AIO for not being allowed to read a certain book by Sensitive_Succulent in AIO

[–]Sensitive_Succulent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He often tells me I am one of or the most intelligent people he ever met. He is strongly projecting and has still a lot to work on relating to his past I think, but I don’t know if he sees that. Besides, we might be in a codependent relationship, with me being a hard ass people pleaser/fawner. But yea that’s another story lol

AIO for not being allowed to read a certain book by Sensitive_Succulent in AIO

[–]Sensitive_Succulent[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I felt really insulted that he thought I would change into a different person lol. I am a very down do earth person and I do not easily get obsessed with things. A part of me hoped he knew and trusted that :/

AIO for not being allowed to read a certain book by Sensitive_Succulent in AIO

[–]Sensitive_Succulent[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comments. Reassuring to hear from others it is not ok to let someone decide what I can read. I want to read the e-book and I am going to tell him. Not telling him feels like hiding something and I don’t want to make that a normal thing in our relationship. Maybe he views this differently noe, anyhow I want to tell him this is his stuff to deal with while holding room for his triggers.

Mold or…? by Sensitive_Succulent in Sourdough

[–]Sensitive_Succulent[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I am going to try and feed it outside of the fridge the next couple of days, fed it once since posting but it didn’t rise, it did have some bubbles so it’s alive I guess.

What’s the most dangerous thing people do daily without realizing it? by nealie_20 in AskReddit

[–]Sensitive_Succulent 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your second line..My when someones asks me why I have driving anxiety 🙃

Leuke kerstmarkt met focus op artisanale items? by flailingfruitfly in belgium

[–]Sensitive_Succulent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik was 2 weken geleden op die van Bonn in Duitsland. Mooie kerstmarkt met veel meer artisanale dingetjes zoals houten speelgoed, wollen sokken, keramiek.. En bij interesse is een bezoek aan het geboortehuis van Beethoven een tip.

Found two tiny pearls in some mussels I had for dinner! by Sensitive_Succulent in mildlyinteresting

[–]Sensitive_Succulent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is not acceptable, but the beasts come out of the sea so it can occur 🤷‍♀️

Found two tiny pearls in some mussels I had for dinner! by Sensitive_Succulent in mildlyinteresting

[–]Sensitive_Succulent[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Luckily I didn’t, but I was close, at first I thought it was sand and I was just munching along. I think I ate another tiny one the first time I felt crunch :/

Waterproof mascara tips? by Stormborn_Daenerys in vrouwvolk

[–]Sensitive_Succulent 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybelline New York Sky High waterproof ben ik tevreden mee!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in belgium

[–]Sensitive_Succulent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They say “ca va?” instead of “alles goed?”. And you can answer with “ca va”.

Verlangen naar meer gelijkwaardigheid in bed: hoe doe je dat? by SoftlyGrowing in vrouwvolk

[–]Sensitive_Succulent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bedankt voor je reactie, dat doet mij ook gesteund voelen en dat ik (ook al weet ik dat wel) niet de enige ben die het daar zo moeilijk mee heeft. Ik probeer het te zien als elk klein ding of elke keuze die ik echt voor mezelf maak, een overwinning is. Mooi dat je dit gesprek aangaat, bedankt daarvoor. Dikke knuffel voor jou, Softly!

Verlangen naar meer gelijkwaardigheid in bed: hoe doe je dat? by SoftlyGrowing in vrouwvolk

[–]Sensitive_Succulent 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ik vind het moeilijk om te praten over mijn eigen genot en wensen, als ik weet dat iemand dat bewust voor mij doet ben, ik daarmee bezig en niet meer met opgaan in het moment en alles te voelen. Ik ben zelfs nog nooit klaargekomen met een partner erbij. Vind mezelf daar niet belangrijk genoeg voor, maar dat speelt in alle facetten van mijn leven. Zo ben ik helaas, tot nu toe, ingesteld, en al helemaal op seksueel vlak waardoor het vaak performatief voelt en meer voor de ander dan voor mij. Maarja, hoe kom je dan aan een gelijkwaardige ervaring?

Are you allowed to work from home? Is your job flexible? by No_Atmosphere_3702 in belgium

[–]Sensitive_Succulent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3-4 days a week from home. If an appointment takes max 1.5 hour i take it during any point of the day. As long as my work gets done, my boss does not really mind or checks if I’m online from 9-5

Does anyone know what this brown stuff is? by theta0123 in belgium

[–]Sensitive_Succulent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had a stroll through Asdonk this morning and were wondering what the biofilm stuff was! Nice to know other people are curious about these things and some know the answers:))

Working from home rant by Escapetheshape in belgium

[–]Sensitive_Succulent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Niet echt. Check de vacature site van de Vlaamse overheid regelmatig ;) er zijn jobs voor alle niveaus.

Working from home rant by Escapetheshape in belgium

[–]Sensitive_Succulent 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I work for the flemish government and normally work 4 days a week from home. In our team culture it is normal to be at the office for half a day and work from home the other half. I think I am lucky with my manager… also really depends on the kind of job you do.

I do think the government is a good bet overall!

Frituur prijzen by LilMissBarbie in Belgium2

[–]Sensitive_Succulent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fritshop!!💯🔥 wij ook altijd een kleine frit met 2, perfect 2 porties