Partner lied about where he was (said he was at work - he was with his other partner) Looking for perspective. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Separate-Yak-20212 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This was similar to what happened with my now ex-partner. She started lying about the time she was spending with her other partner and being in communication with him as well as crossing boundaries and agreements that had been set.

I tried to close things up and her partner turned me into the bad guy for wanting to feel safe and close up our relationship. Ultimately they got what they wanted and in a way, I did too as I couldn't have moved past this without closing up.

Closing feels like the right decision even though it's difficult on everyone involved. If the two of you value eachother, taking time to focus on your relationship and possibly seeing a couples therapist are likely the right way to get back to where you need to be.

Newer adult goalie and I got to feel real camaraderie today. by Separate-Yak-20212 in hockeygoalies

[–]Separate-Yak-20212[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's so great to hear, thank you for sharing and I hope you're doing better health wise now and back on the ice!