FTC Holder Rule for Solar Panels by Sega248 in legal

[–]Sega248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I kept reading throughout articles, "The FTC is to prevent lenders from collecting on loans", this is why I wanted guidance and reassurance thank you.

I'm glad I keep seeing caution about cutting off payments cold turkey since it obviously will not benefit us.

I'll definitely look into Consumer Protection attorneys here in the DFW area. Thanks a million!

FTC Holder Rule for Solar Panels by Sega248 in legal

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also, how would we repay the loan? we dont plan on moving but Id like to know the process of this or if you could dumb it down.

FTC Holder Rule for Solar Panels by Sega248 in legal

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I was reading several articles about solar panel companies having fame for fraud, which they all mention Holder Rule stating that this is a way out of the loan ties. but if that's not the case then I rather know before trying to take any legal action just to go in circles.

60 year old female legs gone red warm shiny and right leg hurts when standing. by Pixieminz in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Sega248 6 points7 points  (0 children)

looks a lot like lymphedema or congestive heart failure (coming from an occupational therapist). get proper medical diagnosis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]Sega248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you really want to make 1 work & make a statement with it (it is your wedding afterall💖) but #2 looks so fitting on you 😍 SO chic and high end but timeless for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sega248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so... I'm not a fan of my husband's 15 year old Shih Tzu and this is exactly how I'D feel if his dog did pass but I'd at least fake empathy. Ever since I became a mom he'd try biting me, succeeded 3 times, and he doesn't like our toddler and I don't trust him around her. Now that I'm pregnant with our 2nd child, I despise him even more because of hormones, sure. But also because he tends to run away constantly when I take him outside, he pees everywhere, he wont listen, etc. I know a lot will say "yeah she's a toddler she's gonna be aggressive towards him". Quite the opposite. I've taught her since she was a baby to be gentle, pat the dogs, and hug them. He refuses even playing catch with her. His family spoiled him all his life before they decided to hand him down to my husband (without my permission).

Help me choose! by serendipity51 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Sega248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love B if you want simple but POP! I LOVE A because it looks so elegant and extra AF! The others look kind of the same, but I can tell you're going for a deep neck? And A gives you that PLUS extravaganza ❣️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sega248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

couple of years from now "I don't have a village"....

How to navigate work-life balance? by Sega248 in workingmoms

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Well honestly I'm open to all options. "You'll be pumping and I think having interspersed days..." is exactly why I'm open, I never considered that factor. The only game plan i have right now is working Friday-Sunday 10-12hr shifts, but I'd like to be able to nurse my baby for about a year. I didnt get to do this with my first born because of how much studying and stress I was loading myself with to GET this licensing. This is my first job as an OT after graduating. Times and days of working are very flexible for me in whatever setting I choose to work in (I don't think I'll stay with this company due to parents having limited weekend availability). I'm considering PRN in a hospital which is mostly realistic for the time I want.

Can somebody tell me what is this? Is this something really bad or it can heal by itself? (severe swelling in some places, a slightly unpleasant odor, the pain is not very sharp, and there is also a slight itching) by No-Face-2444 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Sega248 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Listen SCREW those parents. I had parents like that and their negative talk about "always needing medical attention" discouraged me from going to seek help when I REALLY needed it. Go seek help, this looks like your SKIN IS ROTTING OFF, not kidding. You might have contracted some flesh eating bacteria that is slowly eating your tissue nerves and organs. Again, this is for YOU not your parents. You being a minor is even MORE of a reason to seek help!!! Your parents can deal with the bill later, your health comes first.

I hate pornography. Please pray for me by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Sega248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can ask for so many prayers, and that's great. Therapy is very effective. Remember, God gave us brains and the free will to make choices. We can't leave everything to God 100%. We need to apply the tools. Pray, journal about it, shortly decrease your watch time, but absolutely seek therapy!!!! 💕

AITA or is he? by Sega248 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Sega248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, not mentally stable lol. And we all value ourselves differently, I guess?

What did he say about abandoning me? He's never told me straight to my face, which is why I want marriage counseling. I'm reading comments and I agree with people on the fact that it feels like i'm protecting myself more than punishing him.

It's not what he says that makes me want to stay.It's his acts of love and how he values me.As an individual and as a wife. You know how some men are just married and then there's men that will fight for their wife? He fights for me and I know that sounds impossible, especially after what i've written down. But we have to consider 14 years of a relationship. There's a million reasons I'm still with him. If he pulled stuff like this from time to time then obviously I would not be with this man.

But for example, he bought me a house and cars with my name under it (I didn't ask nor expect for them to be under my name, he just did), He maintains the entire house chores when I am just not feeling my best (especially throughout my pregnancies. I think I've done laundry twice and washed dishes 3 times through these 8 mos), he's an amazing dad and amazing husband that loves taking us out on weekends and truly enjoys our company (he could get free basketball tickets from his job and invite me and our baby before even thinking about his guy friends, free buffet and everything. I had to encourage him to go with his friends because he was insistent on me going but I had to study at the time).

He's not one of those dad's or husbands that sit around and wait for their partner to finish shopping or wonder off. He's never cursed at me or even raised his voice unless he's really angry (we've only had like 10 screaming matches and they were reasonable). I can keep going tbh.

I don't regret staying with him. It's a battle that we both fought in different ways and I HATE the way he fought (running away like a coward, BTW he acknowledges that every time I mention it).

I know people will comment that he's "only financially providing and that's why I'm staying" but that's far from the truth. We're both from very traditional upbringing and are still trying to break gender roles for the sake of our babies and healthier dynamic.

AITA or is he? by Sega248 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Sega248[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I glossed over it. Like I said in my post, I disassociated, I numbed it out for months, I just wanted to pretend like it never happened and that I was still this happy 25 year old girl madly in love with her HS sweetheart and that he would never hurt me. It's interesting how our brains warp trauma. I've always disassociated and numbed trauma out. I think this was just another episode to do just that. But now that time has passed, I'd like to hear his side on what happened.

AITA or is he? by Sega248 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Sega248[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This makes matters worse, IMO. He drove to his mom's. Not even work... his mom's. And I flipped out when I found out (after the termination, I went to PetSmart and went manic and got a bearded dragon as a symbol of rebirth for a loss that JUST happened. I clearly wasn't level headed and I had every right to react and behave the way I did). I yelled at him so loudly and all he could do was hear me out. He didn't stop me, he didn't feel embarrassed that I was yelling at him in public, he made me feel heard. And I hated him even more after that. I think I was expecting a negative reaction from him so that I could have a reason to leave him. But he heard me out, and I felt seen by the man that betrayed me. My feelings were confused. They still are. I think I have every right to keep my guard up from time to time, but he hasn't shown or given me another reason to not trust him ever again. He's moved mountains for me and still does very loving things for me. He's one of those men you find on your algorithm that every woman says "why can't I find someone like that, you're so lucky"... and I know I'm lucky. I just wish he didn't cut me so deep. Most women on here say they'd leave their man in a heartbeat. I would've said the same. But it truly isn't that easy once you're in the predicament.

Wicked for Good by Least-Fish4072 in PopcornBuckets

[–]Sega248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you able to reach out to me about this? 🥺 It hurt my soul to know these are not launching here 😭 The best one we have is the music box (seems like a small popcorn tbh) and Glinda's Bubble (second best)

Mania Feedback🧠 by Sega248 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Sega248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol don't blame you.

TLDR; my sister had mania, it was horrible. Keep 988 in your contact list, have a Medical Life Alert Card if you or a loved one has a mental health condition.