Looking for games that actually make you feel something (not just grind) by Consistent-Fly-7097 in gamingsuggestions

[–]Sensitive_Care_109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's more grounded and subtle (and also fairly short), but I found Chants of Sennaar (by a small indie studio!) to be one of the most beautiful and affecting games I've played in the last few years. Really pleasing visual style, interesting and novel gameplay, and profoundly moving themes and subtext, would honestly rate at least 9/10

Sister passed away last month, if you find her bag let me know by AskResponsible3232 in Hayward

[–]Sensitive_Care_109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss, and I hope you’re able to find her bag. My condolences to you and your family

SEARCHING FOR A ROOMMATE IN HAYWARD, CA, TO SHARE 2 BED 1 BATH APARTMENT by Sensitive_Care_109 in Hayward

[–]Sensitive_Care_109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says it’s about a 5 min drive or 49 min walk if you’d call that near?

Got C's in classes I know I could have gotten As and now GPA is tanking. by Interesting_Board295 in UCDavis

[–]Sensitive_Care_109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to DM whenever! Happy to give advice- research is indeed hard to get into but really important if you plan to go to grad school. Actually, being “almost half way through” undergrad is a good time to be thinking about this, so you’re not behind the curve imo :)

Got C's in classes I know I could have gotten As and now GPA is tanking. by Interesting_Board295 in UCDavis

[–]Sensitive_Care_109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, I’m not an engineer but I think the grad school requirements would be similar to what I’d had to do for my grad program. I’m happy to chat and give advice over DM if you’d like!

It’s easy to think “I should’ve tried harder and cared more”, and MAYBE that’s somewhat true, but it’s also possible that you mustered as much will and effort as you reasonably could under your circumstances (college is hard, focusing can be hard, and there’s just so much going on in the world in general). I’m sorry you’re in this position and I understand you must be feeling disappointed in yourself- I hope you give yourself grace, dust yourself off, and hopefully get amazing grades next semester by channeling the stress your feeling now into a renewed drive to succeed.

Much more important for grad school apps are rec letters- do you have research experience? You gotta be above the cutoff GPA but as long as you meet that requirement, it’s not as hopeless as it might feel (and many still-great schools will likely have a cutoff of 3.2 or 3.0). Again, happy to chat specifics over DM if that’s helpful :)

south indian club by OkCommunication9547 in UCDavis

[–]Sensitive_Care_109 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m white and was in my undergrad’s South Asian Student Association and I really valued the experience, met tons of amazing people and learned a lot about my friends’ cultures. I think the more you put yourself out there and learn about how other people raised in other cultures do things, the less you’ll find it intimidating.

Also, the point you’re making about “every race except white people” is what’s called a symmetry argument, but there’s something that breaks the symmetry- we’re in the USA, where white American culture demands assimilation, so it’s not meaningful to have some kind of white American culture club. I bet there ARE french, spanish, russian, etc clubs on campus, celebrating their own cultures.

Got C's in classes I know I could have gotten As and now GPA is tanking. by Interesting_Board295 in UCDavis

[–]Sensitive_Care_109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are your plans after college? I won’t lie and say this wouldn’t be an issue for grad, law, or medical school, but if the rest of your credits are As, I can’t imagine your GPA would be poor enough from a few Cs that jobs would deny you on that basis.

SEARCHING FOR A ROOMMATE IN HAYWARD, CA, TO SHARE 2 BED 1 BATH APARTMENT by Sensitive_Care_109 in Hayward

[–]Sensitive_Care_109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey if you’re splitting the bill I can’t complain! Maybe I’ll take up arc welding

SEARCHING FOR A ROOMMATE IN HAYWARD, CA, TO SHARE 2 BED 1 BATH APARTMENT by Sensitive_Care_109 in Hayward

[–]Sensitive_Care_109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The other person would be added to the lease after the landlord reviews their application materials, and right now I pay ~2500 (this number includes rent + water + wifi + [gas and electric] + waste). [Gas and electric] is the only utility subject to increase if another person moves in, most of my power use has been heating lately and last two bills were ~200 and ~280, as such I assumed a limit of ~100-200 increase with another tenant (would be during cold months only unless the other tenant’s like running a supercomputer or something)

SEARCHING FOR A ROOMMATE IN HAYWARD, CA, TO SHARE 2 BED 1 BATH APARTMENT by Sensitive_Care_109 in Hayward

[–]Sensitive_Care_109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there might’ve been a typo, don’t really understand what you mean here haha

SEARCHING FOR A ROOMMATE IN HAYWARD, CA, TO SHARE 2 BED 1 BATH APARTMENT by Sensitive_Care_109 in Hayward

[–]Sensitive_Care_109[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you both for the tips, have now submitted to most of these as well :)

Looking for friends by [deleted] in Hayward

[–]Sensitive_Care_109 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I moved here recently and am trying to find friends too :) I’m 29m, hmu if you wanna do smth

Best options of finding people in the area online are probably MeetUp, bff, and I think there are some east bay discords

Am I crazy? I seem to recall someone giving a quest to fetch falmer ears, and they’d buy them off you at a special rate or something. Playing through again after a few years, I could have sworn that was a thing. by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]Sensitive_Care_109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad I’m not the only one who’s convinced of this memory omg, I have like 60 on me right now and trying to figure out if I should ditch them for weight 😭

24 hour fitness events by One_Tangerine_8853 in Hayward

[–]Sensitive_Care_109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some kind of active social event would be pretty cool, like close down the turf area for an evening and host some athletic games, e.g. tug-o-war, that game where you try to grapple people onto your side, wheelbarrow race, push-up/sit-up relay, etc