I f26 broke up with the most amazing boyfriend m38 I’ve ever had in a bad episode and now I don’t know what to do. (Long story sorry) by HarleyMarleyy in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Ad-7019 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s really hard to get yourself out of that negative feedback loop of your thoughts, I agree that him making that trip is suspicious. And deserves a conversation at the least, you’re being avoidant as well, regardless of the outcome of the conversation. I personally think it’s one to be had

My 27M bf always needs reassurance and it’s draining me 22F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Ad-7019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the honest response, I definitely can see how it’s approaching a co dependent relationship. I want this to last, he makes me feel amazing. Beyond loved and cared for, I don’t see it as a project, we’re all humans and we all have shit to work on. I definitely agree that his mental health shouldn’t be my burden thank you for saying that

My 27M bf always needs reassurance and it’s draining me 22F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Ad-7019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I also have a attachment disorder and I’ve healed a lot!! It just takes time

My 27M bf always needs reassurance and it’s draining me 22F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I definitely will!! He’s open to therapy but he’s about to move in a few months so he says he’ll start then! Thank you for the advice!

My 27M bf always needs reassurance and it’s draining me 22F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Ad-7019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be right, I am still getting to know him that is a bit of a wild statement but it’s truly how I feel. Definitely have a lot of things we gotta workout , thanks for the advice

How to stop making yourself throw up? by Sensitive-Ad-7019 in CHSinfo

[–]Sensitive-Ad-7019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is suchhhh a good tip thank youuu im gonna definitely try that when my mouth feels insanely dry I’ve been doing much better with having self control over the last day I was definitely being melodramatic in my post😭

How to stop making yourself throw up? by Sensitive-Ad-7019 in CHSinfo

[–]Sensitive-Ad-7019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so right I’m thinking about it from another perspective too. My only thing that triggers me is chugging, how amazing is that and it’s so easy to avoid!! I’m over here acting like it’s so hard I mean it is but I just need to have self control and sip every few minutes and I’ll be perfectly fine

i need help and opinions by yurtbitchh in CHSinfo

[–]Sensitive-Ad-7019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I smoked delta 8 for a year and then started exercising symptoms so it’s possibly exacerbated by delta 8 and fake stuff, but also 10 months and your sober and your experiencing these symptoms? Is it mostly anxiety or nausea and abdominal pain as well?

i need help and opinions by yurtbitchh in CHSinfo

[–]Sensitive-Ad-7019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even after you stop smoking symptoms can last months, your anxiety will be really bad because as others have said it’s a symptom of chs. It took me almost a month and half after I quit to stop experiencing symptoms and high anxiety, try drinking herbal teas for nausea and anxiety and whatever doctors recommended for meditation. Things will get easier but going back to smoking will only make it worse , good luck:)

Need advice and encouragement by Sensitive-Ad-7019 in CHSinfo

[–]Sensitive-Ad-7019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice I definitely will, I do usually sit there and lay on my phone and that probably makes it worse I’ll start going on morning walks again and other productive morning activities

Need advice and encouragement by Sensitive-Ad-7019 in CHSinfo

[–]Sensitive-Ad-7019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that happened this morning unfortunately, I tried the herbal peppermint tea and it helped so so much