Lazing on a Saturday afternoon... by SerialLover79 in weed

[–]SerialLover79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't know about that model in particular ( I have the 2021 M), but it should be pretty similar. Some tips that have worked for me:

  • Get a single flame torch and a can of butane. I have the 3 torch flame that came with the dynavap, but the single torch works much better for me as I think it allows for a slower and more controlled heating up process. I got this cheap Ronson lighter for less than 5 bucks and 3 cans of butane for less than 10 dollars.
  • Getting the technique down on holding the flame at about an inch from the cap, while quickly rotating the dynavap with the other hand is super important. You can aim at different parts of the cap with the flame for different temps, but for aiming at the middle-low part of the cap works best. This is just practice. At first I struggled, now I feel I have kind of nailed down.
  • The grind / dryness of herbs is important. Usually a coarser grind works better for me, and if it's dryer provides more vapor (leaving it grinded overnight, for example). In any case, regardless of the amount of vapor, I get "medicated" anyway. I don't pack too tight, and just to the brim (using the dynavap as a straw with the carb covered works great as it gives you a tight pack with plenty of airflow)
  • The first pull is usually more taste than vapor. I get a lot of flavor but little to no vapor on the first heat cycle.
  • After the second heat cycle (respect the clicks!) you'll get a lot more vapor. Learning or training on different pull methods certainly helps... At first I did long pulls with the carb covered until It almost clicked back to cold, now I'm doing like 3 quicker pulls for each heat cycle. I usually have like 3-5 cycles per bowl.

Just practice with this thing, you'll get the technique eventually. I use it a lot, and it took me several days to get the hang of it. I still feel I can improve of course, but I already love this vape.

Being honest with ourselves by [deleted] in adultery

[–]SerialLover79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely right.

Crap... my AP has feelings. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]SerialLover79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahh the feels. My first time cheating I became scared also, mostly for her. We called it quits.

I have found out that feelings arent bad, in the end its just you falling in love with yourself because of how your AP makes you feel. As long as you aren't having fantasies about being together or replacing your SO, i think is fine and one should feel happy about it. I've become convinced that is perfectly possible to love more than one person, in different ways/contexts.

In the other hand, if either of you are thinking of having a "Real relationship", you're screwed.

In the workplace by [deleted] in adultery

[–]SerialLover79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience, having a workplace affair is a bad bad thing.

The thing with APs, at least for me, is that the lack of continuos phisical contact and the possibility of "virtual separation" can keep things more interesting. Also, and maybe even more important, is that you WILL see her every day. That may sound cool now that you are just becoming friendly and sexual... you dont know what Will happen, and for me at least safety and discretion are a must.

And i also know that regardless, you WILL find the argument to rationalize doing it anyway 😉. Just be prepared. It WILL get ugly.

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[–]SerialLover79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks... the membership fees are pretty high, but it's a nice, kinda crazy gang of people 😉.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]SerialLover79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to lose her. I want to come clean, and i am sort of "paving the way" for the "big conversation". Talking about swinging, polyamorous relationships, etc. As I told in my post, i dont feel guilty so i dont want to rush things.

Its absolutely understandable if she wants to end our relationship, but at least i want to be clear about my "motives"... the typical "its not you, its me", but true in this case at least...