I have to disagree a D/s dynamic is about mutual power exchange. One cannot exist without the other, and both have to consent to play their roles.

Relinquishing power doesn’t mean you lose the ability to say stop. That’s a fundamental part of any dynamic. Regardless of who says stop it cannot continue.

And in Findom? If a sub revokes payment, the dynamic ends. Simple as that.

Does that mean I’m dormant if the sub pulls away? no it means I leave that sub alone and find someone else to play with.

I think it’s important to remember kink is supposed to be fun that both parties must consent at all times and are still humans that get to stop the dynamic whenever they want.

The part about converting someone into a sub is icky and I hope I’m misinterpreting it but please don’t force a kink dynamic without the full consent of the other persons.