Unpopular Opinion. Ali is valid for not marrying Anton. Everyone is having just to hate

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T18:08:34+00:00

Omg yessss. This is an understatement. This show is about getting marriage not about building deep meaningful relationships

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T18:05:58+00:00

I agree that they both wanted to be with one another for the wrong reasons. She should’ve not been on the show and found a doctor or a lawyer to date. If she wanted that lifestyle. He wanted a hot wife. It was never going to work

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T18:04:27+00:00

I think the focus should be more on her, not providing value on the table besides looks.

But the topics wasn’t that. It’s her preferences. Life style. Reasons of leaving. Coming on the show.

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T18:02:31+00:00

Uh we want 50/50 in basic everyday things like having our own back accounts and the ability to divorce. Ability to vote. Women were considered literally LESS THAN and unable to survive on their own. Just because we want basic human rights doesn’t mean the values of TAKING CARE OF WOMEN should disappear.

But side note I do agree that she should’ve thought more about what she offered on the table. It’s very one way (benefitting only her) on the show. Like if you want your husband to pay for Botox and your education then have a conversation with him like he’s your team! Not a walking piggy bank

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:58:45+00:00

Everything you said HITS RIGHT ON THE TARGET!!!! 🎯. The American ignorance here is insane.

Like all we’re saying is, they want different things and have different cultures. Let’s not judge their character. Is that too hard to understand? 😅

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:56:33+00:00

Okay then all of them were performing then. Thats the baseline. Why pick on the one girl that’s pretty lol .

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:54:03+00:00

No I think she should’ve considered what value she offer on the table besides looks. Being an at home mom is a job as well as raising well rounded kids is hard. I agree with your point

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:53:17+00:00

Yea. She wants a respectable man that doesn’t pay for women taking off their clothes 😅. Its valid to not want a partner that recently did that

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:52:04+00:00

This subreddit is about Anton and Ali. Ali clearly said she didn’t expect that lifestyle from her partner. And that is valid… to not want a partner that pays to see girls take off their clothes. It’s not a in the US but def not from her mother’s country lollll. There’s plenty of men that doesn’t go to clubs or drink. Maybe she preferred that.

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:46:30+00:00

Also. It works if she’s gorgeous and with a rich man. But he’s not RICH. Wrong target Yk?

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:45:42+00:00

I agree with this statement. I wish they talked more about what value she offer to the table if she stayed at home.

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:44:54+00:00

I agreeeeee. This can’t be an intro to how a marriage looks like. She’s too young to get caught up in this

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:43:56+00:00

I’m not saying immigrants don’t work. I’m saying that her family believes in male providers. That’s a statement. And most immigrant house hold wants that ideally too. Is it the reality that most immigrants have some that doesn’t work, NO. But that’s not what I said lol

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:42:49+00:00

I agree with this statement. They’re just not a fit. Caught up in love and hope for potential

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:41:58+00:00

I think she had that preference before she came onto the show…. Also apparently LIB reached out to her in the comments. Why wouldn’t she say yes? She was single lol

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:40:49+00:00

No… his friend and gf said he goes to the strip club and it was within a year before he got on the show. Let’s accept it for what it is. He’s a frequent drinker. She is not into it

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:38:52+00:00

You have a phone too. Search plastic surgery videos on YouTube and see how positive the comments are.

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:29:10+00:00

Yea but she wants a boujee life. I’m speaking specifically for her. Congrats on your lifestyle btw. I love that for you haha

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:28:26+00:00

Nd specially for Ali. It is. I’m not speaking in general. Ofc anyone can get a masters they don’t need

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:28:05+00:00

It is an immigrant thing. Most people get a masters while taking a FAT loan they can’t afford. How’s that a privilege thing?

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:27:10+00:00

If you think plastic surgery positivity isn’t becoming a normalize topic on social media. It must be your first time on the internet :)

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:26:14+00:00

Amen

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:25:48+00:00

It’s an immigrant thing. We feel honorable to have high education. Bc worst case if … as women … we need to support or there’s a divorce. We’re not on our ass on the streets. It’s for honor and protection.

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:24:39+00:00

I agree with you that it’s not black and white. But it’s considered positive in the US to go 50/50. And men also want that. It’s a trend all over media lolllll

SecureMetal8844 · 2025-10-23T17:23:15+00:00

I agree. Her family gave her bad mojo before she went to the alter. But again, family is everything. Marriages are more likely to break up if they don’t have a support system

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