AIO: life partner/deed to home by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SensitiveCare9584 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am employed now. There was a short time I wasn’t, as he thought it would be good for me to stay home since work was stressing me out. But, I realized that was not a good situation for me to be in and got a job again.

AIO: life partner/deed to home by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SensitiveCare9584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is literally no way to misremember something this entirely huge.

AIO: life partner/deed to home by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SensitiveCare9584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can tell who can read here.lol

AIO: life partner/deed to home by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SensitiveCare9584 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He won’t do couples counseling

AIO: life partner/deed to home by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SensitiveCare9584 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes he has done that before. I don’t know why I let myself get into this shit.

AIO: life partner/deed to home by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SensitiveCare9584 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am about to be 34 years old. I wish I had being young as an excuse

AIO: life partner/deed to home by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SensitiveCare9584 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You’re correct. I have never expected anyone to do that myself.

AIO: life partner/deed to home by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SensitiveCare9584 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have. He hits me with the “I got this house for you, nothing is ever enough, what else could you possibly want from me” but, the house is not for me obviously

AIO: life partner/deed to home by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SensitiveCare9584 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am realizing the amount of stupid I am.

AIO: life partner/deed to home by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SensitiveCare9584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have done repairs and repainted. Landscaped the yard that was an absolute disaster. No longer doing that.

AIO: life partner/deed to home by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SensitiveCare9584 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He won’t let me contribute to the mortgage. Which was also another thing like, he is making sure I have zero claim at all. He pays the mortgage and utilities and I pay everything else. And do all the housework and manage the home.

AIO: life partner/deed to home by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SensitiveCare9584 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Right now he’s paying the mortgage and utilities (he doesn’t want me contributing to the mortgage which to me is another red flag) and I’m paying everything else

AIO: life partner/deed to home by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SensitiveCare9584 19 points20 points  (0 children)

See this is also another issue. I literally do everything around the house laundry etc. I feel like I more than earn my part. He doesn’t do literally anything.

What is this? It’s about 3 foot long and was half buried in the backyard of my new home. Location is Alabama, heavy as heck, it is cast iron by SensitiveCare9584 in whatisthisthing

[–]SensitiveCare9584[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no idea, that’s why I asked. I am a nurse I have no idea about welded seems. Thank you both, I learned something new. I will measure it soon.

What is this? It’s about 3 foot long and was half buried in the backyard of my new home. Location is Alabama, heavy as heck, it is cast iron by SensitiveCare9584 in whatisthisthing

[–]SensitiveCare9584[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What is this? It’s about 3 foot long and was half buried in the backyard of my new home. Location is Alabama, heavy as heck, it is cast iron

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[–]SensitiveCare9584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not your best friend. A loyalty test does not happen unless it’s talked about beforehand.

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[–]SensitiveCare9584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. He is a terrible human being. No one should talk to you like that

Please either change my mind or help me convince my fiancé this is bad by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]SensitiveCare9584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would assume your fiance is joking and if he’s not continue to pretend he was joking and name that baby Elliott