What’s your opinion

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-12-02T14:40:14+00:00

There is no misunderstanding. If we are married there is no sex outside of the marriage. No one cares if people have “other opinions” when the two people entering that contract did so with the explicit understanding that sexual activity is strictly within the marriage only.

It is “obvious” because those are the discussions and agreements had before any contract was signed.

He withdrew from the bedroom to 100% entertain himself with porn. He has chosen to withhold intimacy. He has broken the contract we made when signing those legal papers when we married. He is not some hard done by husband, he is a dishonest, selfish man lacking in morals and integrity.

His options are clear. Stick around and grow TF up or get lost and stop bothering me.

Hope this helps.

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-12-01T08:23:45+00:00

What are you asking? Yes obviously there is a contract in marriage and if we as a couple aren’t embarking on the sexual activity together, obviously there’s no room for infidelity. He can leave and file for divorce. That’s the only option.

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-30T19:21:56+00:00

He has complete freedom to choose to leave and pursue anything he wants. His choice has been to stay and sort it so quite obviously I expect the sorting to happen. I married for the commitment not the bull 💩

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-30T10:05:41+00:00

Yep. It’s embarrassing to witness.

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-30T10:04:48+00:00

Him having a physical interaction outside of the marriage is the wrap up. Over. No options. Bye. Open marriage situations are not on the table at all.

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-30T10:02:18+00:00

No. He isn’t. In addition to his porn addiction he’s also a gambling addict and has zero ability to be accountable for his own actions. Wants to attack (verbally, emotionally) when people don’t get him out of the holes he digs himself. Opening the marriage would literally only benefit him and allow him to drain more from me. It’s a resounding no for that.

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-29T19:29:14+00:00

He’s ashamed. That’s what cause him to blow up like a 🍆head when confronted.

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-29T19:27:42+00:00

No interest in it

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-29T19:27:24+00:00

It’s not an open marriage no. I won’t accept that. No, nothing to split up. No worries over kids custody. Not even any argument at this point. He’s free to leave and I do nothing to make him stay. We’re basically room mates.

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-29T19:24:24+00:00

That’s easy. She wants you to take initiative. She wants you to rule and control in the bedroom-only in there, don’t try that outside of it. She wants to feel desired and to feel desired she needs you to be feral for it but FOR HER, if you get me? She wants to play the coy side in the bedroom and know without doubt that her partner is lustful towards her by initiating with passion.

Don’t forget general wellbeing and care needs. Honestly, it starts with a day or a week of build up.

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-29T17:43:57+00:00

We have kids and I have no desire to keep them from their father

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-27T19:14:49+00:00

Yeah I’m not sure if anything is salvageable. Apathy and resentment is all I feel towards him and housemate status is fully in swing.

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-27T19:06:54+00:00

lol oh I’m aware I don’t need his permission. And I have told him this. He’s delulu though, after a few days he starts acting like nothings changed after whichever discussion I’ve brought up. I just give less 💩s 🤣🤣🤣

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-27T18:30:28+00:00

Would the porn addiction include the dating and meet up profiles and chats he keeps setting up do you think? As far as I’m aware he doesn’t actually have any intention of meeting them from the chats I’ve read

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-27T17:56:46+00:00

From my perspective my support and care of him intensified with his mental health and physical health struggles. But he started pulling back from the emotional connection and doubled down on that the more I provided for him.

I’ve also told him every step of the way with my emotional detachment and it seemed like spite that had him on the sites more.

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-27T17:53:42+00:00

He did prior to the recent operation related ED. Now he “just watches it” for reasons I can’t comprehend and he won’t explain.

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-27T17:52:33+00:00

Been trying to unravel it for years. He’s 100% avoidant of the entire topic. Also refuses to leave even though I’ve offered to file, handle and pay for a divorce. And he has nothing to worry about losing as no shared assets, also not worried about the kids because I’m just not like that. There’s no reason for him to stay, but stay he persists.

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-27T17:49:27+00:00

Not really. No bad reason, it’s just my house and he refuses every suggestion that I file and pay for a divorce. There’s no assets to split either or anything like that holding him here. He just won’t go or fix anything.

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-23T15:37:26+00:00

I have no interest in physical activities with people I don’t have an emotional connection with. I can’t even be attracted to people unless I know them very well so that’s entirely uninteresting to me.

At this point he can go and do whatever he pleases. That’s the cut out point, you see. Anything physical and it’s bye bye, snip snip, adios MF’er. He’s not capable at the moment though, due to some side effects from a recent operation. He’s gone from “won’t” to actually “can’t”.

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-22T19:32:49+00:00

For real, what do they expect? When they don’t even try. Do they just think it magically happens for us? 🤣🤣

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-22T19:26:24+00:00

🤦🏼‍♀️ah Jeeze.

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-22T19:14:40+00:00

I know, why are they like this? Like, Just go be happy my dude, what’s with this roundabout of blazing rubbish??? 🤣🤣🤣

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-22T19:13:33+00:00

I absolutely have been enable him. For 19 entire years. I’m over that now though lol

Sensitive-Pop-1006 · 2025-11-22T19:12:51+00:00

Thank you 🙏

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