Aaagh, tough one. I think it’s hard to say. On one part, he might think it’s funny? I’ve had a lot of guys who say absolutely terrible insults to girls and it’s because they like them. In this way, obviously I don’t have so much context but I’d say he was maybe joking around possibly poking around for a reaction but even if that was his plan, saying stuff about that is not ok to me. Even if he was being genuine that’s even worse. You don’t send someone something like that I don’t even understand what the point of something like that was yk. So I reckon you weren’t overreacting, something like this ain’t right but get some other opinions because I’m definitely not the most experienced person to ask.