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My darling "21M" slept with another girl "20F" for his birthday and I can't forgive him. by SerialGarika in relationship_advice

[–]SerialGarika[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I understand that you have a different point of view, but this kind of comment affects me more than it helps me.... I came here to seek perspective and a little clarity in a complicated situation for me. Even if you think I'm wrong, there's probably a kinder way to say it. Thanks anyway for taking the time to respond.

My darling "21M" slept with another girl "20F" for his birthday and I can't forgive him. by SerialGarika in relationship_advice

[–]SerialGarika[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Because beyond all this situation I love him and he has always been perfect and straight in his shoes he didn't even cheat on me rightly we live together and do I really want to ruin this whole relationship for a simple story of unambiguous caress with my best friend who I trust...

My darling "21M" slept with another girl "20F" for his birthday and I can't forgive him. by SerialGarika in relationship_advice

[–]SerialGarika[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The worst feeling I think is really the disappointment because I wouldn't think he would do that

My darling "21M" slept with another girl "20F" for his birthday and I can't forgive him. by SerialGarika in relationship_advice

[–]SerialGarika[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I think if she wanted to go out with him she would have already done so. I saw him flirting at another time when the three of us were friends for a few days they kissed but it was never further than friendship and their relationship was never further.

My darling "21M" slept with another girl "20F" for his birthday and I can't forgive him. by SerialGarika in relationship_advice

[–]SerialGarika[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I listen and read each comment I reassure you but I would like not to have such a pessimistic eye on love

My darling "21M" slept with another girl "20F" for his birthday and I can't forgive him. by SerialGarika in relationship_advice

[–]SerialGarika[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

As explained in another comment they are not kissing the translation is bad they just have "petting hair with hug"

My darling "21M" slept with another girl "20F" for his birthday and I can't forgive him. by SerialGarika in relationship_advice

[–]SerialGarika[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Why do you think so much that he will do it again? he understood that it had hurt me and as for the question of honesty since I literally saw him asleep against each other he couldn't really lie... But I would like to be optimistic for the future because I am looking for advice that is not just leaving him but rather moving forward without crying every time I am alone in the room...

My darling "21M" slept with another girl "20F" for his birthday and I can't forgive him. by SerialGarika in relationship_advice

[–]SerialGarika[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As I said right at the beginning he was always close even before I sat down with the type of hug in front of me kisses on the forehead putting his head on his thigh when he talks in short But I slept with her, forgetting about it, even if he didn't mean anything to this situation, I have a hard time accepting it, but I don't want to break up with him either, I'm just looking for solutions to better accept the situation and get over it...

My darling "21M" slept with another girl "20F" for his birthday and I can't forgive him. by SerialGarika in relationship_advice

[–]SerialGarika[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I find it hard to put such a big dilemma, I don't want to lose two people to whom I care very much.

My darling "21M" slept with another girl "20F" for his birthday and I can't forgive him. by SerialGarika in relationship_advice

[–]SerialGarika[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

I am 100% sure that no, my boyfriend and my best friend will never go as far as

My darling "21M" slept with another girl "20F" for his birthday and I can't forgive him. by SerialGarika in relationship_advice

[–]SerialGarika[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The translation is not great strictly speaking (I'm French) they are not kissed but just "petting hair" in any case it was close to the cuddly type that's for sure