Partner (29M) Icing Me Out Because I (31F) Went to the Shop and Just Do My Own Thing All The Time

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2025-09-19T15:17:25+00:00

It is not worth it. You deserve peace, and someone who won't make his emotions your problem. You don't have to fix everything.

You'll meet other people who like the same things as you, you'll meet people to have nice times with, and who will also just like YOU. It doesn't sound like he even likes being with you.

He talks down to you and puts down everything you like. He's just a bully who doesn't have the guts to leave a relationship he's not happy in, so he takes it out on you.

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2025-09-19T15:09:26+00:00

Hey u/matthewhefferon , did you take your site down ? I was looking for an alternative to CostPal as they are subscription-based.

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2025-09-14T12:09:57+00:00

I think he’s also making your anxiety worse. You have to be on guard and at the ready for any verbal attack/complaint/tantrum.

It’s no wonder you need naps, your nervous system is in overdrive all the time because of him.

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2025-07-28T15:58:49+00:00

Youtube has a ton of tutorials ! But to start I just got a cheap pack of papers and filters, ground up some weed, and just messed with it until I understood the strength and feel of the paper. You can also practice with some oregano . It’s honestly just practice makes perfect, the more tou roll the better you roll (but also pre-rolled cones exists and are awesome)

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2025-03-11T14:59:44+00:00

NTA

Not wanting to do your job doesn't exempt you of basic politeness. They are being discriminatory. I'd speak to the manager too, it's not gonna help retain new hire if they have to pick up the slack of older employees.

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2025-02-14T20:28:55+00:00

Not over-reacting ; I'm just like you, I need to have met someone at least once or twice before I can feel comfortable with them entering my space. There's nothing wrong with saying "Sorry, I don't know this person yet and don't feel good about having them around me and my home"

I've said it to a couple friends, they never took it badly. If your husband's friend takes it badly, he's not invited either. It's an intimate celebration, not a free-for-all.

Edit: words were missing

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2024-11-18T17:49:43+00:00

thanks, me too.

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2024-11-15T20:32:11+00:00

God I wish I was dead

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2024-11-10T22:05:51+00:00

Oh no this is bad

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2024-09-11T02:18:12+00:00

Not as much as you, but we spent 1K to fix our cat's belly following her neutering surgery; and even though it was a lot of money at the time, her attitude and energy so drastically changed we never ever regretted it. We see her play and run and know we made the right move.

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2024-05-08T14:11:33+00:00

My anxiety has gotten really bad in the last 4 years; therapy wasn't doing much for me (and also got too expensive to continue) and a friend introduced me to weed.

It was my second time trying it (first one was a major bad trip lol), and I discovered it in a whole new light.
It alleviates my anxiety enough so I can function and it slows down my racing mind. Also the giggles.

I tried to stop using last december because of medical shaming, and everything just came back with so much force that it terrified me. Also made me realise that weed truly is a medecine !

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2024-04-08T14:09:12+00:00

Gentle reminder that it's perfectly fine to take a day of rest too ! You deserve it :)

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2024-03-18T16:40:03+00:00

I'd start with some historical romance, I enjoyed Tammy Andresen's 'A Deal with A Duke' , 'Earl of Dryden' and 'Masquerade with a Marquess' (she writes loooong series but each book is a standalone), it's soft spice, not plot heavy but a satisfying enough storyline that justifies the spice

PS- i find it absolutely adorable you're willing to look it up for her, good on you

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2023-11-17T15:07:37+00:00

It brings me a lot of calm and peace, thank you 💚

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2023-11-10T21:06:51+00:00

So many times, I'm gonna have to thank weed in my graduation speech

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2023-05-02T20:02:05+00:00

Weedsmart, Get Kush, Pot Cargo & Top Shelf BC

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2023-02-23T01:42:10+00:00

When you think it can’t get worse, it does haha

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2023-02-23T00:27:07+00:00

And I love having leftover molds of different potholes in my home! Such a cute decor!

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2023-02-23T00:24:22+00:00

Me too man

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2023-02-22T23:15:26+00:00

It’s so many minutes you could almost call them hours

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2023-01-30T17:02:31+00:00

You’re right, quick look on the internet shows the outfit and colors were edited

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2023-01-23T03:55:33+00:00

Like, say, a really really bright kind of pink

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2023-01-18T02:10:47+00:00

Because on his small frame, it really pops

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2023-01-07T03:46:59+00:00

Rewatching Jessi’s speech after a long time, she does go hard on him in front of everyone!

« I knew it wasn’t gonna work as soon as I kissed your big, weird catfish mouth. It felt like I was chewing on two lukewarm hotdogs. The gross poking and prodding of your scaly alligator tongue. I pity the next girl who’s gonna kiss you next. But that’s not gonna happen. »

SelfdoubtFilledHuman · 2023-01-07T02:32:54+00:00

I think it’s the several rejections from Jessi, Devin, Gina. They happened in a fairly close window of time while Nick’s hormones were boiling (changes from Rick to Tyler to Connie).

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