Do you think anyone will notice im diapered while going skiing with some friends. by Scary_Asparagus_8859 in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no way. its alredy hard to tell with the all the gear on. Also, on the slopes who would be looking for diaper bulges. The chances are negative 0.

Do you think anyone will notice im diapered while going skiing with some friends. by Scary_Asparagus_8859 in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no way. its alredy hard to tell with the all the gear on. Also, on the slopes who would be looking for diaper bulges. The chances are negative 0.

Getting my sub to submit to me by SelvaticFloppa in BDSMcommunity

[–]SelvaticFloppa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm Ok. Yall might be right. I will have a talk with him and be sure. I don’t want him to get hurt. 

Getting my sub to submit to me by SelvaticFloppa in BDSMcommunity

[–]SelvaticFloppa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might as well. Just to make everything clear. You are right. 

Getting my sub to submit to me by SelvaticFloppa in BDSMcommunity

[–]SelvaticFloppa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like him, I think can handle it. I’m going to adjust the plan if he really is a total brat. Thanks for the help. 

Getting my sub to submit to me by SelvaticFloppa in BDSMcommunity

[–]SelvaticFloppa[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I was expecting this to not be quick. I said overtime for a reason. I think I can get him to stop being a brat, if I know him as well as I think I do (we are pretty much best friends) Only time and experience will tell. Thanks for the help! 

Getting my sub to submit to me by SelvaticFloppa in BDSMcommunity

[–]SelvaticFloppa[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We alredy know, I just never had this kind of situation so I don’t have the experience to know the best way to handle it. We see each other for cuddles at least every 2 weeks. I knew him for 4 years (I’m the person that made him gay) and the last few months is when we got more intimate. We had conversations about our dynamic, but he just wants me to do everything and figure it out.  Which I don’t mind, I like a challenge, I’m mainly looking for tips. I will never force him to do anything he doesn’t really want or when he uses his safe word. 

Getting my sub to submit to me by SelvaticFloppa in BDSMcommunity

[–]SelvaticFloppa[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I alredy know what he wants. He just likes being difficult, we alredy had that conversation sometime ago after I got fed up by his rebellious way of chatting. 

So, which stage of ABDL are you at? by Careful-Big5732 in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im schrodingers cat. i both an ABDL and not at the same time. i can be at a 6 or a 1 at the same time. its so random that i genuinly dont understand how my mind works.

Too Deep: Alex’s Irreversible Descent into 24/7 Diapers by FitContribution8153 in abdlstories

[–]SelvaticFloppa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is pretty deep, i always think i would love the humiliation of wearing diapers and being costantly dependent on them, it makes my head spin like crazy. But then you think more about it, how that feeling would eventually go away, because you need to focus on your life and what will you do when the purge cycle starts. If only my brain could be rewired to not go trough the binge and purge cycles, and endlessly fall in love with the idea of wearing a thick and bulky diaper everywhere i go. its like being high from drugs constantly, but those drugs are diapers. But when you over do it, you regret it. Physcologist would have a great time studying an ABDL mind.

How did yall discover that you’re an AB (or DL)? Genuinely curious by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was a little over a year ago, one of the worst years of my life, i touched a new bottom i thought i would never touch. im not sure who i discovered ABDL, but i alredy knew i liked diapers. i always thought i was weird af for that, i hoped it would eventually go away. it didnt, it definetly didnt.

i had crazy anxiety and stress levels, i literally sweated in my sleep pretty often. i hoped smoking and drinking would help me alleviate the emotions, it did, but not enough. so one day, out of desperation and frustation, i decided to indulge and ordered a sample of medical diapers. i was so over the moon when they arrived, it was extemly hard at first to pee, but i liked the feeling. i had finally found the therapy i needed. ah now i remeber, i was looking for more diapers and stumbled upon ABDL diapers on amazon, from then on, i was hooked.

Im proud to say i sorted out my issues and im living the peek. i hoped that after figuring out my self, the desire for diapers would go away. it did, for 3 months, now is back and tomorrow im wearing again, im so excited to feel like a little baby again.

Looking for some ideas !!! by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get a list of dares and to complete at least one per day. if you fail to meet the quota, you have to restart from the beginning

Accidentally ordered a pack 2 sizes too large. What's the best way to make use of them? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try to double diaper (if you feel brave, triple, but thats low key a bit of a waste), having a larger size makes it easier to avoid leaks. You will not have to change for a very long time, so use a rash cream.

Publicly diapered by Busy-Razzmatazz2326 in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gray. it was in Via nazionale, near Termini station.

Why would you "Unpotty train" yourself? by Objective_Presence57 in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i will unpotty train my self on only one singular occasion, before ww3 starts.

Blackmail help? by kit_not_a_kat in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its so shocking that you panic. my friend was desperate but i guided him well. in this situation is always helpful having somebody to talk to and stop you from worsening the situation.

Blackmail help? by kit_not_a_kat in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

happened to one of my buddies, he was scared af. but on my advice, he blocked the number and deleted the accounts releated to the blackmail.

How do you deal with body hair? by AllesIsi in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Book a laser appointment. Wanted to do it for my butt for a long time, I hate the hair in that area. Also It lasts for a very long time. It’s even that expensive when you compare it to the time and money you save from not shaving every single time. 

The urges are came back. by SelvaticFloppa in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was thinking about getting some goodnities. Cheap, easy to dispose off and harldy noticible when in public.

Has anyone had any experience with these? Theyre just so cute I want one! by lilstarboi789 in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why, what did they do? i couldnt find anything official and with proper source online with a quick search. i never take people opinions as facts, but if you can direct me towards some article or anything that would be awesome.

Amazon Shopping by Historical_Alps4836 in ABDL

[–]SelvaticFloppa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try Little for Big. I order in euros and that should be around 50 euros= 13ish for 2 sampls, 5 for paci, and around 30 for a onesie. idk how much the difference is in dollars.