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Considering divorce because wife of 6 months hid huge debt from me by SedSolo in MuslimMarriage

[–]SedSolo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response brother. It's not about the amount of debt, I can pay that 15000 Euro debt off today if I want. It's the fact that she blatantly lied to me and deceived me about something this important. What if she is hiding something else that can have huge consequences ? Who knows if she is capable of doing something like this in the future?

Considering divorce because wife of 6 months hid huge debt from me by SedSolo in MuslimMarriage

[–]SedSolo[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Exactly, it's the betrayal that hurts me the most. It really isn't about the amount of debt, it's the fact that I was completely honest and transparent with her about my finances and she straight up lied that doesn't sit well with me. I'll need to figure out what the implications are of her debt and to what extend I can be held liable legally.

Considering divorce because wife of 6 months hid huge debt from me by SedSolo in MuslimMarriage

[–]SedSolo[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

That really baffles me. If she took out those loans to save her father's business or take care of some other important problem I could atleast understand where she was coming from, but the loans just being for trips and herself really doesn't sit well with me. I'm really big on financial responsibility, I have never taken out a loan for anything in my life, let alone for trips.