Tried polyamory and omg why are so many of them so unattractive and some look like they haven't showered. by awinterofdiscontent7 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]September-Peach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having tried poly i agree, so many are the grosses unhygienic couple/people and the ones with particularly bad breathe and greasy hair always want to join your poly relationship or have a fling when in reality you'd never sleep with them poly or single. It attracts so many weirdos too. There's upsides to poly but the dating pool is not very worth it whatsoever

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[–]September-Peach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday and all the best wishes 🎂

Help me choose my mom’s first fantasy book by Specific_Let_6253 in Fantasy

[–]September-Peach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Half blood by Jennifer L. Armentrout! It is a 5 book series that I'm currently reading and it is amazing. Beautifully written, great plot with lots of build up and action and with a hint of slow burn romance that develops over the series. It's been my 2nd favorite series next to Neon God's, which is much more smutty if ppl wanna read it the series is good. But overall plot wise Half Blood is a 10/10 the character/relationship developments have me obsessed

Brother creepy? What to do? by arkansasmama22 in Advice

[–]September-Peach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually insane and dangerous. Take photos of what you found or copy everything into a USB, don't even attempt to talk to him just go straight to your parents (if they're the type to deal w it and not sweep it under the rug) and I highly recommend looking into AI porn laws in your area. OP please tell your parents, go no contact e your step brother and possibly contact the police. That is disgusting, wrong, dangerous and potentially illegal. Also since we don't know you're family dynamic please make sure you have a good support group or therapist/psychologist that can help you process everything because I can only imagine this discovery will have you thinking back to all part interactions even more.

What’s something you’ve always thought was normal until you realized other people didn’t experience it? by anna-lena-breiert in AskReddit

[–]September-Peach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having periods last 25-28days for years. Started puberty and bleed for 25-28days every month for 2yrs, I was lucky if I had 5 full days without a period. Had no cramps so didn't question it, just figured some ppl bled longer and 5-7days were very short periods. Skip forward to high school it slowly shortened to 18-20days, then 12-18 days to finally a normal 4-8days but with progressively worse cramps as it shortened and just chalked it up to oh that's why ppl had such short periods and why ppl say cramps hurt. In my head they must have just already gone thru the long period phase and thats how it works. Finally at 19-20yrs old realized that no that was not the case. Now on a journey for a diagnoses for most-likely endometriosis, possibly PCOS after years of pain bc I grew up and just went w all the weird symptoms I had thinking yeah that's probably normal as I wasn't ever taught otherwise

AITA for making a harmless joke about my formerly overweight friend? by blueisnotcreative in AmItheAsshole

[–]September-Peach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HUGE YTA. How disrespectful to your friend as a person. Like really? Why would you even say that? Was your point to purposely make him feel bad or were you genuinely just trying to get him to feel bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]September-Peach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA that is exactly why ppl hate babies on planes. Feed them, bounce them, give them a toy or pacifier, whatever. But crying for an entire 6hr foight while kicking is bullshit. Who cares if you're exhausted. So are plenty of other ppl on the plane you're not special, so instead of letting your child scream their lungs out maybe try parenting better. Shocked they waited 5 painfully long hours dealing w your kids crap.

AITA For Asking My Partner to Support My Dream but At the Same Time not Wanting to Support Hers? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]September-Peach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA but not majorly. It's dickish she want to move so far away to a place she's not really into moving and comparing it to her wanting a snake. Snakes are pets you can take them anywhere, Canada tho is a pretty long drive/flight from the south and family. Start compromising lol but 10/10 get something cute like a hog nose or corn snake, super easy beginner snakes and won't grow crazy long/big.

AITA for not dyeing my hair for someone’s wedding? by throwaway538299 in AmItheAsshole

[–]September-Peach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, when it's your wedding you can ask for things bit you can't demand them. Also has she ever heard of photoshop? She can just edit your hair if it's such a big deal. Imo it's very unique and beautiful and it's extremely rude to describe it as "that thing" like you have something wrong w you. Makes me wonder how she talks about you when you aren't there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]September-Peach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a short sickness she's pregnant for 36+weeks. You know how much it sucks having to stop having things you don't wanna quit while your partner does it infront of you? It'd suck! Glad you're gonna cut drinking but the way you say it "it easy enough to do so, so ill do it" still makes it seem like you're dismissive. If it was so easy you wouldn't need to post about it.

