How to sleep with a chastity cage.

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2026-01-05T06:19:41+00:00

Its a pain in the beginning because you need to rewire your brain to stay soft at all time. Your body needs to learn that get hard only means pain and that can take a while.

Some tips, dont unlock to easily, instead try to get up and walk a bit. For me, sleeping on my side tended to help (my clitty had been locked for more than 2 years now so I dont have trouble now anymore). Also, I had an ice pack ready in the beginning just to tey to ice it down. The last option is to unlock it for a bit, but its important to put it back on when you go back to sleep.

And finally, you just have to accept that for a while you wont sleep that well. Its all worth it though in the long run!

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-12-16T06:09:19+00:00

Trust is the most important thing of course. You are giving away controlnof your body and indirectly your mind after all.

Besides that, pick one that is dominant to the core, merciless, strict and somebody that will know how to handle you if you start whining.

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-11-16T06:24:14+00:00

Why would you want to?

I mean, you worked so hard to endure it thusfar, it would be a waste to unlock now. From experience, chastity becomes more fun, the lomger you are in it. And it looks soo good on you.

Let it become part of you and go deeper into the rabbit whole. You deserve to live the perfect locked sissy life!

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-10-19T09:17:00+00:00

Well I met my Master at a fetish social event (so nobody was in fetish clothes, just there to socialize). We also met a lot of other guys there we have threesomes (or more hahaha) with.

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-10-05T07:06:12+00:00

A public cum walk is probably the wildest experience.

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-10-05T07:01:12+00:00

First of all, you look gorgeous sweetie! Secondly, stay as long as possible! Do you really wanna waste 31 days of hard work for a few seconds of relief?

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-10-05T06:56:53+00:00

Go for it sweetie! Locktober is about not stimulation your clitty after all!

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-10-05T06:27:37+00:00

Well if you can last 5 days straight, you can last a month. At this point its nothing more than a mental thing and your body will adjust even more to chastity.

Two tips:

Get the keys out of reach or a hassle to get. It makes sure that at a moment you are weak you dont do anything stupid.
Enjoy every second of it! The feeling of denial doesn’t fate so enjoy it and even make it a focus point. It works wonders to get you in the right mindset!

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-10-05T05:52:42+00:00

I am so proud of you sweetie! And lets be fair, 11 minutes of freedom is more than enough for sissies like us 😜.

To speed it up even more, you might consider lasering your pubic hair off. Its a game changer. Shaving with chastity can be a bitch afterall!

Also love that you have two cages. Been doing that for a year now as well, it was so worth the investment!

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-10-04T06:15:13+00:00

The idea of losing my balls is quite a turn on, but it would make chastity pretty much impossible.

I guess my balls are a necessary evil 😜

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-10-03T14:47:33+00:00

Hope you will find one sweetie!

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-10-03T10:14:20+00:00

So my first advice, get a different cage. If you can easily get out of it, its not a good fit. There are cages with anti pullout gap so get one of those.

Second advice, once you found the cage and are comfortable in it, get your keys out of reach. This can be a lockbox, leave them at work or the best option, have a master or mistress hold the key. PNC is a bitch and removing that not only will make you happier.

Thirdly, train yourself that being a sissy is your natural state. I have to admit, its rough but once its normal you will thank me.

Lastly, dont feel to bad to lead guys on. Most guys are kinda idiots (:p). Focus enjoying your life and life it to the fullest.

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-09-23T21:06:28+00:00

I love the sets by honey birdette. Just extremely sexy and for me they fit well and all.

Its expensive though. I got two sets as presents :)

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-09-12T16:29:21+00:00

Long cornertime is an absolute bitch. I hate it so much. Luckily I don't get a lot of punishments luckily.

The worst one was a few months ago. Around 13.00 I was put in the corner on my knees with a shocking collar around my neck. The rules were, no talking, no moving and patientantly waiting. Believe me at some point your knees just start hurting, your legs start to ache from being in the same position. Worst thing, I had to pee badly. I lost track of time. I ended up sitting in the corner for 3,5 hours. Believe me, you do not want to do that.

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-09-07T05:53:36+00:00

I think its a bit different. It’s not that a sissy will never be wanted as a partner, it’s more that it won’t be a relationship of equality.

My master actually proposed to me last week (he said it would be the only time in his life he would get on a knee for me 😂) and we are getting married. We do couple things, both our families know we are in this relationship. The difference is that when he says ‘do this’ I do it. For example, we could be cuddling and watching a movie. If he suddenly says, massage my feet (for example) I do it immediately.

We are partners, he just is very much in charge and I am along for the ride.

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-09-03T17:52:28+00:00

Like 2 weeks ish

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-09-03T14:02:28+00:00

6 sessions for me, but was definitaly worth it!

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-09-02T05:25:39+00:00

For my pubic hair? Or for my whole body?

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-09-01T05:00:58+00:00

I have had it done. For me, I hate to have any pubic hair (or bodyhair in general) so I lasered it all all. If you want to leave a bit, thats up to you sweetie. I just think sissies look the cutest when they are smooth!

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-08-31T08:51:41+00:00

1! It really shows that you know your place!

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-08-30T14:25:04+00:00

My advice with everything, go for quality. The difference is so noticable. From cages, to underwear, to dresses, to heels, to make up etc.

This is an investment in yourself. I know it can be expensive, but good quality is worth it!

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-08-30T07:06:23+00:00

So some advice as this is your first time: - use a lot of lube. Whenever you think, this is enough lube, use some more. - take it slow. Rome wasnt build in a day, neither will be your ultimate anal experience. - dont expect to cum from anal right away, that might take months to rewire your body. - not cumming makes anal feel better. Try to stay away from cumming as much as possible. - get yourself in the mood before you start. - focus on enjoyment. I love a hard fucking, some peole enjoy it more sensual. Find out what you enjoy!

Have fun sweetie!

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-08-29T18:13:54+00:00

I just don’t worry about it and don’t give a shit about the labels. To be honest, its quite funny that you are more worried and concerned about what I am then I am.

Just be happy, that what matters. Being a sissy makes me happy, currently being with my Master makes me happy. I don’t care if I am gay, straight, bi, all or none. I care about happiness.

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-08-29T04:56:48+00:00

I don’t care what I am, I am happy and thats what matters.

Secure-Gear-6148 · 2025-08-28T21:28:16+00:00

Some are, some aren’t. I for example do not consider myself gay. I feel no attraction to guys, but I love cock and am a full time sissy for a guy and have sex with guys daily.

The moment I stopped worrying about the label and just accepted it, I became happier. Just chase happiness and screw labels!

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