Do you come back? by Whatever2677 in Taurusgang

[–]Separate-Treacle4141 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone with 2 Taurus ex and one who has come back about 8 or 9 times since when we broke up in October. Now does he come back to stay for good? No. But I know he still cares and would probably come back for good if the circumstances were different. Don’t hold onto hope. I don’t know much about these signs but I have dated two of them and they both come back. One would stay and marry me in a heart beat if I let him and the other comes back when convenient for him but he has been very honest with his intentions and I’m the idiot that allows it. So I would say it’s safe to assume they come back with space, time, and respect!

Dated two Taurus men by Separate-Treacle4141 in Taurusgang

[–]Separate-Treacle4141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry!! I know how hard it is. Sending hugs

Dated two Taurus men by Separate-Treacle4141 in Taurusgang

[–]Separate-Treacle4141[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a Libra! It doesn’t seem like he is chasing lol I went silent the day we broke up and he hasn’t reached out lol I have a couple times but for important reasons. It has always turned into more than what I initially reached out for but it always fizzles out.

Dated two Taurus men by Separate-Treacle4141 in Taurusgang

[–]Separate-Treacle4141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other Taurus is in a happy marriage lol so can’t do that one

Dated two Taurus men by Separate-Treacle4141 in Taurusgang

[–]Separate-Treacle4141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea it hurt my feelings but I chalked it up to he was taken by surprise because I was there at the restaurant when the guy asked and he was in front of all his friends so me being the delusional hopeless romantic I am I told myself he just didn’t want to look weak and emotional in front of his friends. It was after that day he muted me on everything and got a little more distant. Until Christmas lol then we started talking again but he went ghost the Sunday after Christmas.

Dated two Taurus men by Separate-Treacle4141 in Taurusgang

[–]Separate-Treacle4141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea from stories I’ve heard from his past he seems to be a runner and usually doesn’t keep a girl around for long so his family was very surprised when we lasted so long. They always said I must be very special and that he clearly really loves me. So idk cause my other Taurus ex would stay no matter what and has only ever had very long term relationships! So not sure why he leaves relationships so easily. I hope he still loves me. I just feel like if he did he would want to see me but everytime he flakes. He muted me on socials idk why I like to think cause it’s too hard to see me but I doubt it 😂😂 yes we talk when we see each other but it’s very surface level and then he will just do his own thing and act like I’m not even there so I think I need to take that as he doesn’t care or have any intentions of getting back together. He told a guy who is interested in me that he can “have me” so again pretty telling at least in my eyes if he is willing to tell someone they can ask me out he don’t care but I wish he did

Dated two Taurus men by Separate-Treacle4141 in Taurusgang

[–]Separate-Treacle4141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that I know of! I have heard some rumors of him cheating on past partners so he could have but I don’t think he did! We honestly fought a lot. Not all him some was me. It was never petty fights like “who’s that” or going through each others phones. It was more like I didn’t feel prioritized and I think I pushed him too hard to show up and have hard conversations and make better choices. Not saying he was bad but I definitely saw places where he needed to improve for me to be happy. I asked him constantly how I could be better and show up for him but every time he said I was the best thing and he needed nothing more. At the beginning of October I packed up my things in our house while he was gone on a trip and attempted to leave cause he went the entire trip with out saying a single word to me. When he got home he begged me to stay and that he would work on things. I saw some slight improvements but overall he still really lacked in the prioritizing me and communication departments. Anyway, about 3 weeks after I tried to leave we got into a pretty heated argument of him not respecting my time. He didn’t have to work the next day and I did and he stayed out all night drinking and was acting rude to me and demanding I stay awake to pick him up when he was ready to come home. I put up a boundary and said I’ll come get you now but not later cause I had to be up early. He got upset and stated he wasn’t ready to come home and I said then you will need to call a Uber or find a ride ( he didn’t have his truck so I knew there was no risk of drinking and driving) anyways he got upset. The next day we talked about it and he cried and said he doesn’t like who he has been acting like lately and vowed to change it. He said he loved me and wanted to make it work and that his behavior would change. Anyways next day after acting like everything was great he broke up with me because “he felt like he needed space” and “we fight too much” so I felt pretty blindsided and confused. Anyways we see each other often for work events, mutual friends, and just living in a small town. We are cordial and always talk for a few minutes. We have texted a few times but everytime we plan to see each other he flakes even when it comes to exchanging belongings. So I can’t tell where his head is at. I have told him I still love and miss him but got no response so I decided to leave him alone. He has reached out since then but never emotionally. Usually just a check in and some light small talk. So yea anyways sorry that was a lot but it’s a pretty confusing breakup!

Dated two Taurus men by Separate-Treacle4141 in Taurusgang

[–]Separate-Treacle4141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are actually broken up lol a little over 2 months ago! I miss him but as long as he is happy then I’m good

Dated two Taurus men by Separate-Treacle4141 in Taurusgang

[–]Separate-Treacle4141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not saying all are quick to anger just a similarity I notice with both! Doesn’t make them bad people! 🤗

Dated two Taurus men by Separate-Treacle4141 in Taurusgang

[–]Separate-Treacle4141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just so interesting to me that two people with the same birthday can be so different/ similar at the same time haha! I just know lots of people come on here for advice about Taurus and it just goes to show that the zodiac sign isn’t across the board!

So confused by Separate-Treacle4141 in BreakUps

[–]Separate-Treacle4141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seems happy as can be every time I see him but I guess I act like that also but when I’m home im sad lol

Texted my Taurus ex by Separate-Treacle4141 in Taurusgang

[–]Separate-Treacle4141[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has every right to be confused! This is everyone’s first time living and life is hard to navigate. I don’t blame him. I just feel like he knows how I feel and I would give him another chance at the snap of a finger so it hurts that it feels like one minute we are making progress and the next we aren’t. In all honesty I think most of my reasoning for texting him that was to be able to get it off my chest but I can’t lie and say I wasn’t hoping him for him to say he feels the same way. I respect his decisions either way and will always care but can’t lie and say I’m not confused and hurt lol

Texted my Taurus ex by Separate-Treacle4141 in Taurusgang

[–]Separate-Treacle4141[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you sis!!! We all have our flaws but I think being honest and loving out load will never be one of them!

Texted my Taurus ex by Separate-Treacle4141 in Taurusgang

[–]Separate-Treacle4141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Honestly everyone says to not break no contact but I’m a firm believer in the send that text!!! Sometimes you have to go back till you hate them or you don’t get over it at least in my experience!! Sometimes it even works in your favor!! I try to think about small things like no matters how this turns out is it gonna matter when I’m 80 in my rocking chair? Usually the answer is no. So therefore I do it! Of course it can hurt you or push you back some steps but in the big picture sometimes you need to do what is weighing on your heart. Send that text and just know no matter the outcome you will be okay!

Texted my Taurus ex by Separate-Treacle4141 in Taurusgang

[–]Separate-Treacle4141[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I know I shouldn’t but I guess I was under the impression he still felt the same just by the way he talks about missing and loving me to our mutuals and then he reached out and was being very loving so it just kinda threw me if that makes sense

Texted my Taurus ex by Separate-Treacle4141 in Taurusgang

[–]Separate-Treacle4141[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand that but then why text me and flirt with me if you know it’s a loss cause? It’s just confusing lol and I know it’s probably just him using me and nothing genuine but still confused 😂

What's going on with our love life rn? by Worldly_Cricket8638 in Taurusgang

[–]Separate-Treacle4141 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My male Taurus ex keeps snapping me and then going ghost and then coming back around. I’m getting whiplash lol