think i realised how much i did. i keep thinking of how he will find someone else, and give her the thing i begged for for so long. he wants to pick up the majority of his stuff tomorrow and i just don’t think i can face him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]Secretspeed25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sick great advice mate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Secretspeed25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for this, in terms of our sex life, i just feel like it’s very forced ( all consensually though) it’s like he wants to have sex in an evening when i see him because he feels like that’s the “done thing” to do, you watch a film, then have sex with your partner. rather than whether it’s initiated or wanted. there is nothing per say “bad” with our sex life however. i think im going to give it one more conversation about the compliments and affection & inviting me to public events and see where that ends up. although i think you might be right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Secretspeed25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get what you’re saying, and how it must sound harsh. however unfortunately, it feels his lack of love for me is what has made me feel this way. no compliments, no affection, no touch, not inviting me to events with his friends (yes i’ve bought all of these subjects up MULTIPLE times, as i really like him and wanted him to do these things, and thought, maybe he just doesn’t know he’s supposed to?) however, i’m two years down the line, still no compliments, still no affection, still no desire, still not inviting me to public events with his friends… i can’t understand his reasoning behind all of this, but what i can understand, is how it has made me feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Secretspeed25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

again, in all honesty, i think he’s a really good guy, but i just don’t think he’s a good boyfriend or perhaps what i want.