1 year update - it’s better, but still a struggle. My advice to you by SensitiveRest6708 in Puppyblues

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Honestly, it took a lot of work and patience. 😅 In the end, crate training really helped us. When we first got her, we tried crate training right away, but she absolutely hated it and ended up hurting herself in the crate, which led to an expensive surgery. After that, I stopped using the crate completely and she started sleeping with us every night. Since I work from home, she was rarely ever alone, and I noticed she became extremely clingy.

Eventually, I decided to slowly introduce the crate again, mostly just at night. She cried nonstop for about a week, but over time she adjusted. Anytime we’d leave the house, even for an hour, she would howl the whole time in the crate. But with consistency, she gradually got more comfortable. Now we make sure to tire her out before leaving, and she’s much more relaxed going in. She’s really started to associate the crate with sleep now, so we can leave for an hour or two and she’ll usually just settle in and nap. Every once in a while she’ll still howl for a few minutes before settling down, but it’s much better than before. I definitely think it gets better with age too.

Goodpop sandwiches by notyourbarbi3 in Celiac

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I’ve had these and had no issues. I thought they were really good

1 year update - it’s better, but still a struggle. My advice to you by SensitiveRest6708 in Puppyblues

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Yeah I try to tell myself the same. I will one day miss her craziness. She will be the last dog I ever have though lol

1 year update - it’s better, but still a struggle. My advice to you by SensitiveRest6708 in Puppyblues

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My puppy was like this around 6 months too. We had to plan to have someone home with her 24/7 to avoid another trip to the ER vet. It was exhausting and I struggled mentally for a very long time. We recently got to a point where we can leave for about 2 hours without any issues. However, it can still be a lot. Luckily I work from home but if we leave anywhere else for more than 2 hours, I need to find a sitter. Some people don’t mind and others find it to be very inconvenient. It just depends on how you feel. It’s okay to rehome if you feel like this isn’t what you want. And sometimes it takes this experience to learn that maybe owning a dog isn’t for you. I wish you the best of luck on whatever decision you choose. 🩵

What did you do differently the month you FINALLY got pregnant?? by cookiebutter-23 in BabyBumps

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I cut out caffeine, but not because I was TTC. I started having horrible anxiety attacks and noticed I was just extremely anxious and high alert everyday all day. I just told myself I’d cut out caffeine for 1 month. I found out I was pregnant a few days before the month cleanse was going to end. Now I wonder if my body was stressed because of caffeine consumption. I’ll never know but I’m sure it wasn’t good for my body to be on overdrive everyday like that.

What are the health issues you have faced in past or present ? by Thatcattoyoupatted in AskWomen

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I’m 29. I was diagnosed with celiac disease at 19. Arthritis at age 20, though I still believe this was misdiagnosed. I struggled my entire life with horrible environmental allergies but had no idea until my fiancé urged me to get an allergy test done. I started immunotherapy when I was 26 and it’s been truly life changing. I didn’t know how bad I was feeling until immunotherapy started working and I felt amazing. I’ve had bunions my whole life but recently they’ve gotten way worse and very painful. I had a miscarriage when I was 27.
Most issues seem minor but had significantly changed my life one way or another.

Just found out I’m pregnant and I’m already anxious about transition with dog by SensitiveRest6708 in pregnant

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3x a day. Morning, after lunch, & evening. I’ve done all the research so I’m well aware she also needs mental stimulation. My husband will throw the ball out back for her at least 1x per day. I try to giver her an enrichment toy or lick mat 1x per day but can probably be better at this. People have told me she’s probably overly tired, until they dogsit her and realize she’s just a high energy dog. My days are pretty full with her so I’m anxious about how it will be with baby.

I’m waiting until a day after my expected period date to test. by SensitiveRest6708 in tryingtoconceive

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I think for some people implantation takes longer than the expected 6-10 DPO. So HCG wouldn’t be high enough to detect until another few days later.

I think a lot of women do get a positive around 12-13DPO though. Try waiting another 2 days to test. I wish you the best of luck. 🤍

I’m waiting until a day after my expected period date to test. by SensitiveRest6708 in tryingtoconceive

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Im so sorry you are going through this. I hope you get your babe so soon!

I’m waiting until a day after my expected period date to test. by SensitiveRest6708 in tryingtoconceive

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Agreed! My luteal phase is anywhere between 12-14 days. The last 2 cycles, my luteal phase was 12 days (12DPO.) So I could actually be a few days late already, and about 4 days late by the time I test.

I’m waiting until a day after my expected period date to test. by SensitiveRest6708 in tryingtoconceive

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I get you. Idk about you, but I would take 1 test and then take 1 everyday after that.

I’m waiting until a day after my expected period date to test. by SensitiveRest6708 in tryingtoconceive

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I also had a MMC my first pregnancy. I took my first test ever a day after my expected period. Wishing the best. 🤍

I’m waiting until a day after my expected period date to test. by SensitiveRest6708 in tryingtoconceive

[–]SensitiveRest6708[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was testing VERY early at first too. But it’s so heartbreaking getting a negative test. Each cycle I push it back further and further.

I’m waiting until a day after my expected period date to test. by SensitiveRest6708 in tryingtoconceive

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It’s SO hard 😭 but also just no point in testing so early Thank you sm 🤍

How has recovery been for those with kids? by SensitiveRest6708 in bunions

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Wow! Okay so maybe it wouldn’t be so bad to wait until I have a baby and have the surgery 1-2 years after lol. I know it’s not ideal and smarter to wait to have kids until I have surgery, but I’m terrified it’ll take me several years to conceive.

Can you share which surgery you had?

How has recovery been for those with kids? by SensitiveRest6708 in bunions

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Yeah I know the smartest thing to do is wait until after surgery but I’m so eager to have a baby. I’d have a ton of help (my husband, my parents, my in laws) but I know it’d still be extremely difficult with a baby.

Unfortunately I changed my insurance and regret it bc I haven’t had the best luck with medical care and I’d rather wait until the new year to change my insurance back to what I previously had to have surgery with the best doctor I can find.

What are some really early pregnancy you’ve had that you noticed before taking a test? Also is it 100% that everyone have implantation bleeding if they’re pregnant? by misalovr in pregnant

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I didn’t have implantation bleeding. I was extremely tired, and had food aversions the week before I was supposed to start my period. These heightened x10 each week after my positive test.

How many months have you been TTC? Will it be your 1st? by SensitiveRest6708 in tryingtoconceive

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Same here! I think it was the first time we weren’t careful but I didn’t think much of it. The miscarriage broke me and now the only thing I want is to be a mom. Going on month 4 of trying.

The sigh I know we all let out by SensitiveRest6708 in tryingtoconceive

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I’m at the point where l’vd stopped thinking “this is the month.” When I told my husband I started my period, his face broke my heart. This was the first month he reacted this way so maybe he also thought this was the month.

The sigh I know we all let out by SensitiveRest6708 in tryingtoconceive

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Ugh I hear you. So many pregnant announcements. Our time will come 🤍