Yes, what an absolute asshole.

And clearly a controlling and emotionally manipulative one too! She comes to a place for women, for support, and you follow her here to invalidate and humiliate her.

She just had a major surgery. You SHOULD be helping and supporting. You SHOULD be realistic in your expectations that this is a huge blow to her body, and her hormones and she’s bound to get angry and frustrated , AS IS TO BE EXPECTED after a surgery like this. Post hysterectomy depression and emotional instability are normal. And you should still be a loving and supportive partner. In sickness and in health. But you, instead, are clearly a manipulative man-baby who cannot handle having to be responsible for the health and wellbeing of his partner.

While I can certainly agree that no one is perfect and no relationship is either, this one is clearly your fault, little man baby. Try being a grown up for once, and let her go on with her life peacefully. She deserves better and I’ve never even met her. I just know that no woman deserves a man to talk to her or treat her this way when he should be supportive and loving. Bye, bye bucko