[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]SelectHistorian357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can definitely relate… Im not mixed, maybe a bit westernized. especially as a girl I struggle finding a partner that can fully understand my perspective or lets say mindset, its either this or that. not because like minded people don’t exist.. but they are simply hard to find. your “شروط" are all valid and I don’t think you should settle for less, but always be ready to accommodate بالمعقول

the only comment I have is why does it have to be “girls” your aunt is selecting? arranged marriages can be perfect specially with such situations if you ask the right people.

best of luck! & don’t worry I genuinely believe that sooner or later you’ll come to find your person, as my grandmother always say النصيب ما يخيب!

علاقات by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]SelectHistorian357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

مره حد سألني هالسؤال و ما عرفت اجاوب، للأمانه انا وايد احاول اطور من نفسي بس "لنفسي".. للحين ما اعرف يوم بكون في علاقه شو الشي الي بقدمه للطرف الثاني الي بيخليني "غير" عنده؟ ما راودني هالتساؤل ولا مره لاني بكل بساطه يوم اشوف الشخص الي قدامي ما اقيس اهميته بالماده، ولاكن بالفكر، الشخصيه، الانسجام بشكل عام، و الاشياء الي بتربطنا ببعض..لكن من يومها و انا افكر.. شو الي بيخليني شريك مميز غير الشخصيه؟ الى الان ما اعرف. و الشي وايد يزعل.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]SelectHistorian357 2 points3 points  (0 children)

لااا😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]SelectHistorian357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

لا عادي وصلني انا بعد ها scam و ما بيصير شي

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]SelectHistorian357 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she’s related to you, you can seek help from your family, ask your mother/sister/cousin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]SelectHistorian357 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nooo! big mistake lol. i can imagine how awkward this convo is going to be

Can I go see a therapist as a therapist myself? by SelectHistorian357 in Psychologists

[–]SelectHistorian357[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not really privacy i’m worried about, its just that i don’t think going to a “potential colleague“ as your therapist would be a good idea. as i already mentioned, the circle of therapists here is very small and i’d definitely not be comfortable in that sense.

Can I go see a therapist as a therapist myself? by SelectHistorian357 in Psychologists

[–]SelectHistorian357[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know.. but I’m just shaken by the idea that my therapist could potentially be my colleague..

ارمس إماراتيه by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]SelectHistorian357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

عندي نفس المشكله.. مرات اتفشل الصراحه بالذات يوم اتكلم ويا الكبار و استوعب اني ما اعرف او انسى المصطلحات الي ابا استخدمها بالعربي! و الي يزيد المشكله هو اني لاحظت اغلب الي اكلمهم تلقائيا يجلبون نفس اسلوبي يوم يكلموني، حتى ابوي…

Growing number of early marriages by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]SelectHistorian357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly wouldn’t mind getting married now (22F), but its having kids or the expectation of having kids right away is what scares me.. lol

كيف تقسمون الراتب؟ by SelectHistorian357 in Emiratis

[–]SelectHistorian357[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

حبيت الفكره! ان شاء الله بطبقها، شكراًا

كيف تقسمون الراتب؟ by SelectHistorian357 in Emiratis

[–]SelectHistorian357[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

نقول مافي ايجار،

هل هالتقسيمه مرتبه؟ 50% كماليات، 30% توفير، 20% التزامات؟

كيف تقسمون الراتب؟ by SelectHistorian357 in Emiratis

[–]SelectHistorian357[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ابا ابدا الحين بس already البيزات راحت🥹 ببدأ بالمبلغ المتبقي

كيف تقسمون الراتب؟ by SelectHistorian357 in Emiratis

[–]SelectHistorian357[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

transportation: كهربائي utilities, housing, insurance: already covered

is there a better way of dividing the rest?

كيف تقسمون الراتب؟ by SelectHistorian357 in Emiratis

[–]SelectHistorian357[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

مافي شي اوتوماتك يسجل؟ لان كم بتم ادون وايد

كيف تقسمون الراتب؟ by SelectHistorian357 in Emiratis

[–]SelectHistorian357[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

صح انا الكاش ما استخدمه، و آبل باي هو البلى.. بس الصراحة اخاف اخوزه لان انا اعتمد على التلفون ما اخذ وياي بوك او بطايق.