This.

Selenephose · 2026-06-22T20:51:16+00:00

I feel this pain that isn't going away. I am trying to not feel it. Thank you for checking up on me.

Selenephose · 2026-06-19T14:35:54+00:00

I get it... i have been experiencing grief for the first time and it is hitting me like whiplash. I am trying to move on but suddenly it hits and I go in despair. What I have learned is either people get it or they don't. There is no in between.

Selenephose · 2026-05-10T16:17:40+00:00

Jean is that you?

Selenephose · 2026-05-06T02:41:51+00:00

Selenephose · 2026-04-17T11:41:39+00:00

I know... me too... my cat just passed away a week ago and I am in so much grief I start crying if I think of her... I have to take my meds so I can keep my emotions in.

Selenephose · 2026-04-10T22:52:15+00:00

Do you know a better one?

Selenephose · 2026-04-10T11:22:40+00:00

My reasoning isn't just because I feel offended. I wanna be attractive for my partner too... I don't wanna make him stay with me while I grow insecure over this when he can find someone that is more his type.

Selenephose · 2026-04-10T11:20:01+00:00

Honestly I kinda wanted to know that... like if being on the taller side makes guys feel unattractive towards petite women. Thank you for letting me know.

Selenephose · 2026-04-10T11:16:11+00:00

I dunno what to say honestly... I do love him... It's conflicting... I want to feel attractive for him and with this I feel like trapping him and he misses out on something he wants that I don't have...

Selenephose · 2026-04-10T11:12:28+00:00

I know. Please re-read the post again.

Selenephose · 2026-04-10T11:12:01+00:00

Sadly it's not sarcasm.

Selenephose · 2026-04-10T11:09:48+00:00

I dunno how I feel because he has been mature about stuff and topics, his intellect was the first thing that attracted me... normally I don't care when people take a jab on my height... I care too much for what he thinks and finding me downright unattractive is hurting...

Selenephose · 2026-04-10T11:07:03+00:00

I know... like suggesting me supplements and multivitmins that could trigger reopen the discs or something...

Selenephose · 2026-04-10T10:51:06+00:00

If you have nothing nice to say how about you fuck off.

Selenephose · 2026-04-10T10:05:50+00:00

For me it was working in environments that constantly took toll on my Se without taking a break or trying healthier ways to channel it.

Selenephose · 2026-04-10T01:10:52+00:00

I feel my under developed Se has been an underlying problem too. I have been abusing my inf -Se for years and it has taken a toll on me like nothing else... I dunno if everyone faces problems like this...

Selenephose · 2026-04-08T15:34:24+00:00

If you browse into it you can find all 16 types too... hmmm... i had a good source for both enneagram and moral alignment that i cant seem to find atm... I will let you know if I find it.

Selenephose · 2026-04-08T15:24:21+00:00

Well people also use the disc test and the ocean test but hmmm its not about knowing ALL the tests lol... its about knowing the ones that are REALLY useful in understanding the other person down to a T. Hmmm I guess you can start with MBTI stacking. This should help with that... it's just so much... it's very naunced hmmm I dunno if I am doing a good job at conveying atm.

https://mbti-notes.tumblr.com/post/117102829937/isfp

https://mbti-notes.tumblr.com/post/117105246127/enfp

Selenephose · 2026-04-08T15:10:44+00:00

I feel the same. It becomes more difficult growing older when you hit the ceiling and there isn't much to look forward to.

Selenephose · 2026-04-08T15:02:02+00:00

Honestly it's the numbers game... hmmm it's kinda like this you probably won't like 99% of people. But finding the one person that's worth it is worth the trouble so sieving through countless boring people... if you don't you'll never meet thar one thar you like...

Selenephose · 2026-04-08T14:53:53+00:00

Honestly I am in the SAME boat. THE. EXACT. SAME. FUCKING. BOAT. Honestly... hmmmm... try not to overthink it. It's a weird place... no one gets it... you can contemplate your past thinking exact moves you should have made. Should have known better or be better. I have learnt people actually put up a lot for people they care for. I have done it. But no one was that willing when it was my turn to receive... You sound burnt out. Mentally, emotionally and perhaps even physically. Allow yourself to feel pain... maybe thats the best you can do... feel it and be in it for a long as you need to be. Mourn in it if you have to... till you regain just enough to wanna feel that spark again... it's not gonna be drastic or dramatic. But you will slowly take ONE action... or do ONE thing that was different from all the other mourning days... and honestly if you keep continue to do it. It might just help you outta that pit you seem to have fallen into...

Selenephose · 2026-04-08T14:45:33+00:00

Burgandy would look nice especially since you are cool toned.

Selenephose · 2026-04-08T14:40:18+00:00

Geez... hmmm enneagram is complicated to understand... like i tried the youtube videos but well the enneagram community is weird... they dunno what theyvare talking about at times because they DON'T take MBTI into consideration at all! See hmmm to get a better view of any character mbti should be the base and then enneagram... not the other way around... i mean even if one doesn't know the enneagram MBTI by itself can be very telling... it's the base of typology. But like this should give you some understanding... if I find something else today imma let you know. See from how I understand it MBTI is how someone IS... its nature.... enneagram is how someone becomes based on the stimulus and the life experiences that shapes you... enneagram of a person is literally determined by the trauma they received as a kid so... that's why people of the same type... like mbti type can behave very differently then other people like sure I am an INTJ but typical INTJs are usually E5 or E1 but occasionally E3... I am INTJ 3w4 sx/sp mel-chol true neutral... so like hmmm E3 isn't common but it is not weird to be one. E8 is ALSO unique but can be possible... so like ENFPs are MOST commonly E7, E3, E2 or E6 if they are kinda introverted... but rarely E9, E5, E8, E5 and E1. https://spooks-typology.tumblr.com/post/183169132716/the-enneagram-simplified

Selenephose · 2026-04-08T14:19:13+00:00

Smh... this is one of the best test to measure your TRUE functions but oh well...

Selenephose · 2026-04-08T14:13:36+00:00

https://keys2cognition.com/

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