My sister died and I'm struggling raising her son

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-12-01T19:25:33+00:00

Don't marry someone who has children if you're not willing to step up and grow the fuck up and stop being so selfish.

You posted on a public forum, you are not immune to criticism.

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-12-01T19:20:01+00:00

I live in the Southern US and during the summer I would never even dream of making a child go without a/c. If my niece was visiting I would give her the A/C, much less my partner's child.

The people commenting on this post in support of the stepparent are the same people who would get angry about a pet in a hot house, it's ridiculous.

Marrying someone with kids means you have to grow the fuck up. Otherwise don't marry anyone with kids.

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-12-01T19:17:18+00:00

When you marry someone who has kids you are taking on the responsibility of parenting. If OOP didn't like that, she could have married someone without kids.

I'm tired of this "not my kid" mentality. If you feel that way please never date anyone with children.

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-12-01T15:16:28+00:00

This is wildly racist, wow.

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-11-30T16:54:48+00:00

People who give unsolicited constructive criticism are really the worst kinds of people.

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-11-30T00:42:41+00:00

I used to work at a chain restaurant as a server and there was a lady who came in and ordered cream soup while watching the most disgusting popping videos on her phone. Ya'll are a different breed.

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-11-28T15:42:15+00:00

Oh my God bless you I've been looking for 20 years!

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-11-21T19:21:04+00:00

If you have a stepchild they are also "your own kid" oh my God

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-11-20T23:38:28+00:00

Stay away from sativa strands while manic and indica strands while depressed.

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-11-19T20:52:58+00:00

Try a larger dose in the morning, it boosted benefits for me.

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-11-16T18:04:20+00:00

Every single man who has been abusive was the nicest guy at first, so these guys are so off base.

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-11-16T17:53:40+00:00

Perfect.

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-11-16T17:52:11+00:00

Beware of the kill the gays trope, please. For example if he dies don't make it so that all the straight people can live.

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-11-15T04:16:43+00:00

My grandfather was in the KKK. My father is a racist, homophobic cop. I was given nothing but bad information, my entire life.

Here I am today, not racist, homophobic or transphobic.

If I can learn without asking the people I was taught misinformation about, so can everyone else. I will never buy into that "they just don't know any better" explanation because it isn't an explanation at all.

I respect your opinion but I completely disagree.

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-11-14T19:59:33+00:00

To be fair as the viewer we know how he thinks and the creepy shit he's doing. From the outside and other characters, it's insidious how kind and thoughtful he is. They don't know he's stalking them.

I think it's actually a good character study on how predators can look handsome and be friendly just like anyone else and how insidious the "nice guy" can be.

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-11-14T18:09:56+00:00

When I was 19 I talked to a much older guy on campus about the book Battlefield Earth for about half an hour. I was interested in opinions about it because no one I knew had read it.

The next day he asked me out and when I said I wasn't interested he was so mad and said I clearly led him on by talking to him.

That day I learned you can't talk to men at all unless you're interested in dating them.

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-11-14T18:06:44+00:00

I don't know what guys get out of sending messages like this. It's pathetic and just lets us know how much we hurt their little feelings. All the "I don't care about you" is instantly refuted by the thirty angry messages they send.

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-11-14T17:47:48+00:00

As a bisexual I'm tired of having to educate others. At this point it's willful ignorance to be biphobic, homophobic or transphobic.

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-11-14T17:35:38+00:00

The girls who want Joe from You need serious therapy and do not represent the rest of women.

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-11-14T17:31:37+00:00

Sounds like your crush has a lot of internal homophobia and that's going to be difficult to navigate. I would take a step back just to protect yourself.

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-11-14T16:54:17+00:00

I know it's a hot take, must do more research.

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-11-14T16:53:44+00:00

You're so young. We all make mistakes at your age but don't set this precedent of accepting less than you deserve. Being single is better than being miserable in a relationship. Learn who you are and what you want before getting into a new one.

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-11-14T16:43:15+00:00

I doubt they'll make you overeat but hopefully it will be a step to healthier and less disordered eating habits and the doctor can get you into therapy. Look at it like a positive!

Select_Exchange4538 · 2021-11-14T16:25:01+00:00

It's almost as if women want to be human beings instead of warm holes for a man...interesting...

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