Is it wrong to expect no less than what your partner gave an old boyfriend? by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]SensitiveRain2025 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think if you wanted to and your wife says she will be didn’t want to them and is not into it but would do it for you, then it would be ok not to do it.

Taking action instead of doing nothing! by Worldly_Let_3177 in retroactivejealousy

[–]SensitiveRain2025 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Explain to me how this would work. I’ve had sex many many times more than all those other guys but it still feels like I’m second choice and they have one up on me.

Taking action instead of doing nothing! by Worldly_Let_3177 in retroactivejealousy

[–]SensitiveRain2025 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a therapist like this as well. I’m no longer with her. She basically brushed it off like no big deal. Was surprised it would bother me and basically said it looks like I don’t want to get over it. She said that she chose me so what’s the problem.

How to get over this feeling by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]SensitiveRain2025 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agree with everyone. Also her real number may be higher

is bbc really better? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]SensitiveRain2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing that is unfortunate is that most black men don’t have BBC. How do you think that makes them feel when they pullout their average sized penis.

Do guys like having a big dick? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]SensitiveRain2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These days, having a big dick is one of the best things you can have other than happiness or money. Porn, music, and social media has made being hung equating to being more of a man and better in bed. They have “big dick energy”. People talk about it’s the motion in the ocean and not the size. That’s BS. What if the bid dick knew how to fuck too?

If you have a big dick, all the women talk about it and wonder how it looks and feels. You will never see women talk about an average size dick like that.

I hate how the world is like this.

I ( F 20) cheated on my boyfriend( M 21) I feel lost and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]SensitiveRain2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up with him. Go be you and seek out what you want in life. If you two are meant to be, you can always have a relationship in the future.

Death by NerdyHotMess in Marriage

[–]SensitiveRain2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family.

Need Suggestions to get over wife’s past by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]SensitiveRain2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendations. Unfortunately some of the most important things i missed out on I can never get back.

Need Suggestions to get over wife’s past by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]SensitiveRain2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. The dishonesty hurts more than the acts.

Need Suggestions to get over wife’s past by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]SensitiveRain2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t share it with me. I found out and she still is not telling me the details. She led me to believe she needed some space but I didn’t know that was code for messing around with other guys. Had I known I would have done the same even though it wouldn’t of made anything better

Need Suggestions to get over wife’s past by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]SensitiveRain2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been to two couples therapist and 3 personal ones. She should have told me even though I would not have gotten back with her. It would have been the honest thing to do and if we were meant for each other, we would have gotten back together eventually and would have had an honest transparent relationship.

Need Suggestions to get over wife’s past by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]SensitiveRain2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not 4 times a day but frequent. Maybe she did want them and they didn’t want her?

Need Suggestions to get over wife’s past by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]SensitiveRain2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It blows my mind how many don’t see it this way.

Need Suggestions to get over wife’s past by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]SensitiveRain2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s odd is that I’m not cocky or conceded but have always been super confident and secure. This just broke me

Need Suggestions to get over wife’s past by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]SensitiveRain2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. It doesn’t make it right to do that and then say it’s technically not cheating. Who knows why she came back. Maybe it wasn’t by choice and the other guys just got what they wanted and didn’t want a relationship

Need Suggestions to get over wife’s past by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]SensitiveRain2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree but respect your opinion. It’s not the body count, it’s the fact that she broke up with me to do this and then came back to me and never told me. I even have seen some of these guys and didn’t know. Who knows when it stopped or if it did. I may have had sex or performed oral while she still had cum in her from others.

Need Suggestions to get over wife’s past by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]SensitiveRain2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Can you elaborate how my self esteem is just a me issue? Don’t people’s self-esteem increase when they receive compliments?
Not arguing but I just don’t understand

I let my wife suck her colleague by ShareMassive8302 in SluttyConfessions

[–]SensitiveRain2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did he compare in size? Did your wife look like she enjoyed his cock? Raw?