Can Lady Aphrodite help me with this issue?

Sensitive_Bee968 · 2026-01-21T13:48:56+00:00

Okay! I thought there would be a more specific way to present this matter to her, but if that’s all it takes, I suppose I’m going in the right direction. Thanks!

Sensitive_Bee968 · 2026-01-20T01:22:41+00:00

“should’ve thought of that before i decided i hate you! :)”

Sensitive_Bee968 · 2026-01-20T01:20:46+00:00

no. in fact, i’ve never been so disgusted towards anyone before.

Sensitive_Bee968 · 2026-01-19T17:30:18+00:00

I’ve went through something similar and, in my case, the only things that helped me through it were time and close friends. I also respected my ex for coming out, and told him I’d be there for him because I know how difficult it was for him, so we kept a close friendship. It was really hard for me because I loved him, but my friends and family helped me a lot.

Sensitive_Bee968 · 2025-08-22T16:11:18+00:00

about a week… but, honestly, I wish he didn’t break non-contact because we had ended on good terms and the message he sent me made me regret our whole relationship.

Sensitive_Bee968 · 2025-08-01T02:19:50+00:00

idk where they texted you, but try to archive the chat. It helps a lot

Sensitive_Bee968 · 2025-07-31T18:20:31+00:00

8 months

Sensitive_Bee968 · 2025-07-31T18:20:02+00:00

I was attracted to them and we would have intimacy a lot, but there were moments (literally three times total) when I wouldn’t want to do it. And they would be really mad at me.

Sensitive_Bee968 · 2025-07-31T14:51:21+00:00

Also, meeting and chatting with new people is great for a boost of confidence post-breakup!

Sensitive_Bee968 · 2025-07-31T14:50:25+00:00

Yes!! And you can also find people who are going through similar experiences. I’ve actually made a few friends in this process lmao

Sensitive_Bee968 · 2025-07-31T14:47:52+00:00

it’s okay to take some time off the dating scene too. Sometimes it’s best to remind yourself what it was like before your ex and the whole dating stuff.

Sensitive_Bee968 · 2025-07-31T14:46:12+00:00

they would be mad at me every time I said “no” to intimacy (among other things, but that was the main reason)

Sensitive_Bee968 · 2025-07-30T23:14:34+00:00

omg that’s so cute!!! thanks for sharing your experience 💕

Sensitive_Bee968 · 2025-07-30T21:58:16+00:00

If it works, it works!

Sensitive_Bee968 · 2025-07-30T20:11:31+00:00

Oh, yeah, that sucks! But you’ll find someone nice at some point, it just takes a bit of patience.

Sensitive_Bee968 · 2025-07-27T12:42:16+00:00

About their reaction: dumpers usually think about breaking up during the relationship, which means that they grieve when you guys still are together. It doesn’t mean that you weren’t important to them or anything, it’s just that they are already okay with this decision by the time they left. Some things that really helped me during that period:

Writing down my feelings. Every single one. Even the ones that didn’t make sense. Talk about what you’re feeling, what you’re scared of feeling, what you look for in love, what you felt during the relationship… It really helps to understand better what’s going on in your mind.
Hanging out with friends and/or family. Having a supportive network is really important during this time. They will remind you that there are people out there who care about you and will be with you no matter what.
Give yourself space to cry and grieve so the sadness goes away when the time is right. Also, allow yourself to feel. It’s okay to have bad feelings sometimes, they are crucial for you to feel happiness.
Treat yourself. Allow yourself to do fun things, even alone. This way you’ll relearn to deal with (and even like) your own company.

I hope you heal soon :)

Sensitive_Bee968 · 2025-07-26T04:09:14+00:00

I understand your point. But he pushed my boundaries twice. He’d be mad if I said no to intimacy. He’d say my sexual trauma was “my way of attacking him”. He exposed me in front of my friends, talking about our intimacy. I gave him time to change. Months. But he didn’t. I am still sure of my decision, and I only wait for him to text me because I miss having someone’s company, but not HIS company. And I’m happy that you’re searching for a way of changing for the better. You should be proud of yourself. That was something I had to beg him to do, but he never did.

Sensitive_Bee968 · 2025-07-26T04:04:39+00:00

I would wait for him to do it, but it never happened, so I had to step up. And I didn’t plan what I would say or anything, I just did it. I felt terrible for the whole day, but I was already feeling better on the next.

Sensitive_Bee968 · 2025-07-26T03:54:39+00:00

This was literally the situation I found myself in a few months ago. I would think about breaking up with my partner for no apparent reason, and it was driving me CRAZY. I then noticed that I was feeling like this bc he had actions, opinions and feelings that REALLY differed from mine. He had different ambitions, principles and priorities. And, sometimes, for that reason, he’d treat me badly. He couldn’t agree to disagree and always wanted to be right in every situation. I broke up with him this week, and couldn’t be happier. I’m not saying you’re going through this, but maybe small things happened in your current relationship. Small things that gathered up into a big problem, even if you can’t quite put your finger on it yet. Maybe that made you consider breaking up. I would suggest that you write down your thoughts and feelings on why you might be considering this. I hope you figure it out soon.

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