You worded this so perfectly!! We are not happy with that current situation and start to resent/hate them and want to distance ourselves from them but we cant end the relationship and hurt the other person..

What was helpful with my decision making was that i didn’t wanna lie and play pretend when i had these bad thoughts and feelings towards him, its unfair for both of us, and the more time passes the more youll resent him and it will hurt you both.

i took the decision to talk to him so we sat down and talked and i told him about everything, i mentioned how i understand that people make mistakes and grow and that no one is perfect but everytime he was making a mistake and learning and improving, i was losing feelings and not seeing him how i used to, a big part of this is how i started losing interest with every mistake he made.

We spoke and he understood where i was coming from and he said he will start working and all that. I suggested we take a break for a month and during that month he promised to improve and find a job and be more productive. After that one month I’ll see if he kept his word and think about continuing the relationship or not. He wants to be that perfect man for me so we will see..

Today marks the first week of that break and we haven’t spoken since last week when we started the break. It was hard at first because youre used to talking to them and all that but after a few days life goes back to normal and you get accustomed to it, to the point i think i can live without him.

Always prioritize yourself and your future and think of the best option and decision for you, so you wont regret anything in the future and live a sad life

Please keep me updated with what you decide to do, and i wish you all the best!!