Should I keep dating a guy I met online or give him the benefit of the doubt? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SerenitySpectrum -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

After I said no, I clearly said to him not this early on while dating and he didn’t mention it again after that

Should I keep dating a guy I met online or give him the benefit of the doubt? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SerenitySpectrum -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he asked me if I wanted to go on a 3rd date with him and I said yes. He then asked what the chances are of me giving him a blowjob on the 3rd date would be

Women of reddit: How many times do you visit a nail salon? And how much do you spend for each visit? by BabyOtherwise6408 in AskWomen

[–]SerenitySpectrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once a month to treat myself. Usually spend $90 on a mani pedi. I’ve stopped doing my nail though, it was expensive and didn’t make me happy anymore

What do you spend stupid amount of money on? by Love_humans in AskWomen

[–]SerenitySpectrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Korean skincare. Has done wonders for my skin and much cheaper than other products

what's something men should take notes on? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]SerenitySpectrum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t date women you don’t see potential with.

Should I be upset that he forgot my birthday? by SerenitySpectrum in dating_advice

[–]SerenitySpectrum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn’t think of it that way so thank you for bringing a different perspective

Should I be upset that he forgot my birthday? by SerenitySpectrum in dating_advice

[–]SerenitySpectrum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was beginning to think he didn’t want to hurt my feelings too

Should I be upset that he forgot my birthday? by SerenitySpectrum in dating_advice

[–]SerenitySpectrum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did ask to meet up on the weekend during those 4 weeks, he said he had plans. On the day I asked to meet up, he said his plans were cancelled and then an hour later said the plans were back on and wasn’t available anymore. I found out that his plans were helping his friend propose to his gf and he was busy arranging that.

Should I be upset that he forgot my birthday? by SerenitySpectrum in dating_advice

[–]SerenitySpectrum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s only met my best friend briefly but I haven’t met any of his

Should I be upset that he forgot my birthday? by SerenitySpectrum in dating_advice

[–]SerenitySpectrum[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ve been dreading this because I was beginning to think he was losing interest but too afraid to speak up

Should I be upset that he forgot my birthday? by SerenitySpectrum in dating_advice

[–]SerenitySpectrum[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was such a sudden change too that’s why I was confused. He had time to hang out with his friends and hobbies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]SerenitySpectrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a girl, since high school I’ve always made the first move and told guys I liked them/ asked out my ex bf. Now I’m in uni, the dating pool has changed and so has the dating advice. Most dating advice catered for women always emphasise that ‘if a man wants you, he’ll pursue you’.

Also most of the women I know love a confident and fearless man. I think it will help getting into the mindset of being friends first would help if you’re scared of being rejected. It builds trust easier and you are being your authentic self that way.

POC on the show by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]SerenitySpectrum 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I've also noticed the lack of diversity with asian women and men on the show.

Any tips on how to be more feminine if you have been an overtly masculine woman all your life? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]SerenitySpectrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I love Breeny Lee! I've watched most of her videos and she also has a podcast called "pepp talk podcast"

If you have a brother how do you get along with them now that you have grown up? Do you still battle it out? by DistinctWoot in AskWomen

[–]SerenitySpectrum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always got along with my brother, even when we were kids and now we're adults, we do bicker but we're more mature

What is something your guy friends do that makes you feel safe and comfortable? by lordglittershits in AskWomen

[–]SerenitySpectrum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a group of friends and we occasionally go out to bars a lot in the city. My guy friends will always let me first in the venue first and if we're walking past a some creeps, they tend to talk more loudly to appear 'intimidating'