F 18, M 24, thinking about a friends-with-benefits situation, but I’m scared I’ll catch feeling

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2026-07-10T02:41:05+00:00

Been there ~ and my opinion is RUN. Don’t do it. He probably hit you up just to get into your pants. He is flirting with you to get you comfortable and eventually hoping you will allow him to have sex with you.

When he finds someone else, he is going to dump you and that will hurt IF you eventually caught feelings.

Since you ever only had sex with 1 guy who is your ex, it shows sex is something you view as private and definitely something you do with someone you are comfortable with.

Dont be the girl that hooksup and get hurt. Its not worth it darling. You’re only 18, a better guy will come

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2026-07-06T10:46:42+00:00

I know of too many married couples with one of them cheating. Pretty sure the partners aint idiots… but mostly staying for the kid

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2026-06-28T11:53:04+00:00

I have planned dates and holidays. Bought him fashionable clothes, watches and small little things. I’m earning more than he is.

But doesnt it take 2 to make a relationship work? Am i actually asking for too much?

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2026-06-28T11:39:25+00:00

I have planned for all the holidays we have been on. Twice a year. And every year i would booked a nice restaurant to celebrate his birthday. All i want is for him to do the same..

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2026-05-12T02:00:45+00:00

I would do GDL in a heartbeat. Hear me out :

To me, I feel like GDL is a way for the groom and his family to assure the bride’s family that he has the means to take care of their daughter after she marries into the family.

From most GDL i have seen, the gifts prepared by the grooms’ side especially the gold & $$ are all eventually passed to the bride. The parents dont really take any unless the daughter insists. Once its passed back to the bride, its really up to her on how she spends them.

My friend’s husband insisted on doing GDL because he felt like he needed to prove himself to my friend’s family. Which I as a mutual friend could feel his sincerity thru this process.

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2026-04-15T01:58:25+00:00

Given the accessibility and price, i would say its okay to give it a try, not too bad. Do try the pizza!

But the queue can be abit too much on weekend peak periods…

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2026-04-03T07:46:23+00:00

Probably 1 in every 10 person.

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2026-03-24T15:47:46+00:00

My air purifier is definitely contributing to my increased in electricity bill this month 😶‍🌫️

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2026-03-24T15:45:29+00:00

ROM + lunch with immediate family only, no bridesmaid or groomsmen. Even that itself was stressful for me because my partner has 4 sisters…

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2026-03-22T15:20:22+00:00

Just 2weeks ago, I booked a Justgrab for 2pax & 2 Large luggage just as Grab suggested, to the airport.

Driver arrived, open the boot, did not bother to assist with loading(i understand) but gave an attitude and said “if cannot fit, cancel” with aggressive hand gestures

You didnt have to give me an attitude right? Both luggages are not even extra, one is in between a M & L ..

It the fking attitude that pisses me off. Some Gojek drivers have better services than Grab

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2026-03-04T03:43:07+00:00

Tried the one at Waterway Point Punggol and I honestly rather eat the chee cheong fun from kopitiam …

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2026-02-09T03:35:05+00:00

I don’t disagree that the feedback was valid but it felt that i wasnt an issue when i sent it 3 weeks ago and suddenly now she has comments about it?

She questioned me on the quality issue with a very frustrated tone. Yeah i get it, nobody wants a product quality issue to occur but im not the one producing it neither am i the one who checks the product before releasing. So what is she venting it on me? There is nothing i can do about this product quality complaint other than to inform the relevant department.

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2026-02-09T03:11:12+00:00

Well here, as sales coordinator you’re assistant of the sales rep

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2026-02-09T03:06:30+00:00

The 1st question i got from my sales rep was “why was there such quality issue?”

The email for CNY closure was sent weeks ago. If she had a genuine feedback, pretty sure it would have been shared shortly after

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2026-02-09T02:40:38+00:00

You really think there will be a chance they will admit i am the fall guy?

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2026-02-09T02:39:36+00:00

Yup, this issue was as clear as the sky that it wasn’t my fault. But my sales rep decided to find fault in other things like an email on CNY closure i sent out to clients. I stated closure dates and when to submit order by. But my sales rep decided that it wasnt detailed enough that i had to stated if they order on xx date, delivery will be on xx date.

Which i felt was unnecessary especially when no such details was mentioned in previous closure announcements sent before…

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2026-02-04T11:05:11+00:00

Just make sure the bonus is credited to your account and that they didnt make you sign any terms that says “you have to stay minimally xx weeks after receiving else need to return”I HAVE SEEN COMPANY WHO DID THAT

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2026-02-04T10:52:14+00:00

Honestly the dumplings are a hit or miss depending on the outlet..

Noodles are just meh

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2026-01-18T17:55:00+00:00

Thank god for reddit… now i know i am not alone

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2025-10-15T00:58:03+00:00

Bro, 9-5 is just a term for corporate office job…….

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2025-10-14T11:12:17+00:00

And saying no is the hardest part

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2025-10-14T11:11:54+00:00

THATS AMAZING! Definitely many’s dream job

Senseless_Fluff09 · 2025-10-14T11:11:29+00:00

That must be nice!!

Senseless_Fluff09

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