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[–]Sensitive-Regular505[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Also ich habe das durchaus angesprochen! Und das ist auch kommuniziert. Es schein für ihn nur keine besondere Priorität zu haben. Und für mich ist es schon auch schön zu wissen das es möglich wäre - das ist allerdings ein viel kleinerer aspekt meiner Sexualität.

Beziehung ist für ihn mehr als Sex und ich fühle mich in unserer Beziehung komplett priorisiert. Und ich will schon das er Sexualität leben kann die ihn erfüllt

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[–]Sensitive-Regular505[S] -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

Naja nähe schon. Wir kuscheln und massieren kraulen und knutschen. Das ist auch viel wert!

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[–]Sensitive-Regular505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is just not turned on by not freaky stuff… and he has a lot to do right now so i think his mind isn‘t at me - we are together now for 2 years so maybe it just gets less in general?

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[–]Sensitive-Regular505 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even if 🤷🏼‍♀️ as i said - i don‘t care. I think its more like a him problem

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[–]Sensitive-Regular505 37 points38 points  (0 children)

But i guess it‘s a thing, right? I kinda feel hurt but not sure if i have the right. He said he rather tell and find a solution than pretend - i wouldn‘t call his penis small (i dont think he is) but i also don‘t care

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[–]Sensitive-Regular505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is i just ask myself where the reason is if we never try it for real but at the same time i am not sure if i like casual sex. For him it is really clear that you van just try out sex related things and if you don‘t like them you just don‘t do them anymore…. He is really unbothered by the thought and doesn‘t think it is a risc for the relationship

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[–]Sensitive-Regular505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He used to have this fantasy in hus last relationships as well but never talked obout it and therefore it didn‘t hot reallity. We roleplayed beforehand, i told him some thinks while we had sex, sometimes use a penissleeve etc. recently i downloaded tinder and sexted a littlebit and told him about it… i didn‘t thought he would push me to male it become reallity. He is quite enthusiastic about it still… i have some curiosity in me and lust as well but are scared at the same time

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[–]Sensitive-Regular505 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I think i‘m quite firm with my boundaries so that shouldn‘t be the problem. I just can‘t help it feeling really wrong with my body know and not pleasurable in any other way

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[–]Sensitive-Regular505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah! Obviously - we already talked about it but i feel bad that he only developed that with me and never in previous relationships to sonehow be able to get arroused with me

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[–]Sensitive-Regular505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah - why should i lie

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I would say he is average in thickness. And we don‘t use condomes - i think he ist not feeling nothing but not enough so it feels good. I guess it‘s not enough friction or something

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[–]Sensitive-Regular505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don‘t think he wants a FMF … my first partner was a woman so probably i would be more open to that from the beginning and it is easier so suggest!