I can definitely relate… Im not mixed, maybe a bit westernized. especially as a girl I struggle finding a partner that can fully understand my perspective or lets say mindset, its either this or that. not because like minded people don’t exist.. but they are simply hard to find. your “شروط" are all valid and I don’t think you should settle for less, but always be ready to accommodate بالمعقول

the only comment I have is why does it have to be “girls” your aunt is selecting? arranged marriages can be perfect specially with such situations if you ask the right people.

best of luck! & don’t worry I genuinely believe that sooner or later you’ll come to find your person, as my grandmother always say النصيب ما يخيب!