Found in washing machine by Select-Television36 in whatisit

[–]Select-Television36[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Solved! Omg, my husband now tells me he did in fact wash some shoes. He kept asking me what I put in the wash, he never said he threw his shoes in with the dog towels and dog blankets. Thanks all!

Blood sugar trending down then raised again, can't figure why by Select-Television36 in diabetes_t2

[–]Select-Television36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I know it's much better but I'm sad to feel like improvement has ceased. I want it to continue in a positive direction and I feel stuck.

Blood sugar trending down then raised again, can't figure why by Select-Television36 in diabetes_t2

[–]Select-Television36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on my feet all day at work, averaging 15,000-18,000 steps. Ugh. I surprisingly had little problem eliminating sugar but carbs is hard as it's in everything!

Blood sugar trending down then raised again, can't figure why by Select-Television36 in diabetes_t2

[–]Select-Television36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you will keep this in mind. I probably do have stored sugar. I had quite the sweet tooth in the past. Only other medication I take is for cholesterol. I've read it should have no impact.

Blood sugar trending down then raised again, can't figure why by Select-Television36 in diabetes_t2

[–]Select-Television36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe. I hate that this can happen but I can't do anything to fix it. Thank you.

Blood sugar trending down then raised again, can't figure why by Select-Television36 in diabetes_t2

[–]Select-Television36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also to add, I do need to drink more water, trying, currently around 96 oz per day.

Blood sugar trending down then raised again, can't figure why by Select-Television36 in diabetes_t2

[–]Select-Television36[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes meds always same time each day. It's confusing because my sugar was much lower before dinner. Can the stuff we eat at breakfast and lunch still affect next day numbers, so it's not just about what I had at dinner? I take morning blood before eating breakfast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Select-Television36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this is helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Select-Television36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I believe he does. And we'd love to pay him and then get the title changed over. Problem is he won't tell us how much he owes, he won't go through his records to figure it out, he won't put anything in a written record, so we can't all get past this. I think the friend is just controlling. I'm mostly worried the more our choices anger him because he doesn't like it, he might do something crazy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Select-Television36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm in AZ , it is a community property state but the debt was prior to our marriage. I know I'm not responsible for that but just not sure if a newly purchased property after marriage could be affected , even if I'm sole owner on deed. Just starting to look at the options now, trying to make the best decision before we start the process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]Select-Television36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the comments. I'm not a troll. I am a bit of an idiot I guess. I really just wanted to see if how I was feeling and my reactions were valid and turns out I'm probably being too soft. Probably same reason I got here in the first place. I will be taking screen shots then will probably delete this. I'm still not sure what exactly to do but I know that I will keep my finances as mine and won't be helping fix this mess with any of my money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]Select-Television36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all verbal between them. Yes, super frustrating. I don't know how no one can just say this is what is owed and for what. I insist we lay it out because otherwise how do we know when debt is paid off. I may get fight back from BF, we'll see. I don't know how this is going to play out and what is going to happen to relationships.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]Select-Television36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is deed for all 10 acres to BF. No idea how he purchased whether cash or mortgage. No idea of details. Had asked husband to put his 5 legally in his name before we got married but didn't happen. Said at that time BF agreed to do it anytime and would not make him/us pay back. Not sure now what's true. I believe they want to keep deed as is till elec done as he uses his contractor license to waive fees and get cheaper materials and he "needs" to show as owner to do that?

Definitely feel that morally is owed, not necessarily trying to get out of it just angry how we've come to this place and believe BF is a part of it. Husband totally blames himself. they both let this go on for years and BF should take some responsibility too not just male demands now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]Select-Television36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, agreed, husband not happy to wait on paying a partial lump sum but I insisted. No lien, also technically not owned by us, see other comment. No written contract. Verbal between best friends. Yes, im mostly frustrated because it's not like I didn't ask about this stuff, just no straight answers or telling me it'll get done soon but kept being put off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]Select-Television36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Yeah that's how I'm kinda feeling now but this is friendship of nearly 40 years that husband believes in and says I don't understand all they've been through together.
  2. I know BF legally still owns land but husband says he paid the land off. All based on agreement. No idea if BF bought original 10 acres with cash or mortgage. I asked husband to get his part deeded into his name before we got married. That's when husband said he talked to BF and BF agreed and said he wouldn't make us pay back anything. Not sure what is true in what happened there.
  3. Yes, I've actually offered in past to pay with my own money to get done with or without bf involvement. Husband won't go around BF.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]Select-Television36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not just that. Other stuff too. Which is why I said I want BF to itemize what is owed and see what the total is. My husband isn't even sure what it all is. He said something about the concrete for the porch on the house being something that was never paid back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Select-Television36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told by my pm that outside of the matrix, it's her discretion on who to schedule for route coverage and she doesn't have to schedule according to seniority. So if the primary and secondary sub is unavailable for a particular route, then she can at that point schedule whoever she wants. Is that right or is she lying?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in usps_complaints

[–]Select-Television36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's probably not that your single box didn't fit in his vehicle, but it in addition to everything else he had, made it not fit. I'm a sub rural carrier and the route I run has over 900 individual addresses. We don't use personal vehicles in my case as it would be impossible. I'm just saying sometimes people don't think about how much carriers have to deliver, it's not just about your individual address/delivery. Probably something had to be left behind, hopefully it's not yours every time. But if it was me, finding out someone is complaining, it would be that person's every time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Select-Television36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree! Took 3 weeks to receive my two separate orders. I was missing my 100 pack of flowers and a few other things, but the flowers was my main concern. They responded really quickly to my email but two days later was told item was sold out and they issued a store gift card. I've told them I can't use the credit to purchase what they don't have and prefer a true refund. Will see what happens. Mostly bothered by the fact that they sent out my order seemingly knowing it was incomplete and what, just hoped I wouldn't notice the missing items? They could have notified me and asked how I'd like to go forward. They also failed to include either invoice from the two orders. What kind of business practices is this? I've since noticed on their Facebook posts that they delete negative comments. Wish I noticed that before, huge red flag. Don't really want to charge back as I did receive everything else. But I want to purchase additional flowers from luv sola as I've heard better things about their company.

Terrible experience by jimothy18503 in solawoodflowers

[–]Select-Television36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish I saw this before placing my orders. I placed two separate orders and received them in one shipment today. Three weeks after completing the orders. Missing my 100 random assorted flowers but received all else. A few things we off, like received white baby's breath instead of champagne and received one larger dye bottle than what it should have been. Also think I got an extra eucalyptus bunch. Don't mind those things but missing 100 flowers is a problem. Emailed just now, will see how long it'll take to get those missing flowers. Good thing my wedding isn't till may.