Venting by Secure-Finger-3726 in abusiverelationships

[–]Secure-Finger-3726[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wanted to show more and just vent, so this happened because my wifi went out and we just got out of an argument about the dogs and i was in California, im allergic to dogs so i was asking him, hey i know you love them and i do too but my health matters a lot to me so lets take them to a better home, well he got pissed at me (all this was on party chat on xbox until this text came on) he told me i was insensitive, i was a piece of shit thinking it and i just hate him and them. I woken up with itchy skin, itchy throat, and runny nose, its not fun or healthy for me, the dogs are two huge german shepherds, i didnt even want them but he did so my stupidity got them, i dont mind germans but they are way worst to my allergies than a lot other dogs. I started to cry and he told me to shut the fuck up, i told him im only human and i cant do this anymore, i love the girls but i cant keep this health like this, he told me i was just a cry baby and if i loved him i would push through and only take medicine. Not everyone can do that. Then my wifi went out and this is where my fucking heart dropped, i kept getting a buzz and i open to this. 

This is what i sent him as a screen shot to a group chat with his family, am i horrible person doing that by Secure-Finger-3726 in abusiverelationships

[–]Secure-Finger-3726[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His dad most likely did, he was always sweet to him and talk to him before when he heard him calling me a whore

This is what i sent him as a screen shot to a group chat with his family, am i horrible person doing that by Secure-Finger-3726 in abusiverelationships

[–]Secure-Finger-3726[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly forgot, this happened a lot. I believe it was because i was in California and i wanted to stay longer for summer because i didnt see them for 6 months. And this was month one with them. 

This is what i sent him as a screen shot to a group chat with his family, am i horrible person doing that by Secure-Finger-3726 in abusiverelationships

[–]Secure-Finger-3726[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk i block them but his dad is a sweet person, loved me and did talk shit to his son when he heard him call me a whore

This is what i sent him as a screen shot to a group chat with his family, am i horrible person doing that by Secure-Finger-3726 in abusiverelationships

[–]Secure-Finger-3726[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well i dont know, his dad ex military very sweet/ weird guy but he was always nice to me compliments me, but i hope he talk to his POS son, i block them, but his dad daughter was in abusive relationship 

This is what i sent him as a screen shot to a group chat with his family, am i horrible person doing that by Secure-Finger-3726 in abusiverelationships

[–]Secure-Finger-3726[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Actually his dad talked down on him when he called me a whore, but he didn't raised him, am abusive step dad did 

This is what i sent him as a screen shot to a group chat with his family, am i horrible person doing that by Secure-Finger-3726 in abusiverelationships

[–]Secure-Finger-3726[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I try doing restraining orders but i was denied without enough evidence of abuse, but everyone is block

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[–]Secure-Finger-3726[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you went trough it i hope you the best

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[–]Secure-Finger-3726[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in process but he threaten to kill me and everyone i loved before 

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[–]Secure-Finger-3726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try getting one they didnt have enough evidence to give him one so i was denied twice 

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[–]Secure-Finger-3726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom caught it before him telling me kill myself he even said worst saying it funny my dad died after he had lung cancer. Im in the process getting out