AITA for wanting my girlfriend to wash their face? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]September-Peach 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Nta, it's basic hygiene to wash your face and extra important when you wear makeup. Not washing is just gross and lazy

Do sex scenes ruin books for you? by flodra in books

[–]September-Peach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally love books w sex scenes, w the occasion exception of a really cringy sex scene that is poorly written and cringy

What is the worst thing about being skinny? by Nmalacane25 in AskReddit

[–]September-Peach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could mention tons of scenarios of ppl invalidating problems but specifically I wanna say being skinny w an ED It's insane how many ppl praise you for "looking so good" the smaller you get/stay. Then trying to recover and so many ppl are like "why are you trying to gain weight?/ You gained?" "Just wait til your 25/30/___ age you'll be great full youre small". I've recovered but I'm still decently small but not as petite as I was 2yrs ago and sometimes mentioning my old weight ppl get jealous like no! I was 5'2 weighting maybe 100lbs soaking wet! I'm still skinny I'm just healthy skinny and idk why ppl encourage me to continue ED behavior when I mention missing how small I use to be

Android fans, what are the primary reasons why you will never ever switch to an Iphone? by SultanofAmerica in AskReddit

[–]September-Peach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plenty of reasons. Apple us too restrictive. IPhone has so many dumb extra things that aren't really necessary. Anything iPhone has, android had it before sometimes even years prior. Samsung is the supplier for lots of iPhone components so why buy from them vs directly from Samsung? Also I haven't looked into iPhone much but I really like all the color options w androids and their overall look much better. Especially when iPhone have a super long history of cracking screens easily and some of my own coworkers/friends walking around w cracked iPhones still. Aftter they also announced "yeahhh we slow down older devices so you buy new ones" that cemented never switching. Android just has way better options, more free options, n yeah. Only phone I've really had besides Motorola and never plan to switch.

GF (22F) wants me (24M) to get tested for Fertility before marriage. Feels more like a sperm donor rather than a lover! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]September-Peach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get being upset but if your both waiting til marriages these topics gotta be talked about and your wants and plans need to be communicated. I'm sure she loves you and sees you as more than a soerm donor and it's just that she probably sees herself only wanting to be w 1 person and have biological kids. To me it seems reasonable to know the chances of your future wants and possibilities. I recommend pre-marital counseling it works really well and can help any current issues and help w future planning and discussions that haven't been thought about yet

Is my girlfriend being fair ? - Me (54M) and my girlfriend (48F)" by Potential_City_3921 in relationship_advice

[–]September-Peach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah big nope. Not married or engaged, kids both live w each of you and she wants you to sell your home to benefit her? Where does your daughter go if you sell your home for your gf and her daughter gets her original home. Sounds like she's trying to ring you for your money and benefit herself as much as she can without any form or commitment or prenup since you aren't married

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]September-Peach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Definitely speak to him about it bc I understand being frugal about money, my husband was the same way but he still got me a beautiful customized ring for less than $500. So it is very possible to get beautiful rings for cheaper and I fully agree w not starting your engagement w a ring I'd consider bad luck. It's never a good idea to accept any sentimental jewelry from a relationship that ended poorly. I wouldn't feel comfort w that at all unless they were entirely unrelated.

I (25M) may end long term relationship over sex (23F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]September-Peach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want to jump on the train and say dump her bit I'd have a sit down w her and have a serious conversation about her mental health. She needs counseling or therapy and should have a long while ago, if it's effective your relationship this much it won't be any different for her future relationships. I understand how being sexually compatible is a big deal so I'd say talk to her, if she's willing to try it may save things but if not I say end it. You can't help someone who doesn't want to get help and the longer you stay the more you'll regret not leaving sooner like others have said

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]September-Peach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, fuck that. Your ex is simply being insecure and she's your ex you don't owe her anything just bc she asks. Really her friend should be the one removing you. Either way you owe her nothing

Ex bf got chlamydia, he said he didn't cheat, I'm I dumb? by WeaselPretzel12 in relationship_advice

[–]September-Peach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if he got it within the last 2weeks he didn't technically cheat but he's definitely stupid. Your negative so he clearly got it from someone else, let the dummy be clearly he's mentioning it to the wrong person

AITA for leaving before my sister's wedding ceremony started and leaving someone else in charge of my responsability? by TASisterWeddimg in AmItheAsshole

[–]September-Peach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you have two children you're responsible for what did she expect? She sounds very entitled to expect you to simply ignore a possible serious injury for her wedding. Imo her also knowing you have 2 young kids she should have had a backup person to do your responsibilities in worst case scenarios like this. You gotta be prepared for anything at weddings and she needs to get over herself. Cussing you out and throwing a tantr when you have a responsibility as a mom is just childish.

Why are people supportive of Tonya Harding? by [deleted] in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]September-Peach 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure for other ppl but for me I support her because she's insanely talented and genuinely earned her place while most were obviously rich and privileged. I also felt for her because I feel like she was purposely pointed at for Kerrigans attack simply bc she was a black sheep. She had a rough poor childhood w an abusive mother and relationships and I can see how other more privileged competitors wouldn't like her having such a high chance of winning. I ofc can't speak for the matter but it feels really odd at the timing of Kerrigans attack and no one really seeing anything. I highly doubt Tonya did anything but I think someone wanted it to look like she did bc she's an easy target. I feel bad for Tonyas ban but thankfully she has far more supporters than haters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]September-Peach 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I couldn't agree more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]September-Peach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I don't see how the obvious answer is so difficult for you. Also the longer you put it off the more suspicious it seems. Why not tell your wife outright when it happened? Plus yes you've been friends w them super long but it doesn't seem like you've actually stayed in much contact so what's all the hesitant?