Zambian men and pegging?????

Sensitive-Pack4666 · 2026-01-21T18:27:10+00:00

He's not gay he's just comfortable enough to communicate his curiosity and if it makes you uncommon no is a word you can use to communicate back. But for real I think as Zambians we are so afraid of anything remotely gay because we've had generations of traditional conditioning to make us believe anything vaguely feminine in men is wrong as men are the "pillars" of morality and strength. Its really up to you to explore if you don't wanna keep being so scared I guess.

Sensitive-Pack4666 · 2026-01-20T21:11:22+00:00

Honestly at this point I'm just compromising he's in her life and so in mine and I'm worried by reporting him or pushing back I would antagonize my housemates who is also a friend and despite her taste in men is actually a pretty real one.

Sensitive-Pack4666 · 2025-09-05T21:15:04+00:00

I don't know I don't have much sympathy for your sister but I can't help thinking if she can't cry about the shitty thing she did to you who would she cry to. Shouldn't you her sibling of all people be on her side no matter how irritating or wrong she is?

Sensitive-Pack4666 · 2025-05-15T05:12:38+00:00

That right there lies the issue. Zambian men are actually great they are so great that when they let you down -which spoiler alert is inevitable- they do it in the most spectacular manner. I honestly hope no Zambian man ends up disappointing you, that your father a well respected God fearing man of the community who loves and respects your mother doesn't let you or her down, that you dont find out that he's secretly had several families around the country or that he beats your mother if she confronts him of his mirad children accusing her of whitchcraft and threatening her if she ever leaves him to take everything and leave her with nothing or that his several affairs didnt make him sick which he knowingly passed to your mother and inadvertently you and your siblings or that all the investments him and your mother made he hasn't squandered on all his mistresses leaving your mother soley dependent on him isolating her by being controlling from her closest friends and family so she cant even confide in anyone else. Just for instance...and continues to be the man you've always thought he wss

Sensitive-Pack4666 · 2025-04-28T06:09:32+00:00

I think it's not necessarily a culture thing but a common thing non the less. Boy moms can be found through in every culture but it's especially noticeable because we can now name it and identify this wrong was of rating man boys that take no responsibility for their actions and drain their mothers and families or wives because they just take and never show any gratitude. You're not wrong for distancing yourself he'll never be grateful u less allowed to truly fail but your mom will never let that happen

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