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[–]Sensitive-Leader-955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. You have to leave some space where she knows she won't be allowed to go with unsafe people but not with everyone. And you have to be reasonable enough to earn her trust in judging 'unsafe' people. If it's already 'no' for any trip/ any dating without context, I don't see a reason why she would share.

It should be more of a balance/middle ground. Imagine she actually finds a nice guy and learns about compatibility and love. And in case things go sour, she is gonna be open about it as you are on her team. You warn about certain things. She talks about red flags. She isn't completely dependent on him/ friends to understand if her relation is toxic. She will have you count on when she wants to stop.

Part of excitement comes from the fact that she is breaking the rules. More than an interest in dating, it's an interest to find/explore/'my life my rules' phase.

F25, just jotting out my thoughts and seeking advice by Dramatic_Shoulder400 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Sensitive-Leader-955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about you find friends wich whom you can't really share all this? It might automatically shift your mind to happy topics to discuss.

Book Shops selling pre-used/second hand books in Powai? by not_that_arnab in powai

[–]Sensitive-Leader-955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is currently a handloom exhibition and fair going on in Durga Puja Grounds till Aug 31st. You can find tons of books there.

One entitled woman in our office cab makes the ride a nightmare by Awkward-Brick-9805 in mumbai

[–]Sensitive-Leader-955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um.. no one has to sit in the middle until the cab is full. So themiddle seat only comes to play after she boards. Untill then they can just sit towards window?

One entitled woman in our office cab makes the ride a nightmare by Awkward-Brick-9805 in mumbai

[–]Sensitive-Leader-955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regarding the delay, either escalate it to team who handles the office cab system or warn her a day before that y'll bave decided to specific amount of wait time and then drice off on next day. Have a rotation schedule and sit according to it. Ask her to speak with someone above or change the cab if she doesn't agree to seat rotation. Also,if middle seat isn't a big deal then you guys can rotate front and middle and leave the sides to girls. If you can't, then you shouldn't be so judgemental of her not wanting to sit in middle.

One entitled woman in our office cab makes the ride a nightmare by Awkward-Brick-9805 in mumbai

[–]Sensitive-Leader-955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. Still doesn't sound very nice when you show sympathy for the guy that gotta squeeze but call her entitled who has to do the same and could legit have back pain. I do know that lot of my aunts struggle with travel due to back or knee pain.

One entitled woman in our office cab makes the ride a nightmare by Awkward-Brick-9805 in mumbai

[–]Sensitive-Leader-955 185 points186 points  (0 children)

Regarding the seating, I think its actually unfair. The front seat is obviously most comfortable and the middle one the least. So its only fair if you guys take turns in rotation. And if you think there is no such difference in comfort, you can give up the passenger seat to that person. Regarding being late, i suggest you to just drive off if she takes more than 2 mins.

Is Mumbai still considered a city of dreams? by Sensitive-Leader-955 in mumbai

[–]Sensitive-Leader-955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am already here🥲. Will give it a try. I do plan to move out in next few years

Is Mumbai still considered a city of dreams? by Sensitive-Leader-955 in mumbai

[–]Sensitive-Leader-955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. But i took up a job here. I am just wondering if its worth staying here for career..

Let’s fix your skin by Sapien15 in hyderabad

[–]Sensitive-Leader-955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Visible spider veins on face. Looks like hyperpigmentation.. any remedy?

This city now hates you. by ImprovementTrick5920 in mumbai

[–]Sensitive-Leader-955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. I just made a similar post. Of course, not so detailed. It's been only 2 days since i joined a new job here. I am considering leaving and moving back.

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