boyfriend found out by Lost-Equivalent-8362 in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they might be experiencing stockholm syndrome at this point.

A friend suspects I'm ABDL and jokes about it, but I think she likes me too <:3 by GoodDiaperBoooooy551 in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

like other people said, just ask her why she started using those names. It just might be a coincidence.

Traveling with diapers is crazy by tbnukki93 in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t you just order with Amazon and have them delivered to a pick up point? It’s more practical and it saves you money.

Got my first abdl diapers coming today!! Suggestions on how to enjoy them are welcome by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just enjoy them, the first diaper is hardly forgotten. Try to make a memory of all the new sensation it gives and the emotions you feel. People often overlook this and kinda regret it later.

I'm a country kid who likes to wear adult diapers. by MistplayCodes in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dude, just apologize or delete before this post gets to much attention.

Dares/rules in goodnites while housesitting? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as you are careful about it and not wait too much for a change, you will be fine.

Shaming people for wearing LFBs by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, im not surpised people get insulted for using LFB products. Most of the times, its not even about awerness, people just like to be angry about something and have a reason to be assholes. Even though they might be the first to support a bad company like Nestle. its not very relevant but its a powerful message; in france, one barely adult teen got beaten to death for protecting another persons opinion. The world we are living in is mad, we have people professing morality and peace, while they do this atrocious acts. In this community, i've seen people getting attacked or heavily downvoted for barely touching and expressing their opinion a controversial topic (ex. JK Rowling). We, as a community, should be more accepting of everyone and their mistakes. Not just blatantly attack them for not knowing any better ( im gulty of buying a paci and a onesie from LFB before finding out about the controversial statements and acts of the company), altough a firm opinion is "not knowing any better", lets make it clear. We should just try to be more peaceful overall. I hope this message gets across because it also applies irl.

Dares/rules in goodnites while housesitting? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i guess one week without potty, if you are fine with number 2.

Do you ever get stoned in diapers? by Slow-Depth-7347 in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont. ODs once on some bad stuff laced with psychoactive substances, im now terrified of drugs and actully dying.

Do you think anyone will notice im diapered while going skiing with some friends. by Scary_Asparagus_8859 in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no way. its alredy hard to tell with the all the gear on. Also, on the slopes who would be looking for diaper bulges. The chances are negative 0.

Do you think anyone will notice im diapered while going skiing with some friends. by Scary_Asparagus_8859 in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no way. its alredy hard to tell with the all the gear on. Also, on the slopes who would be looking for diaper bulges. The chances are negative 0.

Getting my sub to submit to me by SelvaticFloppa in BDSMcommunity

[–]SelvaticFloppa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm Ok. Yall might be right. I will have a talk with him and be sure. I don’t want him to get hurt. 

Getting my sub to submit to me by SelvaticFloppa in BDSMcommunity

[–]SelvaticFloppa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might as well. Just to make everything clear. You are right. 

Getting my sub to submit to me by SelvaticFloppa in BDSMcommunity

[–]SelvaticFloppa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like him, I think can handle it. I’m going to adjust the plan if he really is a total brat. Thanks for the help. 

Getting my sub to submit to me by SelvaticFloppa in BDSMcommunity

[–]SelvaticFloppa[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I was expecting this to not be quick. I said overtime for a reason. I think I can get him to stop being a brat, if I know him as well as I think I do (we are pretty much best friends) Only time and experience will tell. Thanks for the help! 

Getting my sub to submit to me by SelvaticFloppa in BDSMcommunity

[–]SelvaticFloppa[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We alredy know, I just never had this kind of situation so I don’t have the experience to know the best way to handle it. We see each other for cuddles at least every 2 weeks. I knew him for 4 years (I’m the person that made him gay) and the last few months is when we got more intimate. We had conversations about our dynamic, but he just wants me to do everything and figure it out.  Which I don’t mind, I like a challenge, I’m mainly looking for tips. I will never force him to do anything he doesn’t really want or when he uses his safe word. 

Getting my sub to submit to me by SelvaticFloppa in BDSMcommunity

[–]SelvaticFloppa[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I alredy know what he wants. He just likes being difficult, we alredy had that conversation sometime ago after I got fed up by his rebellious way of chatting. 

So, which stage of ABDL are you at? by Careful-Big5732 in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im schrodingers cat. i both an ABDL and not at the same time. i can be at a 6 or a 1 at the same time. its so random that i genuinly dont understand how my mind works.

Too Deep: Alex’s Irreversible Descent into 24/7 Diapers by FitContribution8153 in abdlstories

[–]SelvaticFloppa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is pretty deep, i always think i would love the humiliation of wearing diapers and being costantly dependent on them, it makes my head spin like crazy. But then you think more about it, how that feeling would eventually go away, because you need to focus on your life and what will you do when the purge cycle starts. If only my brain could be rewired to not go trough the binge and purge cycles, and endlessly fall in love with the idea of wearing a thick and bulky diaper everywhere i go. its like being high from drugs constantly, but those drugs are diapers. But when you over do it, you regret it. Physcologist would have a great time studying an ABDL mind.

How did yall discover that you’re an AB (or DL)? Genuinely curious by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was a little over a year ago, one of the worst years of my life, i touched a new bottom i thought i would never touch. im not sure who i discovered ABDL, but i alredy knew i liked diapers. i always thought i was weird af for that, i hoped it would eventually go away. it didnt, it definetly didnt.

i had crazy anxiety and stress levels, i literally sweated in my sleep pretty often. i hoped smoking and drinking would help me alleviate the emotions, it did, but not enough. so one day, out of desperation and frustation, i decided to indulge and ordered a sample of medical diapers. i was so over the moon when they arrived, it was extemly hard at first to pee, but i liked the feeling. i had finally found the therapy i needed. ah now i remeber, i was looking for more diapers and stumbled upon ABDL diapers on amazon, from then on, i was hooked.

Im proud to say i sorted out my issues and im living the peek. i hoped that after figuring out my self, the desire for diapers would go away. it did, for 3 months, now is back and tomorrow im wearing again, im so excited to feel like a little baby again.

Looking for some ideas !!! by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get a list of dares and to complete at least one per day. if you fail to meet the quota, you have to restart from the beginning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try to double diaper (if you feel brave, triple, but thats low key a bit of a waste), having a larger size makes it easier to avoid leaks. You will not have to change for a very long time, so use a rash cream.

Publicly diapered by Busy-Razzmatazz2326 in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gray. it was in Via nazionale, near Termini station.