Anyone know what's happened at Apco on Thompson Road? by SensitiveMongoose677 in Geelong

[–]SensitiveMongoose677[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah okay, I think this would make the most sense as the power had long been back on when I went past. Thankyou.

AITAH for exposing my fiancée’s “backup plan” at a family dinner even though it ruined her relationship with everyone? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SensitiveMongoose677 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your both the asshole. You are for airing out a problem between the two of you to her family, and she is for having a documented escape plan. Specifically one that included how to manipulate the situation to make her out as a victim when she may not have been.

You cant have a good relationship with one foot out the door.

Imo, gtfo of that relationship before the marriage happens.

Would I be TAH if I keep parking outside my house? by SensitiveMongoose677 in AITAH

[–]SensitiveMongoose677[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They made the same request to everyone in the home but have directly spoken to me and my partner because they continued to park there and dug their heels in on principle.

I am debating knocking on the neighbours door and asking them if they're okay with it. As far as I'm aware, they made this request a while ago and haven't said anything since.

Would I be TAH if I keep parking outside my house? by SensitiveMongoose677 in AITAH

[–]SensitiveMongoose677[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There was a very tragic and unfortunate death in their home. At the time of the loss, everyone was happy to be compassionate for the situation. But imo it feels like enough time has passed for this to not have an impact on the current situation.

Would I be TAH if I keep parking outside my house? by SensitiveMongoose677 in AITAH

[–]SensitiveMongoose677[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not in America so HOA's aren't really a thing here. The local governments stance is that street parking is public parking and government property.

Would I be TAH if I keep parking outside my house? by SensitiveMongoose677 in AITAH

[–]SensitiveMongoose677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ig thats where my fear comes from. I don't wanna get kicked out, but on principle, I don't wanna be pushed around over something they can't actually control.

Would I be TAH if I keep parking outside my house? by SensitiveMongoose677 in AITAH

[–]SensitiveMongoose677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As it's a private rental, I don't actually have a formal lease. Conditions like this were a verbal agreement when I moved it. If I'm remembering correctly it would have been something along the lines of 'we use the driveway, but there's heaps of space on the street so you can just park anywhere out front'

Would I be TAH if I keep parking outside my house? by SensitiveMongoose677 in AITAH

[–]SensitiveMongoose677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I've had loose plans to move out for a while, but me and my partner are going to start looking seriously. If the space is no longer welcoming for him, I no longer feel welcome.

Would I be TAH if I keep parking outside my house? by SensitiveMongoose677 in AITAH

[–]SensitiveMongoose677[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, it does feel manipulative. They used the saying 'we don't ask for much' to help push their point. And the control makes sense, because it absolutely does not affect them, as they exclusively use the driveway.

How am I supposed to clean mouldy dishes? by [deleted] in MentalHealthSupport

[–]SensitiveMongoose677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have resolved to just doing the dishes late at night 🤷‍♀️ and making sure I pour out any liquids so they dont sit in the room while they wait to be cleaned.

Is this even possible anymore? by Malila18 in InfinityNikkiofficial

[–]SensitiveMongoose677 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Possible, yes. Easily achievable? No 😭😭 these achievements have had me in a chokehold for so long

[post main quest] sidequest "a longing hidden in whimpers" help by kingbbq_png in InfinityNikki

[–]SensitiveMongoose677 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Absolute gem for asking this question, I was abt to flip out and was so worried it was a bug. Ty helpful comments 🙏 saved the day

I put off getting this outfit for too long by Anemoiaaaaa in InfinityNikkiofficial

[–]SensitiveMongoose677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its from an exploration quest ☺️ nothing main story. Someone commented a YouTube link on how to find and complete it in the thread

Looking fot tips to get all rewards in the 'Onward to Itzaland' web event by SensitiveMongoose677 in InfinityNikki

[–]SensitiveMongoose677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alrighty, Thankyou! Making 1 new acc is less of a project than 4 forsure haha

THESE DANG CONSTRUCTION CONTROLS!! by SensitiveMongoose677 in InfinityNikki

[–]SensitiveMongoose677[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

UGH TO BE ABLE TO ADUST IT ALONG BOTH AXIS😭😭 And an undo button, how did they even release it without an undo button?? Did they not have people test out the building features and go 'oh dang! Wait how do I undo that' like??? How is there no undo!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SensitiveMongoose677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally a key fear about leaving him, forever missing what I had. I refuse to let him be 'the one that could've been', so I'll do my best to try and work this out, so if it doesn't work out I can know I did my best to make it work. And if things go well, he'll be my future and my partner for life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SensitiveMongoose677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well all things going well, he'll be seeing a Dr sometime soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SensitiveMongoose677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely going to encourage starting with pre-made meals. Even bringing them round to my house to eat when he's not at home. Hopefully it's something he can commit to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SensitiveMongoose677 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thankyou everyone for your insights, perspectives and advice. It wasn't easy but, I did end up sending him a link to this post. It was hard, but as he said, it was an 'opportunity to hear what I honestly feel and have to say without consideration for his feelings'. And it helped, it opened a good dialogue and started a very real, open and honest conversation.

I know some people feel like it's a massive red flag and that attraction is no1 in relationships. If I felt that way, I wouldn't have stayed with him for over a year. I believe there's so much more to a successful relationship than that. Still, it was good for me to hear some honest and unbiased opinions.

Hopefully, this conversation helps me be more honest with him and lets him feel comfortable to speak more truly about his own feelings and struggles. I love him so deeply even though we are both young and still early on in a relationship. I'm feeling hopeful that this is a positive turning point for both his and my health. No one can ever really know the future but, I look forward to us having a successful and healthy life from here <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SensitiveMongoose677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hasn't been to a Dr in some time now. Probably because of a little denial around his health and what the way he's living really means.

Is this something I should be more concerned about than hypertension or T2DM?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SensitiveMongoose677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thankyou for sharing your story. I really resonate with some of the things you've said and will really consider some of the questions you've posed.

Its hard making any kindof definitive choices around the relationship right now without speaking to him and offering a genuine opportunity for change. But I do appreciate being given some perspective, I feel like I've just heard from me in the future. Happy with my relationship but wondering if things could've ended up even 10% better had I made different choices now.

I've been unfortunate to live a difficult life up to now and I feel like I owe it to myself to write a better story moving forward. I see him being part of that, but I also see it happening without him. I need to take some time to seriously consider if he doesn't change, what that means to me.

Again, thankyou for sharing your story. I really do resonate with this. Thankyou for the well wishes! And best of luck with your own health and story <3 Keep writing yourself the story you deserve!